You are not disappointing others. Only yourself. We can make it deep, about life and love. Or we can simplify and simply say "Cook your own damn dinner". In this case I suggest starting to cook something like, instant mashed potatoes or polenta. Do not heat the liquid and stop in the middle. It becomes a thick paste of dehydrated starch and tastes like, well, think of something gooey and not good. Who cares. Not you! You are allowed to say no. Food is love and don't let them take advantage of you or something you enjoy doing. Hmph.












