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#thefightwithin #lovevspain #thewaiting #winningislosing

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These goofballs have fun doing bike stuff and like including others. If you are Oklahoma (it's a state in the middle of the country kinda to the left) in November go do this........#Repost @theperryroubaix ・・・ From some of the jerks who bring you the Land Run 100, comes 69 miles of party ride. Registration opens Sep. 23 at 7:00 am! Website link in profile. Let's get rowdy! #theantirace #winningislosing (at District Bicycles)

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When Losing is Winning

When Losing is Winning.

  It’s all number games right? In the spirit of the ever-so reverent Jeff Boomhauer a la King of the Hill, he fucking nailed it…nailed it good. There’s a particular episode in one of the earlier seasons, where Boomhauer teaches Bobby all about ‘da game’ and gives him first hand experience of his methodology. In seminal moment, where I thought I would learn something too, Boomhauer went up to every single woman in sight and spat his game. I came away thinking “oh, it makes sense but come on…thats fucking idiotic.” But is it? SERIOUSLY…is it? Most mildly functional people would immediately think its either creepy or fucking idiotic. Boomhauer’s execution is in dire need of some refinement, but his attitude is perfectly spot on. And that my friend is some legit ass pussy control 101.

  The problem most men have with women mostly has to do with getting their ego hurt. We place so much value on our ego that it gets in the way of getting what we really want and need. We all want to be able to stroke the part of our ego that’s attached to sociality by showing off our prized lady-friend. But how often does that really happen? If you’re like me, you have experienced seemingly countless failures with women that you liked a lot only to get hurt at some point. You end up liking a girl for whatever reason, she makes you laugh with some well timed wit or perhaps you guys share the same love for some random song by Cheap Trick (Come on Come on is worth a listen btw). So then what? Cartoon hearts stream from her beautiful face and then BOOM, You’re into this girl. We have all been there, and then what happens? You have a couple of good dates or have sex a couple of times, then all of a sudden she becomes distant, doesn’t want to hang out, or you become straight up ignored and you never speak with her again only to see her weeks later with some other dude, who you automatically hate and chances are, you probably think you’re better looking or at least definitely smarter than.

*SIDE BAR* The inherent problem with dating around is the communication infrastructure. At least from a man's point of view, you never really know what a woman is thinking until its way too late. 

I digress here, Boomhauer did it right…he didn’t have an ego. He moved on to another woman without hesitation, forgetting the previous girl within nanoseconds. He took the loss. That’s all it comes down to… having the ability to remove your ego and taking one in the L column. He is so conditioned to take the loss, that his successes are epic. That’s one part of controlling pussy. In order to wield pussy control, you have to control yourself. We hold our ego in such high regard, its so personal to us that we end up not taking chances where we should or we end up having it stomped on by some girl who you end up hating because she got the W. But why do you hate her? Because you took her to a nice dinner or you were able to actually get inside of her and the moment you climaxed, you swore you heard fireworks. This is where it starts, this is the point where you remove your ego and embrace or at least prepare for the fact that at some point you are going to lose (…unless you want to marry the girl, if that’s the case…you can move on to another blog altogether, we don’t want your kind around these parts).

  This aint some quick fix that will take a few days or some shit like that. Im still learning it myself, and I was reminded of the importance of losing your ego very recently after I went on a couple of dates with a really cute girl that I would have loved to intercourse. I saw her with another guy and it hurt me… but then I got mad at myself for being hurt because why the fuck should I care? Its not her fault that Im hurt, its my fault and ONLY MY FAULT. Here the thing….shes doing her own thing…she wasn’t feeling me and she moved on. Good for her, she knew she wasn’t interested in me quicker than me.

Although…for the sake of venting…ignoring me was pretty immature and bush league, especially in a small town where I will see her again and again...not too savy on her part.

Anyway, I should have been doing the same thing as her. I shouldn’t have—as that black dude from 40 Year Old Virgin said—I shouldn’t have put the pussy on the pedestal to begin with. My ego should have been long gone on this one (actually it should have been gone when I was 16). But seriously, who the fuck am I? What makes me so fucking special that the whole world has to feel me go all Godzilla because my ego was hurt. Im sure I could get all existential on this one and say something about reality or some shit but no. I am a nobody…so are you…so was that girl. All nobody’s!!! So with that in mind…take that ego (which I imagine looks like a perfect orb of energy) and flush it down the toilet during your next movement. With you’re your ego gone you’re able to take these things merely as a loss and you will soon develop the habit of moving on to the next opportunity to play. Failure is success. Failure is a learned experience that will enhance your future successes.

  Remove your ego fellas, you will thank yourself. If you won a match…great!! However, I caution those to understand that the emotions associated with victory are fleeting at best. Ask any real gambler and they will concur. Celebrate but that next loss is inevitable. Take the loss and move on as fast as possible to the next one. Rinse and repeat.

[indietunes]

RANT: Just Stop It Already

 #charliesheenechochamberandnews = #alreadygettingold #winningislosing

Chances are, if Nancy Grace AND Bill O'Reilly are both "winning", then you're probably losing.......and it's already played out. Let it go people.

That is all.