Looooove aros and aces and aroaces. I was asexual before, I think it's great.
Been seeing A TON of posts recently where the sexuality is coming from a point of high ground, like aros specifically are passing posts around that are so high and mighty about how they don't put all their time and energy into one person.
You know that's not an allo thing, it's an unhealthy allo thing, right? It's like saying dog owners are horrible because they never take their dogs on walks. Like yes, it makes up some of the population, but it's overall considered bad and usually abusive
Your sexuality is allowed to be important to you, you are allowed to be proud of it, but it does not make you superior in any way












