When's the last time your OC hurt someone emotionally? What did they do?
For Ravi, Rian, ans Ysera :>
ohhhh boy this one is kinda difficult to answer LMAO
For Ravi: most likely, she ruffled Wuk Lamat's metaphorical feathers glfdgj. Their relationship has been rocky from jump and O'ravi's visceral hatred of Solution Nine - and Alexandria as a whole - did not help. Anytime they're there or it gets brought up in conversation, O'ravi gets really impatient and bristle-y and she tries to leave the conversation or, if in S9, she wanders off- and Wuk Lamat is just kind of sick of dealing with her prickly ass. The situation between Alexandria and Tuliyollal is delicate and O'ravi is NOT helping (she's not making it worse? but she's not helping!!). I think Wuk Lamat is also still pretty hurt by O'ravi not trusting her; Rian keeps assuring her it isn't personal, but that doesn't stop it from stinging, especially when Real Sphene isn't met with that same lack of faith (Real Sphene seems to have been a proven leader prior to whatever happened to her, and she also reminds Ravi of G'raha a bit, so Ravi has an easier time coming around to/trusting her) (which may not actually be fair, but).
I could write a whole essay about O'ravi and Wuk Lamat's relationship but for brevity's sake, it boils down to O'ravi seeing her ARR era self in Wuk Lamat, which she just isn't prepared to deal with and reacts very badly to. It really has nothing to do with anything Wuk Lamat did, O'ravi is just traumatized and lashing out about it :')
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For Ysera....I haven't actually finished figuring out what the hell she's up to in ENW and DT, so off the top of my head, the most recent moment for her is either at or after Mt Gulg when she screams at Urianger and berates his plan (or lack thereof). The gist of it is "THIS was your grand plan? Let G'raha kill himself? You gambled with O'ravi's life and now she's on death's doorstep, are you fucking STUPID????" and it makes a hard situation even harder for everyone :') not least of all poor Urianger, he's already having a horrible day because he didn't want to do this to begin with but there wasn't much else in the way of options- and Ravi is very dear to him so seeing her broken and bleeding Light is a nightmare, so Ysera going on this tirade is just salt in the wound. Which, granted, he feels he deserves, but still :(
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For Rian, things have gotten better between him and his family since ENW but he's still having times where he avoids them, but that's something that's been ongoing since ARR so I'm not sure that counts? Prior to that....hmmm. I'm not sure! I think the most recent hurtful think he actively does is break up with Kurenai at the tail end of the Stormblood patches lfkjhglkdjfgh. He says it's to protect her and to set her free so she doesn't have to wait and watch the horizon hoping he'll come home, he doesn't want to leave her bereft if he dies in the upcoming war- but it's a bit late for that, isn't it? She already cares about him a lot regardless of their relationship status! That, and he isn't trusting her, he's thinking she's not capable of shouldering emotional burdens and weathering difficult times alongside him. If that makes sense? He says he's protecting her- he's just being really presumptuous and unwilling to be fully vulnerable and unwilling to trust her. And she knows that. And she is not pleased to be treated like she's made of glass djlfgdfjkg.
(I might come back to this if I can think of anything more recent for him but for now that's what I've got!)
ty for the ask, meg!!!! /dote
