valarr targaryen in love with you headcanons (sfw and nsfw)
cw: some nsfw, mdni 18+, afab! reader, fluff, mentions of sex, suggestive language
a/n: english is not my first language
ā” spoils you crazy. jewells? you get them. most exquisite flowers daily? you get them. expensive gowns? you get them. literally anything your little heart desires he will provide.
ā” courts you properly like itās sacred. constant, but formal attention at court
ā” is slightly reserved at the beginning and answers each of your questions very properly
ā” fights his every tourney having your ribbon or handkerchief tied to his armour. his every win is in the name of you
ā” once he decides he is falling for you, he is locked in. publicly shows his intentions on marrying you in every respectful way possible
ā” will escort you everywhere if he is sure you donāt mind his company, walks with you in gardens, sits beside you at every feast and literally spends all his free time by your side
ā” always notices what you like or dislike. sends for your favourite food without you having to ask. he lowkey knows how to please you better than you do yourself
ā” his self-restraint is inhuman. avoids any situation that could cause gossip or threaten your reputation in any way even if he is dying you touch you or to be alone with you
ā” he isnāt very smooth in flirting but much better than you would expect. his boyishness and teasing comments usually catch you off guard making you blush involuntarily
ā” sometimes he has serious talks with you, asks your opinions on politics, family matters and philosophy. he wants to understand you
ā” kindhearted banter is his love language
ā” he always makes you feel you are a person worthy of respect and not just a mere pretty face
ā” protects your public reputation with his life
ā” writes you a long letter about his obvious feelings for you, that makes you smile, laugh and tear up at the same time. in that letter he informs you that tonight he is going to ask your father for permission to marry youĀ
ā” shuts down quickly any possible disrespect aimed at you. even if itās a ājokeā
ā” once you are officially his betrothed he lets himself lingering touches and some physical affection (of course only after he is sure you are into it).
ā” kisses your knuckles, your forehead, occasionally lets his hands brush your waist and neck but thatās it
ā” would refuse to have sex before the wedding even if you begged on your knees because he respects you and your union too much to do it in a āblinded by lustā state
ā” folds at literally every kind word you say to him
ā” his gifts are very thoughtful. he literally surprises you more and more with his ability to make you happy
ā” very protective with a teeny tiny possessive strike. perhaps more that teeny tinyĀ
ā” speaks of you to others with such adoration, no one has any doubts about this marriage or his feelings
ā” intended to wait until the wedding to kiss you for the first time but most likely loses composure for a few moments and kisses you on the lips softly two days before the ceremony, wanting to have this private moment with you
ā” respectful to a fault. he is comfortable only when you are comfortableĀ
ā” he is more teasing and slightly more dominant in private. boyish charm quickly turns intoĀ authoritative dominance of a prince
ā” loves talking about your future together and lights up every time you even slightly mention children. the thought of you having his child literally makes him the happiest
ā” he might not be overly kinky type but there is pure passion mixed with genuine love in everything he does so it never feels āboringā
ā” he makes sure your wedding night is an unforgettable experience for you. lowkey is more focused than he is at tourneys
ā” he cares for your honor so much that he doesn't let himself even fantasize about you in any inappropriate way. it still happens, though, involuntarily, because his eyes always pick up on how your dress hugs your curves and how your corset accentuates the swell of your breasts, making his mind wander. he feels soo guilty after
ā” most likely, he even apologizes properly to you, confessing he had sinful thoughts about you. he malfunctions if you giggle or tease back
ā” he is genuinely so proud to be your man, and you are constantly reminded of it
ā” never fails to make you laugh and entertain you during a boring feast, whispering sarcastic comments and sweet nothings to your ear
ā” once you are finally his wife, he lets himself loose a little, and it is quite an often thing for him to corner you in the gardens and kiss you stupid
ā” enjoys bondage. for you and for himself
ā” definitely has a praise kink
ā” he is a delicious middle between rough and gentle. slow, sensual and attentive with a firm grip, commanding presence and occasional spank or bite