Play for more than Zuit
Sometimes hubby & I wind down the day by playing the card game we know as 'zuit'. Simple rules. * Get standard 52 card deck & shuffle them. * Deal 13 cards to each of the 2 players. * Discard a card, draw a card. * First one to have ALL 13 cards of any suit, wins. * Play to a set number of rounds [5, 10, whatever]
Simple rules & easy to play w/ a little bit of strategy & a little bit of luck.
We frequently bet. Clothes. Foreplay. Massage. Sex acts. Sometimes I even bet household chores [Hey! Getting a woman to forget her to-do list is a MAJOR step to getting her in the romance mood!].
I may bet a one minute massage & he may bet my bra. The winner can claim bet at win or at the end of the rounds. Sometimes I bet the same the same thing & may collect five one-minute massages at the end.
Winding down like this gives us a chance to talk about the day while we play something fun together & rack up a few things to get us in a romantic mood.
Last night, I discovered something I REALLY should have known to do for a while. It was inadvertent at first & then I TOTALLY used it for my advantage. We normally play at the table but last night we played on the bed. I just flexed my leg a bit & gently scratched an itch. My husband is a leg man. He noticed & his eyes lingered. Hrm.
Let's test how much he notices a gentle caress of my fingers down my leg. Very. Hrm.
While he was trying to think, I would just "unintentionally" caress my legs & subtly showcase them. He wasn't even close when I won the round. Oh yeah. I am going to take advantage of this one.
After having bet my underwear [I told him it was "Just to mess w/ you."], I threw the round. I made him watch me slowly strip it off from under my skirt w/o revealing anything to him.
In the following rounds, it's amazing how often my hand just happened to slide slowly up my legs as I was trying to "think" about my next move & how far it seemed to make it up my skirt when HE was trying to think about HIS next move.
I had him SO riled up. They were easy victories. Several rounds went by before he was actively trying not to look when making his play & asking me to stop teasing him like that. "Like what? Oh! That? Why it just feels nice. That's all. Is it bothering you?" It was pretty obvious after that, but he really didn't care & neither did I.
That is when I REALLY started to cash in my tease by upping my bets & claiming them on wins instead of saving them: "One minute of kisses on my legs." "One minute massage caressing my legs." "One minute of oral on me." Ect.
In one round he won my shirt [but not my bra] & my underwear. I won all the other rounds & he was putty in my hands.
I teased him & wound him up TIGHT, then I unraveled him.
Not going to lie, I kinda like the power trip of knowing everything that would both tease & release him. Even the sex positions I "won" were less for my pleasure & more to work him up. I had my moment of pleasure but I think I might have actually preferred the journey of making him so absolutely smitten w/ me that the night was filled w/ sparks & passion.
I've got to start doing that more. I think that wives, in general, should do that more for husbands. Imagine a world of husbands eager to spend a night w/ their wives playing cards leading to passion instead of just watching tv or surfing the net or doing anything else not nearly as entertaining. How strong & fast would the #TradLife family unit heal from all the nasty agendas out there if spouses were more willing to spend time together than apart? Just a thought.
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