"She left me because I didn’t treat her right. She then gave me another chance but I still took her for granted. Now, she’s gone again. What should I do? I now regret everything.
Take the lesson and move on.
There's a quote (paraphrasing a bit) I've come across recently and found it very intriguing. “The more she forgives you, the less you respect her. At the end of the relationship, she cannot think any lower of you, while you are blindsided the break up"
In terms of my experience, near the end of the relationship, I'm past the point of no return. At that point, nothing can be said to magically make me stay. I have long thought about the breakup and now calmly finalizing it. Women often will try numerous times to make a relationship work. They will fight, they will cry, they will constantly explain their pain and frustrations to you. Every time her partner ignores her and continues to disrespect her, she makes a mental note in her head of it. That mental note is indication of how much longer she can handle being in that relationship.
Notice, when females are the ones to initiate the break up, she is very calm and focused. She's no longer crying, screaming, overly emotional. Nope, all of that is done. Now she is thinking 100% rational. One foot is already out the door, she is simply informing you of it. She doesn't care what you have to say, any empty promises you make, nothing at this point matters.
Every time you screwed up and she gave you a chance, was a temporary bandage to the problem. Then when you do the same thing again, the wound opens up again. Then comes a time, when she decides that she will no longer put the bandage back on.
All women have a limit of how much disrespect and abuse they can handle from their partners. As women go from relationship to relationship, they learn to draw the line sooner than longer. When you messed up the first time, she genuinely gave you a second chance. She loved you and truly wanted the relationship to work.
When you messed up the second time, she realized you two don't want the same things. She wants honesty, maturity and someone who is capable of learning from their mistakes. You wanted to play games.
Times up. She's done.
Take the loss and learn for next time. There are lots of women who will not give you more than a second chance.
Don't play games. You will not win"
