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Terra | It/Her | 28 | gender = autisticGirlCat();

[terra-nightgale]

Id like to stop seeing my sisters being scrubbed from the Internet for no reason other then being trans fem please.

[pocket-deer-belly]

really feels like the amount of transfem donation posts has increased lately. please help them survive.

[eshasunrise]

would it be tacky to link my fundraiser here?

[pocket-deer-belly]

this is the perfect post to put fundraisers actually, go ahead

[mothmanbignaturals]

I try to avoid doing this but if it's being invited and not intrusive, I'm in dire need of basically everything. Anything helps. Money would go to food, basic needs like clothes and vehicle repair so I can get/keep a job, housing, etc.

https://cash.app/$ElPonchoGrande

Anything helps

[capnsoapy]

A lot of people are so willing to disbelieve transmisogyny that they'll frame it as a privilege

[capnsoapy]

No, trans women aren't "immune to criticism for unethical sexual behaviour". They are actually overly criticised for sexual proclivities which is a bias you need to account for.

[capnsoapy]

No, trans women aren't "massively overrepresented in media compared to other trans people". They are actually almost entirely unseen because the caricatures and stereotypes used to demonise them are not in fact representation.

[harlow1898]

Petitions about Transgender Rights – Support Causes & Make a Difference · Change.org

Explore and support petitions about Transgender Rights on Change.org. Discover what people care about and take action on causes that matter.

A list of petitions and information if you guys want to shut the fuck up long enough to actually help trans people

[plaidos]

This response is so crazy because of how blatantly, openly hateful to trans women it is. the replier went on to immediately vaguepost about how trans women shouldn’t whine about the ways in which we’re oppressed. The post is framed as if it’s in response to Capnsoapy has said that trans women are the most oppressed trans people, but OP never said anything like that (even though she would be well within her rights to do that) — all she did was point out specific ways that trans women are targeted by transmisogyny and how that affects us.

This replier has revealed the smoking gun of anti-transfeminism discourse: even when transfems are speaking exclusively about our own experiences, with no comparison to anybody else’s, just mentioning the ways in which we are oppressed & marginalised is enough to be treated as an insidious transphobic force separating the community

All OP did was point out that trans women are scrutinised higher than TME people when it comes to sexual impropriety and that we are caricatured more often than represented in fiction. That’s it. Those two statements should be uncontroversial to anybody even slightly aware of the concept of transmisogyny.

So then why are trans women even mentioning our own oppression nigh-universally treated as nasty self-centred separatists? Why is it acceptable for people to literally misgender us whilst dismissing our oppression in the same breath as outright saying that discussing the ways in which trans women are oppressed is pointless & doesn’t help anybody? How do you all not see that as blatant, open hatred of trans women — you know, real trans women, who actually live in the real world, not the imaginary ones who never complain that TME people hypothetically support in their head?

To the average TME person, trans women are supposed to be pliable, agreeable, quiet if we are expected to be supported or helped in attaining our rights. Simply pointing out that we are treated with discrimination is enough to lose respect from a self proclaimed ally. We’re the fucking women of women.

[flareonfloof]

reblog this to pet the user you reblogged from please

[maidslime]

Trans woman in need of help!!!!!

tl;dr trans woman needs help paying bills, money for meds, and money for food!

Hi! I'm Mordred! I'm a trans woman that loves photography, writing trans smut, and streaming video games for folks to watch. I'm disabled, unemployed, I've tried for many months to get a job, but no where has given me a call back. I'm really desperate to keep a roof over my head, food in my fridge, and the electricity and Internet kept on since my husband (only source of income) works from home.

This is Dove.

I also need money for his food and litter.

I'm genuinely very desperate. And could use any help possible. I have been banned from PayPal and Venmo after a terf harassment campaign got me removed from both and ruined a lot of my life (keeping me from making money).

My only ways to receive money are with cashapp and zelle. Cashapp info below, DM me for zelle. If you need PayPal or Venmo, I could share my husband's in dms.

Cashapp: $thecatgirlprincess

[terra-nightgale]

hi

i have a close friend who is isolated and needs some help getting out of her current living situation so she can have time and space to heal and start hormones.

i'm trying to raise some funds to help get her a plane ticket so she can get to a place to stay, at least in the immediate future.

aiming for around 400ish for a plane ticket, additional funds will be spent on amenities she has to leave behind as well as supplies to help with some medical issues.

if you can't donate at least reblog? help a lonely hurt trans girl live? i'm really afraid if we aren't able to get her out soon she. won't be able to keep herself alive much longer. i really don't want to see her go...

i'm using my paypal to help forward funds so she doesn't have to put her deadname on the internet. linke here

[terra-nightgale]

we have 75$ rn!! thank you to everyone who's sent something

[terra-nightgale]

now at 230/400!!! halfway there!!

[terra-nightgale]

hi

i have a close friend who is isolated and needs some help getting out of her current living situation so she can have time and space to heal and start hormones.

i'm trying to raise some funds to help get her a plane ticket so she can get to a place to stay, at least in the immediate future.

aiming for around 400ish for a plane ticket, additional funds will be spent on amenities she has to leave behind as well as supplies to help with some medical issues.

if you can't donate at least reblog? help a lonely hurt trans girl live? i'm really afraid if we aren't able to get her out soon she. won't be able to keep herself alive much longer. i really don't want to see her go...

i'm using my paypal to help forward funds so she doesn't have to put her deadname on the internet. linke here

[terra-nightgale]

we have 75$ rn!! thank you to everyone who's sent something

[terra-nightgale]

now at 230/400!!! halfway there!!

[youmegravity]

Constantly accusing trans women of grooming is particularly heinous because you can use any genuine attempt to help and support others as 'evidence'

[youmegravity]

Sharing resources is grooming. Supporting each other is grooming. Warning others of transmisogynists is grooming. Making friends is grooming. Wanting a better future is grooming. Openly existing as a trans woman is grooming

[estrogenesis-vaporeongelion]

"trying to draw other people close to you in any way is nefarious and suspicious, because you are nefarious and suspicious"

[tamamoland-of-destinys-demise]

convincing someone to stop obsessing over and harassing you is grooming, we all remember that one right? where they started preordering being groomed into not harassing trans women?

[maidslime]

back on my old trans-mom blog, I was accused of grooming on a near daily basis simply for my efforts of telling 16 year old trans kids to not kill themselves. I was accused of grooming for helping adults older than me step by step how to get hrt through their local doctors offices or planned parenthood. I was accused of grooming for helping an adult trans woman escape an abusive relationship. I was called a pedophile for being friends with someone who was also in her 20s.

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

the fact that I feel the need to go, "and don't forget about Black people" is the most damning indictment of tumblr that I can give without being tempted to mention photovoltaic bartholemew. I have to browbeat you people to reblog any kind of Melanistic Mention. I love you, but i despair of you understanding the way I interpret your suburban accent.

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

13 year ago eminem (marshall mathers) said,

"I don't know how to make songs like that I don't know what words to use."

you have to do better than 13 year old eminem lyrics. stop treating people as a social obligation.

deal with it, talk about it, stop hiding it away in your private suffering chamber. do your communism dishes

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

you do this to me and ignore Black women. I am irritated with you.. resolve this.

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

Tears that are driven by white guilt are self-indulgent. When we are mired in guilt, we are narcissistic and ineffective; guilt functions as an excuse for inaction. Further, because we so seldom have authentic and sustained cross-racial relationships, our tears do not feel like solidarity to people of color we have not previously supported. Instead, our tears function as impotent reflexes that don’t lead to constructive action. We need to reflect on when we cry and when we don’t, and why. In other words, what does it take to move us? Since many of us have not learned how racism works and our role in it, our tears may come from shock and distress about what we didn’t know or recognize. For people of color, our tears demonstrate our racial insulation and privilege. I asked the woman of color I refer to in the opening of this chapter if I was missing anything in this list. This is her response: It’s infuriating because of its audacity of disrespect to our experience. You are crying because you are uncomfortable with your feelings when we are barely allowed to have any. You are ashamed or some such thing and cry, but we are not allowed to have any feelings because then we are being difficult. We are supposed to remain stoic and strong because otherwise we become the angry and scary people of color. We are only allowed to have feelings for the sake of your entertainment, as in the presentation of our funerals. And even then, there are expectations of what is allowed for us to express. We are abused daily, beaten, raped, and killed but you are sad and that’s what is important. That’s why it is sooooo hard to take. White Fragility, Robin DiAngelo (emphasis mine)

[terra-nightgale]

hi

i have a close friend who is isolated and needs some help getting out of her current living situation so she can have time and space to heal and start hormones.

i'm trying to raise some funds to help get her a plane ticket so she can get to a place to stay, at least in the immediate future.

aiming for around 400ish for a plane ticket, additional funds will be spent on amenities she has to leave behind as well as supplies to help with some medical issues.

if you can't donate at least reblog? help a lonely hurt trans girl live? i'm really afraid if we aren't able to get her out soon she. won't be able to keep herself alive much longer. i really don't want to see her go...

i'm using my paypal to help forward funds so she doesn't have to put her deadname on the internet. linke here

[terra-nightgale]

we have 75$ rn!! thank you to everyone who's sent something

[terra-nightgale]

hi

i have a close friend who is isolated and needs some help getting out of her current living situation so she can have time and space to heal and start hormones.

i'm trying to raise some funds to help get her a plane ticket so she can get to a place to stay, at least in the immediate future.

aiming for around 400ish for a plane ticket, additional funds will be spent on amenities she has to leave behind as well as supplies to help with some medical issues.

if you can't donate at least reblog? help a lonely hurt trans girl live? i'm really afraid if we aren't able to get her out soon she. won't be able to keep herself alive much longer. i really don't want to see her go...

i'm using my paypal to help forward funds so she doesn't have to put her deadname on the internet. linke here

[terra-nightgale]

we have 75$ rn!! thank you to everyone who's sent something

[faux-friend]

If something makes you feel gross and upset dont forget to hurt the person that has never heard of you before and make sure they their deviance is punished regardless of whether they've harmed someone. And dont forget to call up ur pals to join in

[terra-nightgale]

hi

i have a close friend who is isolated and needs some help getting out of her current living situation so she can have time and space to heal and start hormones.

i'm trying to raise some funds to help get her a plane ticket so she can get to a place to stay, at least in the immediate future.

aiming for around 400ish for a plane ticket, additional funds will be spent on amenities she has to leave behind as well as supplies to help with some medical issues.

if you can't donate at least reblog? help a lonely hurt trans girl live? i'm really afraid if we aren't able to get her out soon she. won't be able to keep herself alive much longer. i really don't want to see her go...

i'm using my paypal to help forward funds so she doesn't have to put her deadname on the internet. linke here

[paper-mario-wiki]

transitioning is like putting on the They Live glasses and seeing that 90% of people looking at you are either jerking off or furiously sharpening a knife. or both. and i do not mean that in a sexy or fun way, and i dont like clarifying that, but i know there's a 90% chance you are thinking it, because i wrote it while being a trans woman.

[paper-mario-wiki]

to clarify:

when considering the sexual violence against trans women, it's important to remember that "people only view us sexually" does not mean the same thing as "people only find us attractive". it means "people can only conceptualize of our existence within a sexual light" because that's how the majority of our coverage in media has been tinged in the past century. as a result of the chaste and patriarchal nature of modern capitalism, gender and sexuality are inseparable in much public discourse by virtue of propaganda, and as a result, a trans woman is seen as sexual because efforts towards projecting specifically femininity is only categorized as sexual. and when paired with the uncharitable perception of "man", that propaganda can often evolve how people view us directly into "sexual threat" anywhere, for any reason. i could be in the freezer aisle of costco looking down at the ground while i push my cart and i'd still get dirty looks for wearing a dress (this has happened).

when i say "they're either jerking off or sharpening a knife", i mean we're either viewed sexually, or as sexually threatening, in almost all scenarios.

[NOTE: AS WITH ALL MATTERS OF TRANSMISOGYNY, THIS ISSUE IS 100 TIMES WORSE FOR BLACK GIRLS]

[terra-nightgale]

hi

i have a close friend who is isolated and needs some help getting out of her current living situation so she can have time and space to heal and start hormones.

i'm trying to raise some funds to help get her a plane ticket so she can get to a place to stay, at least in the immediate future.

aiming for around 400ish for a plane ticket, additional funds will be spent on amenities she has to leave behind as well as supplies to help with some medical issues.

if you can't donate at least reblog? help a lonely hurt trans girl live? i'm really afraid if we aren't able to get her out soon she. won't be able to keep herself alive much longer. i really don't want to see her go...

i'm using my paypal to help forward funds so she doesn't have to put her deadname on the internet. linke here

[calamity-corner]

I think patricia taxxon should just be allowed to kill whoever she wants

[kitkenk]

wow my blogs doing really well :D