#wynter rambles

[wyntercub]

caregivers need to take care of themselves too.

caregivers who take time for themselves are not bad caregivers.

caregivers who simply don’t have the energy to be an active and involved caregiver for a day do not hate their little ones.

when you imagine your ideal cg, remember they should know to take time for themselves alongside all other traits! you cannot pour from an empty cup.

[hellish-qt]

hi y'all i'm back, where are all my moots? 😭 how have y'all been

[wyntercub]

caregivers whose voices feel like a hug and comfort, voices that sound like safety and softness and soothes the sharp edges of adulthood into something smaller.

[wyntercub]

i see many thoughts on regressors with disabilities, but i think it’s also good to remember that caregivers can have disabilities too.

gentle reminder to treat your caregiver(s) with kindness and compassion too. they aren’t just your caregiver, they’re people with dimensions and that sometimes includes disabilities!

and having a disability does not make a caregiver any less of a caregiver! ive seen some caregivers say that they feel unable to be a good caregiver on here and that’s just not true in my opinion!

every little one needs something different, and while some may require care you’re unable to provide, there’s a little one out there whose needs match your own.

[wyntercub]

shoutout to the babies n kiddos who get clingy and weepy when they’re sick and don’t realize it until they’re mid-cry.

[wyntercub]

I love when im like “im so quiet, i dont really talk much, im super shy”

then once I am talking to someone who my brain deems safe im sending paragraphs of texts and rambling the entire day

and it’s worse when im tiny because my brain has no filter to stop myself

[wyntercub]

sometimes all it takes is to hear someone tell you “I won’t leave you” for the ache in your chest to ease up a bit.

[wyntercub]

so grateful for my life now…but sometimes just wanna be tiny n travel the world n see everyone’s culture n learn n explore