I have the constant thought no body truly likes me and they all are just my "friends" out of pity and secretly hate my guts. Any advice ?
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Wally: Hi there! It's my first time answering one of these so I'm sorry if my advice isn't enough. Merry Christmas and Happy holidays though :). Anyway, once I started going outside more and hanging out with friends, I would wonder if I was a good enough friend. I didn't wanna trouble any of my friends. I had finally gotten friends and social life but I felt more anxious. Sure, Ruby's always been a good friend of mine and he introduced me to more like Sapphire and Emerald, (who I see the most since we share "custody" of sceptile) but Ruby and Sapphire are always together and Emerald just has an umm... rude? nature? I think? (I'm sorry Emerald :(. So it's easy to think you're bothering Emerald, but then again, he says everyone bothers him. Anyway, back to my main point. What you could do is spend the whole day with them. Whenever they have free time, hang out and if they're close genuine friends and agree they won't have a problem with it. I always thought Ruby, Sapphire and Emerald didn't want me around but they started inviting me to hang out more and occasional parties when we all became friends. And if all of this doesn't work, you can ask your friend if you bother them or if they like being friends with you. It's not a bad thing, you're discussing your feelings with a friend which is always good, as long as you're both comfortable. So that's my advice, anon, I'm sorry once again if it wasn't that good, I'm sure I'll be better once I've got more experience under my belt. Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays once again!
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Silver: Um, hi and Merry Christmas, if you celebrate it. I’m gonna be honest and say I think I’m only here cause it was my birthday yesterday and the mod didn’t prepare anything. I mean, I don’t care much for gifts anyway but whatever, I guess. Anyway, I don’t know much about bothering people since people usually bother me (I’m looking at you Gold >:/) but I’ll try my best, nonetheless. I think observing your friend(s) is a good idea. If they seem genuinely enthusiastic around you, then that’s a good sign that you don’t bother them. Recognizing genuine enthusiasm is hard but it’s not impossible. A lot of things like facial expressions, body expressions, attitude can give it away. Also, if they’re generally a good person they won’t be your friend out of pity. No good person would be someone’s friend out of pity. A good- no not even, a normal person would be friends with someone because they like their personality, have fun with them, and feel comfortable around them. If good normal people befriend others out of pity, it’s my first time hearing of it. So yeah, sorry it’s short compared to the others, I’m not too experienced with this and Green is calling me to go try her burnt cookies we’re gonna give Gold as a prank. Bye and Happy Holidays.
((Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to everyone once again. Just hang on there’s about a week left till this God forsaken year is over so stay strong everyone :D))
