Wanna start off saying, this is not harassment, no one has harassed you what so ever during this, I'm telling the truth of what happened.
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My reply to this post:
I didn't "Adamant" to anything?? What does this even mean??
What "Reasons" did I find to not respect your boundaries?? When did I ever blame you for your personal boundaries, HELLO?!
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Context:
For context, this is what happened because you guys don't know.
My friend Corey (or Roach) asked a SIMPLE question in Xyliths server (Coreplace) because I posted a picture of my art (it was the binglarry one with Larry wearing a Santa outfit that I've posted here).
Corey saw this and asked: "wait, I thought we weren't supposed to post that here???" (Due to it being binglarry and also because he was told he and my other friends (EJ and sillys) weren't aloud to post stuff binglarry stuff by Xylith because she's a non sharing Larry self shiper, which is 100% fine.)
The reason I posted my art in the art channel in the first place, was because I was aware that I was aloud to post that because I was the only person Xylith was fine with liking binglarry and being her friend (in her words) "tolerated".
So then Xylith replied with: "well no, but i never established this boundary with the Ronnie, because he barely posts here anyway"
(Well you said before this a while ago that is was fine for me to be for friend (and like binglarry) because you tolerated me only.)
Then her other friends asked like: "oh well why can't he post that?" And stuff and she answered honestly: "Because I'm a non sharing Larry self shipper."
(Which of course is 100% fine. So then I answered honestly too: "Ive posted Binglarry here before uhh, I thought it was fine")
Since my friends (Cory, Ej and sillys) joined the server, Xylith said "at the time I ignored it because your like binglarry shipper here and also the only one I really tolerate, but unfortunately we have to make changes now."
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(Alright then, thats fine, but then we all just stopped talking about it.)
Kimmy (xyliths friend), was taking in (I think) the rant channel, and was putting targeted gifs and status towards me and Cory.
(For example, Kimmy started with the targeted Statuses with the first being "holy sybau".)
In the rant channel, Kimmy sent gifs of "why are you so negative all the fucking time" with the caption "Me to someone."
Another I remember was one of that one video by proximity chat where he touches someone in VRChat and they are like "I HAVE PHANTOM PAIN"
(VERY much so targeted at my friend because THEY KNOW he plays VRChat. No he doesn't have "Phantom Pain", thats not a real thing and we all aren't that fucking delusional to think we have that.)
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A day pasted by, Xylith Dm'd me.
(The screen shots will be in the next post because Tumblr won't let me put a them in one post.)
The DMS:
Xylith: "hey dude i'm not even going to lie, and i don't mean any offense to you or them, but your friends are making a lot of people in coreplace uncomfortable. i've been trying my best to stay on their good side and be welcoming but they've been acting very entitled from the moment they joined. this isn't your fault whatsoever, but i might end up kicking them because they're genuinely just. making me feel unwelcome in my own server, i'm not trying to start a fight of course, it just seems like they're staying in the server specifically for malicious or spiteful reasons"
(I was going somewhere that day so I had to be like)
Me: "Hey, I'm gonna be afk for like 2 hours, so don't think I'm ignoring you, I'm just not home, Ill respond when I get home, so sorry."
Xylith: all good ^^
After a while, I had some free time to be on my phone, so I started typing. As I was typing, she sent this. -------------------------------------------------
Xylith: "i do wanna say i am genuinely sorry i came off as rude when they first joined coreplace, and my friends were also very mean which i've been trying to at least understand where your friends are coming from, i just dont think things can work out between us and them. i just hope you can understand"
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(So I sent my message.)
Me: "Okay first of all, How is Cory making people uncomfortable?)
All he did was ask a simple question about posting an art piece, trying to follow the rules and make sure I didnt do something wrong and that he doesn't either.
Cory and the others have litterly done nothing wrong...
Ej and Sillys have said nothing?? Like actually nothing?
Define entitlement?
How do you and the others feel "uncomfortable" by them? They really didn't do anything wrong.
Like uhh, you don’t say something about your friend axel for absolutely spamming and shoving the Xylarry gif in corys face, thats not nice?
What if someone spammed a binglarry gif in your face, you wouldn't like that either and it's not nice at all.
Cory did nothing wrong and the others didn't either.
If anything, it was technically "my fault" for posting the art piece, Cory just wanted to ask a simple question."
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Xylith: "i did apologize for axel's actions. and i explained why i didnt have as much of a problem for you posting binglarry art and they kept pushing it. i'm uncomfortable because they actively said they dislike people like me, went on to vaguepost about me in their status, and i just don't think being friends with them would work out. As for entitlement, they asked me to make a xylarry channel so they could mute xylarry content. that didn't sit right with me at all i understand i absolutely shouldve responded to their question with more grace. that's on me, and i should've waited until i was actually awake to say something, but i didn't appreciate them making their status 'excuses after excuses' for trying to explain"
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Me: "Well you don't have to be friends with them? They can just be in your server they haven't done anything wrong or hurt people, It was just a suggestion, they didn't say you have too, You guys did the same thing too, but yeah it's not right for both of you."
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Xylith: "it's a server for my friends. it was advertised in my eddsworld server for friends i made there. and like i said, they clearly don't like me either so i just don't get what their goal is by staying"
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Me: "Sorry, then specify it was friends only Or dont post it there at all? Not trying to be rude at all, but hey if you didn't want people you don't know in there, then say that.
There goal is to be in a server with me, because im their friend and just talk to other people there too?
Also wanna mention that hey, you welcomed them when they joined, i don't get why your switching up??
Also it was just advertised in "servers you should join !!" not in anything else like, "hey private server for FRIENDS ONLY" So they didn't know that?
Also again, Ej and Silly's have said NOTHING, so why should they be kicked?"
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Xylith: "you say you're not trying to be rude, and i appreciate that. but i don't get why you're being so defensive about this. i don't get along with them, that's all. i'm not trying to attack them, i just wanted you to understand why i didn't want them in the server. we talked about why the block button isn't a personal attack, and neither is not wanting to be in a server with someone. the corplace server was advertised before they came in, and at the time i had befriended about everyone in the eddsworld server. they also have so many servers that they share with you. i have been trying to be kind and including to all of them, but it just feels like they only talk with you and each other, and just ignore anyone who tries to join in.
please just understand that i'm just trying to keep the energy in my server friendly and positive, it's nothing personal against them other than curating my social circle."
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Me: "I'm being **"defenseive"** Because those are my friends?
I'm gonna stand up for them because I care about them dearly, and I've known them for almost a year now, so I'm going to stand up for them.
They are **"only"** talking to me and amongst echother because they litterly just joined a day ago, also please stop dismissing that **Ej and sillys have said nothing STILL** besides talking to me and again amongst echother.
It doesn't matter that they have more/other servers with me, they just wanna have more with me and wanna meet new people?
Also no one has said that you weren't being kind, the things that was not kind was the directed statuses you and your friends did.
**Again** no one has said anything or being negative in your server, the only thing was that Cory was asking a genuine question about the art.
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Xylith: "i didn't brush that fact off, i said i don't get along with your other friends. i don't get why i have to argue about this, but whatever. your friends started with the directed statuses first, and the only thing i said in my status is that i was stressed out. like i told you, i've been trying my best to defend your friends even with how they've been overstepping boundaries, and i've been trying to keep this discussion civil even with you totally crashing out because i said i didn't want a group of people in my server.
but again, whatever."
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Me: "First of all **Kimmy** started with the directed statuses **(Kimmy: "Holy Sybau")** and my friends joined along because they're not going to take that crap easily.
Next, I'm not crashing out I'm generally standing up for my friends so why are you acting surprised that I'm talking with you?? Your the one who dm'd me and im gonna talk to you.
Next, if you **really** didn't want them in there you could have kick them without saying anything, **again they have done NOTHING, haven't stepped other ANY boundaries whatsoever**, if they did **Say it**, AGAIN **The only thing that was said was Corey literally asking a question, A SIMPLE QUESTION**, so I don't know what you're trying to say here??
They're literally just there and haven't said anything like I've already stated.
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(Then, Xylith wanted to act I guess you could say "childish" and send a gif of Raggy Andy and Raggy Ann looking around clueless to mock me.)
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(She sent a message with this too. )
Xylith: "oh my god whatever dude, we're not going anywhere, you're repeating points we've already going over. i know damn well they wouldve had you storming my dms if i kicked them without saying anything, thats why i was letting you know"
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(And the last message a sent.)
Me: "My friends aren't the type of people to do that. I've known them for almost **a year** and I know they would not have done that.
As I said, if you would have kicked them and said nothing, then we probably wouldn't have said anything about it and this conversation wouldn't have happened.
Yes, We probably talk about it in our group to each other, but thats normal, everyone does that, even you, but like I said i would have not stormed your Dm's.
Also you DM'd me first, so I don't know what you expected from me, did you want me to be like "oh yeah, you can kick them, whatever" NO?? Those are my friends and I'm gonna stand up for them??"
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(Then the last thing she sent me was a gif of Zelda looking around clueless too, to mock me, with the caption "EVEN SHE WAS WEIRDED TF OUT 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭." Then she blocked me and kick me, Cory, sillys and Ej from her Eddsworld server and core place.)
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Would like to mention, she was also Streaming our dms and I have the picture, I see you. 👀
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Look at my next post for the dms screen shots.
