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Love in the workspace

One rainy day, me and Mr Fry sat in his office; and a conversation that started out as strictly professional turned into a talk that changed our beautiful friendship into something greater.

Mr Fry (designated daddy): You know mate, I just cannot be asked to keep up to date with students progress over the years they're at school.

Me (Mr Sizer): Same with me mate - cannot be fucking asked.

Mr Fry (designated daddy): Fuck it. We'll base it all on the SATs from year 6. Call it a Flight Path or some shit.

Mr Sizer: Oh my fucking god. Senpai, that's genius *smirks hornily*

Mr Fry (designated daddy): I know. Now come here onii-chan. *lust fuelled beckoning intensifies*

Mr Sizer: Oh Senpai *moans in expectation*

Mr Fry (designated daddy): I love your knobbly knees *licks lips*

Mr Sizer: Your ear-lobes make me so horny onii-chan *flys are about to burst open*

Mr Fry (designated daddy): Show me yer toes

Mr Sizer: *pulls out Glock-19 semi-automatic pistol and licks barrel seductively*

Mr Fry (designated daddy): Shove it up my ass *sphincter audibly loosens*

Mr Sizer: Yes please daddy

The above situation emphasises the need for a personal defence weaponry system designed to protect your anus from handheld firearms.

Firstly we will mount an LRAD 500X-RE long range acoustic device to your ass, it has a range of 2000 metres and is traditionally used to defend ships from pirate attacks but will work perfectly for our purposes.

Secondly we will mount an AN/SEQ-3 Laser Weaponry System, this directed energy weapon is designed to disorient personal on low power and burn through vital organs at higher powers, it is also capable of downing enemy air-craft - making it perfect for protecting your delicate ass from all manner of aerial threats.

Finally we will add a layer of non-explosive reactive armour to prevent attacks from guided missile weaponry, and a layer of 279 mm thick steel armour to protect against small arms fire. This will ensure your ass will never again be penetrated by semi-automatic handheld weaponry by bursting your attackers ear drums while simultaneously burning holes in their lungs.

Buy the bundle now for the low price of $69,000,000 USD from your local Walmart.

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This blog is long time overdue. Of course we have some of the greatest realistic painters in the Netherlands from the 20th century. Specially Carel Willink and Pyke Koch are well known, but my personal favorite in this genre is definitely Dick Ket. Ket had a short but very productive painter’s life , specially the last 10 years of his life he had a large production and made a name for himself producing beautiful highly detailled portraits and oil paintings.

His health was fragile, but had he had better health i am sure that his style would have developed into a brilliant abstract kind of paintings , since he experimented with cubism during his career which could have become the fundament of his abstract painting. What is left are some brilliant portraits and still life paintings that could be compared with the best that painting has brought us in the 20th century in the Netherlands. http://www.ftn-books.com is fortunate to have some dick Ket titles available.

Dick Ket (1902-1940) This blog is long time overdue. Of course we have some of the greatest realistic painters in the Netherlands from the 20th century.

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Carel Willink (Dutch, 1900-1983)

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Carel Willink, Self-portrait with Brush and White Cloth (1936)

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Ownership: I’m currently reading the book Extreme Ownership by Willink and Babin.  It’s about the lessons of leadership and owning everything in our lives as seen from two Navy SEALs.  

A reoccurring theme I keep coming across in books I’ve read is, blame. Whenever we have blame in our lives, we have a problem.  We want to blame circumstances or other people’s actions for end results, yet, that finger never seems to get pointed in our direction.  Basically, it’s easier to be dismissive of end results and not take ownership.  In another book I recently read, The Big Leap, written by Hendricks, he talks about when we start blaming, we have hit a personal limit in our development. 

So what am I getting at here?  Well, here is one of my take aways...

Blame is not productive. Sure we can point fingers and you may be right, but you’re also not productive.  Blaming someone in a relationship doesn’t help the relationship progress.  Blaming something or someone at work doesn’t help the task get accomplished.  Blaming a lack of sleep for your shitty attitude doesn’t excuse your actions or help anything either. The list goes on. Whenever we see blame pop up in our lives we need to stop and revaluate the situation.   Instead we need to take ownership of our actions, attitudes, thoughts, results, etc.   Here is an example.  You are at home on your phone checking social media and your wife comes to you with a negative attitude and says, “you’re always on that damn thing, and you don’t care about me”  Then you respond flippantly with some remark, “well yeah, if we had sex or did fun things, I would care about you and not the phone.”  Then it’s game on, you two are in a full on emotionally charged argument that never seems to get resolved.  The blame game did not work.  Dude, we’ve all been there in some way or another. 

Instead, if either one of you, or better yet, both of you took ownership, you could have had a productive conversation that would have allowed you both to connect and grow.  

Here is what I mean. “Hey honey, I’ve noticed you’ve been on the phone a lot lately, and it’s leaving me feeling alone and that you might not care.”  Then instead of blaming and justifying the use of the damn phone, the husband could check his ego at the door, and simply accept responsibility.  He is on his phone and that is a fact. The husband could respond with “ you’re right I have been on my phone a lot lately, I’m sorry it has left you feeling alone and that I don’t care.”  Right there the situation is defused and open for a growth, simply by owning it.  From there the husband could then express “ I guess, I’ve been on the phone more because we don’t have date night, flirt, or have an intimate relationship and it sucks.  What can we do about it?”  This is where the wife would also have to own that, which may not be easy to hear or do, but it’s the deal.  No more fucking blaming.   It’s simple, but it ain’t easy.  I KNOW!  Just think about it, if both sides take full ownership, then there can’t be a fight and the only place to go is forward.  Try it out and see how it works.