idk but I feel that yoomin is kinda hetero normative, as in ppl only ship them because Jimin is smaller than yoongi and in some people minds 'the bottom always has to be smaller' I don't know if that is true, but it's just a feeling I get from most of yoomin shippers
LOL OH MAN YOU GOT THAT RIGHT COMPLETELY
tbh fandom has a problem in general about making things “heteronormative” about it all like, i remember once way back in 2013 i told someone i shipped sugakookie and they (a ym shipper) asked me “lol who’s the girl”
making homosexual relationships heteronormative is not only harmful and homophobic but you’re relating the stereotype that same-sex couples have to look and be a certain way to play this and that part during sex which is honestly just so mind boggling like don’t we already have problems about sex why do you have to add onto it? anyways like who the fuck cares about height or how someone looks it’s about what that person likes and how they act and their personalities
i honestly hate heteronormativity pervading into lgbtq+ relationships it’s so harmful and awful i wish people would stop doing it - it’s not just in ym, it’s in all ships in bts at some point (sugakookie too) and it’s honest to god one of my largest pet peeves
characterization is a kink, people