I do what I want

Genderfluid 24 bi he/they/she

[that-one-kiddo-in-the-back]

Hey there.

I'm Kiddo. I am a genderfuild bisexual that uses she/him/them pronouns. But mostly, he/they. though I don't really care.

I mainly talk about Lily orchard/Cd-call, but I'll talk about whatever I want. As the title suggests, I do what I want.

I do have rules for the ask box, which are: I will answer all the asks if I can. I won't answer if someone else has already asked that question or if the questions start feeling like they are going in circles. Also, it's a no-brainer, but I won't answer any that are dehumanizing to Lily or me. Everything else is fair game.

Don't be shy: anonymous asks are available.

Be shy: anonymous asks are unavailable.

Here are some links to other sights I'm on.👇🏻

https://www.deviantart.com/boop-da-flute

tiktok.com/@boopdaflute

https://www.instagram.com/boop_da_flute?igsh=MW05OWJmNTQ1ZTNyeA==

https://archiveofourown.org/users/BoopDaFlute/works

My drama-free alts 18+ @that-one-adult-in-the-back and all ages @boop-da-flute

[tipm-bluejay]

"trans men hate when you call them men lololol" trans men hate when your idea of affirming their gender is to treat them like rapists :v

your role in toxic masculinity and rape culture are hammered into you, primarily, in your childhood. unless you were raised counter-culturally, that childhood typically aligns with your assigned sex. Transmasculine people are coerced into a feminine childhood, and thus coercively assigned the submissive role in patriarchal society. Instead of being taught from an early age that "bitches are a measure of success, personal comfort trumps others' discomfort, you're entitled to whatever you set your mind to" (a la, a contemporary masculine childhood) transmasculine people will often spend that first, formative 1/5th of their lives as a target of that mentality. In other words, the most important time for grooming a future rapist is effectively missed. That's the difference between a cis man and a trans man, it's not misgendering to acknowledge that, it's just like, awareness.

Trans women in particular on here don't like that though. If trans men miss out on that kind of rape culture indoctrination, that means we, trans women, have to consider the time when we were being indoctrinated. Unless, of course, we start believing in an inherently good female spirit that you're born with, that protects you from all masculine programming via gender magic. But then... trans men must conversely have an inherently bad male spirit that makes them act rapey, regardless of programming.

Of course, that isn't how it works. Masculinity isn't rape, rape isn't masculinity. The association between masculinity and rape starts and ends with what programming you're assigned, and it isn't a death sentence. TERFs want you to believe that your programming is a permanent stain, and TRFs want you to believe your programming doesn't exist, but I maintain that it both exists and can be changed. You don't have to project your fear of being treated as a predator onto people who have always been preyed on.

tl;dr: Gendered soul theory combined with a fundamental misunderstanding of how rape culture functions (ie; the belief that all men are provably rapists regardless of circumstance) has people throwing transmascs under the bus to alleviate dysphoria from too much introspection.

[cdsillyposting]

1. Calling me the handle A HANDLE I went by for years and years

2. Anyone who criticizes me is wrong always abusive and basically mega hitler

3. Being rude to a famously rude intentionally abrasive and spiteful person that is CD-Call

4. Being mad when I am a massive cunt to others

[mossyfluorite]

Calling it now, Lily is going to make a homophobic post about Blake Jennings while calling him homophobic and transphobic because he mentioned her and her fanfiction negatively.

Oh absolutely, which will only be funnier when you consider the segment on her is like 3-4 minutes (in an hour long video) and Blake is very much a gay man XD

[thelilypit]

That's not gonna happen Because it already happened~

[werew0lfhours]

Ok, not usually the one to add onto a Lily post, but this has enraptured me.

So the video she is fuming about is;

Now why is she mad-

Ah...

.... in his defense, Lily; if you didn't want people talking about or using that art, then you shouldn't have forced - I mean- asked M'kay to draw that. It seems you've forgotten the first step of creation and being an internet personality. Anything you make and share publicly is open to critique and opinion. And people have quite the opinion on Pokémon Madhouse.

Now, before we go to what Blake said about Lily, I would like to say that Blake is openly and flagrantly gay, makes fandom and popculture content related to queerness, and is much funnier and a level of slay than Lily will ever be. The trans joke he makes ten minutes in, "I feel like there's a Splatoon joke somewhere in there, but I prefer not to make it. Because I respect the trans community.", is fucking funny. Lily using the word "foppish" is intended to be a derogatory term used against him for being gay. She is being homophobic, and by comparing him to James Sommerton is trying to imply he is a plagiarist because that's literally what we all know Jimmy for. There are layers here, like an onion.

She also said this;

This is more openly homophobic, Will and Grace was one of the first openly gay sitcoms, and just using that to describe a femme gay person then yeah. You're a homophobic asshole. Womp-womp.

"But why is Lilly so pissed about this?" you ask. Good question. You would think she would have a problem because he brings up incest via Oedipus- Why isn't she singing his praises?!

Well he's a gay man, first off. Second is how she is brought up.

So, this video is separated into the 7 deadly sins, and each sin has a correlating fandom incident, lore, or general personality in correspondence. Which sin is Lily on? Lust.

Which like, yeah. She was gonna be lust. Where else was she going? Actually, lust was a pyramid. Because.... Pokéfans are weirdly horny.

She gets mentioned after the Vaporeon copypasta. And it's not even her. It's fucking G.

G, her sister Pokémon. The Gardevior.

He calls her a colorful character but refuses to bring up her being a pedophile, incestuous rapist, and wanna be dog fucker in order to move on. He refers to the Poké Mad House lore to being as convoluted as the Zelda timeline. Refers to it as a "Slice of Life Romantic Comedy/ Occasionally Extremely Dark Sitcom" (We love a tonal shift). And, funniest enough, refers to the mating bond as Jacob fucking imprinting on Nessie. He also brings up Bonnie while also pointing out how Liky and M'kay are dating and ends it with, "and they said Modern Family was progressive."

That's it. It's so tame. Not to say the Twilight reference didn't fucking kill me. But that was it. And even then, the comments aren't bad either.

THATS FUCKING IT! AND SHE IS SO PISSED ABOUT THIS!

So yeah, that's why she's mad and being homophobic. This is embarrassing, and I am loving it. Great video by Blake. Go watch and support him and his researcher!

[terror-of-the-disaffected]

You’re right about mousidy. ISFF also posted showing that they’re mutuals (mousidy eagerly welcoming her back + the little purple mutuals marker) AND her project specifically allows all trans women to submit EXCEPT for trans women who have been assaulted by other trans women. “TFVP” states that it’s only for TMA people assaulted by TME people. It’s extremely fucked up to run a platform for rape survivors but then go out of your way to filter a specific category of them who you refuse to platform. The chilling effect is so obvious.

That plus her being apparently-cordial mutuals with a person who actively defends and associates with specific transfems who have raped other transfems (Sophie McAllister/sophie-frm-mars and storyweavingspider/Anonsee for two) is so, so fucked up for someone running this project to do.

My heart goes out to any and all transfems, especially sapphic ones, who’ve been negatively affected by this rape apologia or their exclusion from TFVP.

i checked and confirmed and yeah, you can only submit if you're TMA affected by someone TME.

"sorry survivors of abuse from TMA people, your abuse isn't good enough for my project about raising awareness of sexual abuse towards TMA people! please get abused the right way next time!..."

the willful community negligence of keeping predators out of our spaces combined with the sentiment that speaking out about them within our groups is a form of harassment, it's just so clear that there are too many transmisogynists who see being a trans woman as being incapable of causing harm.

the obvious conflict of interest with being mutuals and at worst active friends with abusers and apologists too... how does anyone carry that cognitive dissonance without just breaking down?

really shameful project. i wish it were a case of it "not being good enough," ineffective just by virtue of circumstance or lack of experience, rather than ineffective by virtue of denying the usefulness of the concept itself.

the idea for the project, taken seriously, would be nice.

[britts-galaxy-brain]

It's because it's not and never was about the transfem community as a whole. These types of people are just actual predators that have found a niche they can wedge themselves into and corrupt the commonly used ideals and language for their own benefit.

People like Lily Orchard, Patricia Taxxon, Pocket Deer Belly, ISFF, Mousidy, Sophie, Anonsee, ect DO NOT CARE ABOUT TRANSMISOGYNY OR TRANSFEMS OR ANYONE ELSE.

They need people to BELIEVE they do because that's how they lure in victims.

[terror-of-the-disaffected]

You’re right about mousidy. ISFF also posted showing that they’re mutuals (mousidy eagerly welcoming her back + the little purple mutuals marker) AND her project specifically allows all trans women to submit EXCEPT for trans women who have been assaulted by other trans women. “TFVP” states that it’s only for TMA people assaulted by TME people. It’s extremely fucked up to run a platform for rape survivors but then go out of your way to filter a specific category of them who you refuse to platform. The chilling effect is so obvious.

That plus her being apparently-cordial mutuals with a person who actively defends and associates with specific transfems who have raped other transfems (Sophie McAllister/sophie-frm-mars and storyweavingspider/Anonsee for two) is so, so fucked up for someone running this project to do.

My heart goes out to any and all transfems, especially sapphic ones, who’ve been negatively affected by this rape apologia or their exclusion from TFVP.

i checked and confirmed and yeah, you can only submit if you're TMA affected by someone TME.

"sorry survivors of abuse from TMA people, your abuse isn't good enough for my project about raising awareness of sexual abuse towards TMA people! please get abused the right way next time!..."

the willful community negligence of keeping predators out of our spaces combined with the sentiment that speaking out about them within our groups is a form of harassment, it's just so clear that there are too many transmisogynists who see being a trans woman as being incapable of causing harm.

the obvious conflict of interest with being mutuals and at worst active friends with abusers and apologists too... how does anyone carry that cognitive dissonance without just breaking down?

really shameful project. i wish it were a case of it "not being good enough," ineffective just by virtue of circumstance or lack of experience, rather than ineffective by virtue of denying the usefulness of the concept itself.

the idea for the project, taken seriously, would be nice.

[britts-galaxy-brain]

It's because it's not and never was about the transfem community as a whole. These types of people are just actual predators that have found a niche they can wedge themselves into and corrupt the commonly used ideals and language for their own benefit.

People like Lily Orchard, Patricia Taxxon, Pocket Deer Belly, ISFF, Mousidy, Sophie, Anonsee, ect DO NOT CARE ABOUT TRANSMISOGYNY OR TRANSFEMS OR ANYONE ELSE.

They need people to BELIEVE they do because that's how they lure in victims.

[brunossan]

It was not in my bingo that Ishtanya, one of CD most loyal mutuals, would reblog me.

It was so random.

[that-one-kiddo-in-the-back]

Fair warning ⚠️

She's the dumbest of them.

[that-one-kiddo-in-the-back]

Wow! that's no good

I remember this one psa where it was different moments people are bound to experience at least once. One is a group of college boys taking clothes off an obviously drunk girl one of the boys turns to the camera and thanks them for not stepping in it then cuts to a woman at her desk working when a man comes up from behind her and starts rubbing her shoulders she does tell him to stop but she's clearly uncomfortable the man giving the unconscious message looks at the camera and says "thanks for minding your own business."

Do you get what I'm saying?

The "mind your own business" is for things that doesn't hurt/bother anyone i.e. kids loitering or someone stealing food and water not fucking incest (I can only assume that's what she's talking about)

[thelilypit]

Yeah no sorry, this Blake Jennings situation is too funny, I can't just let it slide. To recap, Blake (a gay youtuber who got famous from videos about "what your fave character/romance/spotify playlist says about you" and "which characters can say F****t") made a long form vid on various controversies in the Pokemon fandom, and spent a couple minutes summarizing Pokemadhouse therein. Lily retorts with this astounding clapback:

OTAKU JAMES SOMERTON.

You know, like James Somerton? the gay youtuber who got caught stealing a ton of content for his vids? That guy? Gee, why would you associate Blake Jennings with stealing video content?

OH WAIT.

[wolfhoundwitch]

I don't fuck with so-called witches who use generative AI.

We work with the Earth and ancient energies and entities that will be here long after we're gone.

Working with these energies while participating in the destruction of land and resources for a silly little picture is embarrassing.

[mossyfluorite]

There is generally something so disturbingly psychotic that Lily Orchard just abhors Pacifism and calls it cowardice to be unwilling to harm or kill.

Or like, cultures based around concepts of harmony and doing no harm and enlightenment (such as the Air Nomads, that share a lot of similarities with buddhist monks)

I know it's because she abhors the spiritual aspect of the cultural aspect and because she's just a violent person at her core. She is a product of violence and let that take root as a survival tactic that she just refuses to let go of or move past later in life.

And like, in some situations that is helpful, I'm not saying it's not. But the fact that Lily clearly seems to think anyone whose default is Diplomacy or De-escelation instead of just punching the issue is....

Frankly very disturbing and I can only imagine how she resolves personal disputes.

[britts-galaxy-brain]

There's also the fact that violence is a fetish for her.

The mind-break mechanics in her rpgmaker games. The extreme domestic abuse in Stockholm. Her disturbing reading of The Handmaid's Tale where she accused That One Scene of being intentionally shot to be arousing (it was a viscerally disturbing rape scene), the many examples of rape and mind break in her porn accounts..

She abhors pacifism because it doesn't get her off.

[that-one-kiddo-in-the-back]

How is pdb TMA?

How is pdb TMA?

How is pdb TMA?

[the-black-day]

They are only "TMA" because they got a ton of shit for calling transmascs privileged oppressors and changed their pronouns to take the heat off themself. Allegedly...

[that-one-kiddo-in-the-back]

Okay so its the same bullshit they pulled when they said they were a trans man?

I love this loser.

[that-one-kiddo-in-the-back]

Do you hate AI? Do you wish data centers would be stomped to the ground by gorilla?

Well here's a petition to stop one from being build by a fucking zoo.

Sign the Petition

Nashville Zoo Says No to Proposed Data Center

Give the water to the animals not the AI

[mostcertainlynotcis]

the word "transandrophobia" does not imply a systemic hatred of men it implies a systemic hatred of trans men. notice that prefix? trans? we're not talking about cis men here, stop changing the subject. we're talking about the systemic oppression of trans men.

[that-one-kiddo-in-the-back]

I guess its time to remind everyone.

While I don't like Lily or anyone else like her. I will NOT tolerate ANYONE misgendering her.

Misgendering will lead to immediate blocking. Lily, Patricia, and ISFF are all she/her

[that-one-kiddo-in-the-back]

I’m pretty sure Lily doesn’t get that NO ONE wants to be an Avatar except baby Korra before the world slapped her in the face with reality.

“Oh my Avatar is unique because she hates being the Avatar and doesn’t do her job”

-Stares at Aang fleeing from the air temple and his duties

-Kyoshi actively hating that she was the real one instead of Yun

-Korra going through a deep depression after her multiple near deaths and recovery period

Lily wanted to make a less interesting Kyoshi and add incest into the mix.

[that-one-kiddo-in-the-back]

I’ve even brought this up to Lily but holy shit. Aang killing Ozai kills one of the few pieces of his airbender culture he has left.

Yancheng saying ‘hey your role as Avatar is more important than your culture’ was important. By becoming a fully realized Avatar, you’re no longer just a member of your people.

You’re the embodiment of balance and harmony to the nations.

Aang being able to do both, and body slam Ozai into having no bending, while keeping his last few pieces of his culture alive is a victory.

Plus he just took one of the most powerful men in the world, said ‘the hell you are’, and took away his bending as the embodiment of balance. That sends a bigger message than just killing him.

Lily is the same dumb ass who also thinks Batman should kill the Joker.

She's not looking at the moral values of the characters. She's not looking at Batman and thinking, "Maybe Batman doesn't want to kill someone because that would be the end of Bruce." Or "Maybe Aang doesn't want to kill because that would be completely turning his back on a culture that doesn't exist."

She's also forgetting that Avatar is first and foremost a children's show.