Going back into the void, but before I do I just wanted to get a little personal.
I want all of you who were ever manipulated by people in your youth to know that you CAN and WILL get better.
I know it didn’t seem like it while I was running this blog back it it’s golden years, but I was manipulated and groomed into believing that certain things were okay/healthy, and that certain behaviors were acceptable. I was a naive teenager struggling with childhood trauma and overwhelming depression. I was desperate for guidance and validation, especially from those older than me, so I was a prime target for these types of people. They manipulated me, convinced me, and once it was all over they left me behind. All that was left was my own insecurities, paranoia, and regrets.
But even if it was a low point, I got better.
It took time, but I eventually unlearned everything those assholes manipulated into me. I accepted that they were wrong and that the kindness that I thought they showed me was nothing more than deceit and lies. I accepted that certain things weren’t okay and that they should be treated with the amount of scrutiny and judgement that they deserve.
I learned. I healed. And I got BETTER. And you will too!
It will take time, but you WILL GET BETTER! Yes, you will have to think about it and confront it, but that is just a step in the healing process. You can get through it, and you will succeed! I know you will!
You. Will. Get. Through. This. Repeat that to yourself as many time as you like! Because it is true!
Sorry for laying this all out, but I feel it is my obligation to since I am an adult now. You guys deserve to hear this, because it something that you can never hear enough!
Take care, and have a wonderful life! There is a brighter future out there with your name on it!









