Heads Up Everyone.
Hello my loves,
It’s been a couple of years since I last posted on here, and to be honest I thought I would never return. I’m not saying that I’m returning to post continuously. This is just a one time thing. A lot of things has happened since I was last here:
turned eighteen
officially in my last year of high school
applied for University
had my first boyfriend lol
Just a lot of small things that add up to who I am now. The reason why I am posting is because I want to warn a lot of you guys. I’m not sure how the community is holding up, but gosh it really is something else. It’s a whole new world.
I am giving you guys a heads up because I came to the realisation that this seriously needs to stop, and yes I know I was in it and I understand your perspective, but I also experienced something I wish I didn’t.
A week ago a rumour was leaked throughout my entire school amongst others from other schools and former students of my college. Long story short a friend of mine ‘caught’ a classmate of mine and a teacher hugging, but from their perspective it seemed as if they were doing something else. A couple days later news of this incident spread across the school. Every single inch of the school including all of my classes would talk nothing, but of what happened. Even though the rumour was false - I could not believe what I was seeing or hearing. The things that people said was absolutely horrible. The way their minds worked to twist the story around, their hypothesis, and just small things that extended the rumour. Bare in mind both victims of the rumour are in a relationship with other people so not only were the student and teacher victimised, but so were their significant other.
When I first heard about this - all I could think was:
“Holy sh*t. This could’ve been me.”
Nobody, and I truly mean nobody supported the idea of the rumour regardless of it being false. It was continuous sh*t talk, and it got to the point where it spread across social media, and there are now a large handful of memes being made for the sake of it. A week has passed, and it is dying down but no one can ever look at the victims the same ever again. I have never seen anyone so distraught than those who were involved in this situation.
All I can say is please please please be careful. I don’t know what your situation is with the tc community, but for the love that is all in me please be careful. I don’t want anyone to go through what my friends and the teacher have gone through. If you can get out of the situation as quick as you can. It will be painful and heartbreaking I know, but coming from someone who watched all this happen and is no longer in this community...it truly is for the best. I’m not going to lie - I thought I would never find someone else to be happy with, but I met my first boyfriend (well actually I’ve known him for my whole life, but when I met him romantically) it changed all of my perspectives on the idea of love.
There is hope it just might not be him.
Lots of love,
Be careful xx
















