Even as an INFP I found your Typing STJs rather true and helpful. I just wanted to say that even if Te's lower on the spectrum like it is with me as an INFP, I too will seek out relevant information or answers to questions. Whereas my ISTP Dad will break everything down, only to get to the point maybe half an hour to an hour later, and my INTP sister who will begin questioning my methods and questions, and if that drives me crazy, I can't imagine how much it might drive an STJ crazy.
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I can see that happening, with lower Fi and I’ve heard similar complaints from my ENFP brother getting frustrated with my ISTP father. To be fair, this also happens to some extent the other way around to high Fe users when dealing with moral issues, where Fi users want to have lots of context on issues of morality and Fe users are just like “okay but this is what we need to do”. I feel like it might be heightened in that logic is more inflexible? But also I am a Te user and so it’s easier to say “this really annoys me” than “huh, I probably am very annoying to this other person.”
But yes it drives me absolutely up a wall. You know the Carl Sagan quote about how, to make an apple pie, you must first construct the universe? I mean, technically yes, everything is connected and the conditions that led to the evolutionary development of apples and wheat and cows and sugarcane and such all track back to universal constants and the fundamental laws of physics, but like...you don’t need to create the conditions for the evolution of the apple to make an apple pie. The apple is already there. And more notably, if I want to eat an apple pie tonight, I can make the apple pie now and learn about the physical constants of the universe that made apples possible later. I can in fact do that while eating the apple pie.
But I think it comes down to all functions have their frustrating quirks. Te can oversimplify and either end up having to brute-force a solution, or miss something important. Ti on the other hand can neglect to acknowledge that sometimes, you have constraints that make it unwise to try and understand every tiny aspect of a vast and complex system, or fails to understand that an elegant solution is great, but an inelegant solution to a crisis today is better than an elegant one a month from now.










