Hihi!! I'm kinda new to the shifting community however I have shifted before. It was sort of a minishift since I almost immediatly went back to my cr after I realized and took like the longest break afterwards but now i'm back!!
I did almost get there yesterday and i've been affirming, manifesting, etc for nearly a week straight now. Today more than ever since I had more time(just got outta school 4 the summer) I really wanna shift before I go back to school but everytime I maifest or get close I just can't seem to get there. I open my eyes and always wake up in my room or I fall asleep and just forget.
Do you have any tips on how to push past that blockage?? because it's starting to get frustrating.
So I have been thinking about your issue for a while and tbh I think I might know why.
When I have been reading about your experience something that I noticed it was the fact that you SHIFTED OMG! GURL CONGRATS! (I don't care if you came back, what matters is that YOU S-H-I-F-T-E-D)
But also... Maaaybee there is a tiny issue.
You see I think you have been focusing a lot about the process of shifting and not really enjoying it yk?
Something we have to have clear when we start again with shifting is that this process is not only about, "OMG I AM GOING TO MEET MY FRIENDS IN MY DR" OR "OMG I AM GOING TO MEET MY S/O!" But also a self reflection and knowing what works for us and what doesn't.
I want you to change your mentality of shifting into something more easy, you get me?
This is an advice I will tell most of the people who asks me questions.
Shifting is something about the inside and not the outside.
I LOVE that you have been doing affirmations, manifesting and persisting.
But what about the inside?
What I mean with the inside is the part of consciousness and awareness, when we are doing all this process of manifesting, affirmations, subliminals, etc... Is to be ABLE to help our consciousness focus to the reality we want to go to.
Like they are tools yk? To help focus our consciousness where we want to bring it.
(I think I have a post talking about this that it might help you, so don't be afraid to read it!) (Edit: No I don't I still havent posted cuz im lazy as FUCK)
And to be fair I TOTALLY understand how you feel rn, before I was able to shift I was used to say: January will be the month I will shift! And what happened after January finished? Yeah total breakdown, crying, frustrated and unmotivated.
I really don't know the reason why you want to shift this summer and before school, but if you are so hurried of going to your dr I will assure you that when summer finishes, you uh, won't be very happy, especially weeks before starting school, you will be so stressed. AND BABES I DON'T WANT YOU TO STRESS INTO SOMETHING LIKE THAT.
So let's change our focus into something different!
I will ask you (Or maybe you can decide not to) to change your perspective of shifting into something that is a lot more easier yk? No deadline, no time limit nothing, not like shifting is the answer to the universe nothing.
I will ask you to stop thinking like shifting is something of a ride or die.
Something YOU have to do YES or YES before summer.
I don't know your situation.
I don't know your knowledge in shifting.
BUT my recommendation would be for you to take it easier, like something more of going to sleep and wake up there, where you trust yourself that you will go there no matter what happens.
Because babes, I will tell you a little secret.
The moment you let go, or stop putting expectations into shifting.
You will notice that it is a lot easier than you think!
And I know it's difficult because shifting is something so wonderful and amazing that we think that it is a ride or die situation and something that is hard for us to understand because it is not something we are used to.
I am going to grab your hand while I say this. (You can either decide to not do it so dont worry about it)
I would ask you to take that deadline of shifting this summer and enjoy this process.
Just notice how wonderful the experiences of shifting are bringing to your life!
Did you start sleeping better after a shifting attempt? Have you heard things about your dr? Do you feel how connected you are with your DR?
Small things, small things that make you happy about shifting and stick to them.
Don't be frustrated by a failed attempt, take it more like a valuable lesson where you are happy about this experience!
And hey, if you ever feel unmotivated. Remember that you ALREADY SHIFTED!!
So shifting is something you already mastered looong time ago, okay ;D
(I'm not sure if I explained myself very well, in any case you have doubts just send another question and I will try to answer as quickly as possible!)