all kinnies on here, this was originally an ask response but i realized it applies to more than one person-
make sure to take care of your current self too!! i get it, it’s hard to feel attached to who you are now. your body might feel all wrong, so does your situation. i get it!! but what you’ve got now is what you’ve got now, so try and keep moving forward, and don’t try to force yourself into a role you don’t have anymore.
think of it like this- as you get older, you change. body, personality, and living situation. sometimes you’ll start thinking like you’re younger, but that doesn’t revert your body or living situation back. you look fondly on the people you’ve spent time with.
so, yeah, kinnies. treat your current life and body like you’re a badass old grandma/grandpa/grandparent who’s having to get used to things changing. because change is the only thing that always stays the same.
-love, tumbleweed/wander/etc who has been slowly falling asleep as he writes this ask