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[tealty]

Me and Crushes

So I was asked to share what I am like with crushes and basically what I find attractive in a person. I had to think hard about it. You see, a lot of the time I won't recognize I have feelings for someone until I am confronted by a confession or if the topic is breached in some way. So crushes are what I would call uncommon for me. For example I have one right now, not really sure what to do about it though >~< Umm what I find attractive in a person? Well I for one am not a physical person, physical attraction isn't as important to me for reasons that to some are obvious and I'd rather not get into. Lets get this straight: I'm old fashioned. I believe in a man treating a woman as she should be treated, with love and care. Not with backhanded insults, or by cheating, or what not. Feminism or not, I like to hold the door open. I'm a romantic, I am fond of spending time together just to BE together. I like holding hands, sharing ice cream, laughing and doing crazy things. At times I'm the guy who will make a picnic for the girl I'm with and tickle her randomly just because, but I'm also the person who would seriously listen to her worries and frights and hold her when she needs to cry.

The girl I would be attracted to would not need to have overly special traits. I like long hair, mainly because its fun to play with, but a girl with short hair can be just as cute for that reason. I have no preference to skin colour, sexuality, or general appearance. She could be any kind of body-frame she wants to be and that's okay :3 I am especially fond of shorter girls I will admit. It's nice being tall for once yes? I love cosplaying and couple pairings are definitely something I'd do, even if I didn't really ship it. Which would be difficult because I ship everything. I'm not great at distance relationships to be honest, because often times they end up being so far away I don't get to see them ever. This is unfortunately true for who I have a crush on. But I believe that if I truly ever work up the nerve to let her know that I still feel the way I do, i'd want to try to make a distance relationship work. I don't know if she would return that sentiment however.  How I deal with crushes? I generally let them sit around to be honest. I'm not the greatest with relationships, I don't know what is expected of me because I've only ever been in a few. My last one was bliss, but its hard to come from that kind of thing and believe I will ever have a relationship like that again. especially when I already have few as it is. I just feel as if girls can do better than me. and, well, they can!  I guess to say the least I'm insecure as fuck. But I make do. I'm sure that eventually the girl I'm talking about will read this. But I don't actually know. She might not. I doubt she'd know its her I'm talking about. But either way a hint is that I'm a huge flirter most of the time, but with someone I'm serious about I will talk with them completely normally, I'll ask about their day, talk OTP's, everything, maybe some subtle flirting but not often. That's usually how you can tell with me. I hope this answers everyone's curiousity. TealTy