Everyone says that getting married, it's all about you, it's your day.. But what you don't learn until you're getting married, is that basically a wedding is all about trying to make it as comfortable and as fun for everyone else. As convenient for everyone else. You feel bullied and guilted into things. It's so frustrating to not be able to do some things so not to upset people. To have to invite people so not to Upset people. It's just ridiculous. I tell Myself repeatedly that I need to just focus on us, and the main part of the day is that bit at the alter and the rings and just me and Steve..but everything else around it is one big headfuck. #endrant