@shevni asked me to do this for samsteve so
who’s the cuddler: steve initiates all cuddling, but sam doesn’t mind except when in the summer and his big dumb supersoldier body is too hot and sam thinks he’s gonna die because of it. but steve defs clings like a really large blonde koala at every opportunity. sam doesn’t stand a change at night in the summer, he always wakes up with steve wrapped around him and probably drooling
who makes the bed: probably both of them. mostly sam because steve didn’t really get real army training and then spent most of his time sleeping in barns in italy, but the army still has it’s effects
who wakes up first: they run together, but probably steve. they’re both light sleepers though, so once one of them gets up they both are. it’s okay, they drink coffee and make breakfast together :)
who has the weird taste in music: steve. and by weird i mean eclectic. like he made his list and sam was like “here’s what you gotta listen to” and that kind of soul/funk/jazz/r&b is definitely very sam. steve on the other hand took a little while to stop listening to big band and swing (and probably making himself sad) and then once he did he was like “WOW THERE ARE SO MANY OPTIONS” and he likes all of them. johnny cash, juanes, aretha franklin, broadway (his favorite is west side story), lorde, heart, the clash, keith urban (embarrassingly). he likes to sing honkytonk badonkadonk at sam and sam laughs every time because it’s super embarrassing but he does a shockingly good trace adkins impersonation, which is not something he should be proud of but definitely is.
who is more protective: steeeeeeb. he worries a lot. but he also pulls a lot more super dumb stunts, so he doesn’t try to tell sam not to be reckless. (well, he maybe did once and sam just gave him a Look and steve had to concede.) anyway. it manifests more as steve’s usual “i’ll punch anyone in the face including myself.” so a little possessive and jealous maybe.
who sings in the shower: flksdjfoaig both of them. they do show tune duets across the house/apartment. the acoustics of their bathroom are great. (see also: steve also really likes the acoustics of their bathroom when they’re showering together if you know what i mean ;))))
who cries during movies: HAHA umm i think both of them again!! i think they both cry during the really sad parts of the sad dramas that get the oscar noms every year. you know the ones.
who spends the most while out shopping: steve grew up poor as hell so even though he now has more money than god, he will never be able to spend more money than sam, no matter how frugal sam is. those poor people habits never go away. honestly, sam probably does the shopping because it makes steve anxious.
who kisses more roughly: s t e v e :) steve is either being aggressive or needy and either way he gets a little rough
who is more dominant: honestly i think they’re both switches, so neither. they can both be dominant or submissive, it just depends!
gets jealous the most: hah, again, steve. generally speaking, sam is the more laid back one, not that it’s difficult to be more laid back that steve rogers.
one headcanon I have: they practice maneuvers with the shield and have a lot of fun and probably turned it into the world’s most extra game of ultimate frisbee. also, steve’s other attack ideas included “drop me on people from the air” and sam was like “do people really think you’re the greatest tactician of the century”
nicknames: sammy, flyboy, angel, probably something embarrassing about his butt. steve is mr rogers, grandpa, cutie, showoff, captain small ass
my rating of the ship from 1-10: 9/10 the only thing i ship harder is all caps