I've always heard it as pan is attraction to all genders and bi is attraction to two or more but not all genders. So they're not the same thing at all but people still get them confused and then there are some (like me) who are still unsure about which applies to them. (Sorry if this is rude)
Thank you for being kind about it; not rude at all.
I’ve just never heard it that way so it’s hard to unlearn (or learn more, in this case) other shit.


















