THAT looks like it hurts...

Because really great sex should hurt. Sometimes a little bit, sometimes a lot. It depends upon what you like. See something you like? By all means, let me know about it. Or, if you dare, submit your own. All activities depicted here are consensual, to the best of my knowledge.Do not engage in nonconsensual sex. That is illegal and wrong. No means no. I'm not fucking around on this point.

[yesemberposts]

I like two fingers inside of me, and five around my neck.

[thatlookslikeithurts]

She does. I know. It happened last night. And it was amazing.

[daddyshlg-deactivated20180722]

[withmyheartwideopen-deactivated]

I wish we could get away with this.

[thatlookslikeithurts]

Put more up

It takes time to find the right type of content for this tumblr, but I’m always on the lookout.

[pinchblog]

Sex tip: If he’s pressuring you to do anal, buy a dildo the same size as his dick, and ask him to do it first. If he’s scared of the pain- case closed. There’s absolutely no reason that he should expect it to feel any differently for you. If he says that it would be emasculating, belittling or ‘gay’, then that man is a misogynistic homophobe, and you better run for the hills as fast as your legs can take you.

[nosoulforsale-deactivated201502]

I’m screaming

[theaztecthrasher]

Take it like a man

[thatlookslikeithurts]

The dildo in the strapon that I own is bigger than I am. It hurts a little, but in the best possible way. I did start with something that was the same size, but it just didn't fulfill me the way the big one does.

~shrug~

[tastehersweets]

[pinchblog]

Sex tip: If he’s pressuring you to do anal, buy a dildo the same size as his dick, and ask him to do it first. If he’s scared of the pain- case closed. There’s absolutely no reason that he should expect it to feel any differently for you. If he says that it would be emasculating, belittling or ‘gay’, then that man is a misogynistic homophobe, and you better run for the hills as fast as your legs can take you.

[thatlookslikeithurts]

The strapon in my toy drawer is larger than my dick. I have never, ever thought it was emasculating, belittling, or gay for a partner to use it on me.

That said, I also don't do humiliation play, which on the internet seems to be often paired with strapon play. I can see how guys would feel that strapon play is emasculating or belittling because of how it's associated most often on the internet -- which is where most guys get their porn.

Guys: it's only gay if you're having sex with a man. Otherwise, you're having sex with a woman wearing a sex toy. End of discussion.

I think all sexes need to be exposed to positive anal and strapon porn. Yes, it can hurt, and yes, some people enjoy humiliation play along with it, but anal sex, whether with a penis or a facsimile, can be one of the most amazing sexual sensations a person can experience. It doesn't just have to be "man with enormous erection slams it into small woman's ass from every angle and she screams about how it hurts until it starts to feel good". That kind of porn has its place, but porn that's more like how the rest of us do it -- lube, foreplay, teasing, orgasms, laughter, usually only one position at a time -- I think would go a long way toward both socializing guys toward the correct way to explore anal sex with a partner, and also would help them understand just how good it can feel when on the receiving end.

End of speech.

[thatlookslikeithurts]

reminder

I just published something yesterday in my non-erotica persona. That reminded me I should post a little something here about the erotica I've written.

So, please check out:

Learning the Ropes -- Being in a 24/7 BDSM relationship isn't always about spankings and orgasms. It's about building something together, from both sides. And it doesn't always take the path you expect.

Breaking the Rules -- Sequel to Learning the Ropes -- No matter how wonderful your relationship is, there's still going to be things that you can't fix, no matter how hard you try. But you try anyway, because if you don't, you won't forgive yourself.

And in the realm of fantasy:

Other Options -- Being an island princess is all well and good... until you realize that you're in love with another princess and not the man your family picked out for you.

Amazon's review algorithm heavily favors five-star reviews, so if you like any of these enough to give them five stars, please review them there.

And now back to your regularly-scheduled sex-blogging.

[lola-golightly]

For sale at Michaels. We are a full service craft store

[bobaxbabe-deactivated20150523]

[f0me]

[saythankyoumaster-deactivated20]

Who loves you, baby?

[beautifulsubbycoolthings]

Sigh…

[thatlookslikeithurts]

Us. (Not the models, but the activity.)

[thatlookslikeithurts]

I have almost 8000 followers on this Tumblr. I don't suppose maybe one-to-five-percent of you might be interested in reading a novella I wrote. It has M/F, F/F, and M/M sex in it, as well as magic and princesses on a tropical island.

Take a look.

And if you like that, you might enjoy one of my BDSM novels, Learning the Ropes or Breaking the Rules... think of them as "50 Shades without billionaires, abuse, and non-consent".

[chainsawpunk]

how much lube do you need for anal ? ?

[chainsawpunk]

a buttload

[vioforte-deactivated20161014]

I do not have enough

[thatlookslikeithurts]

I have written more erotica. Aren't you excited? This time it's a novella (so it won't take you too long to get through it) called Other Options. It has a princess, an island, some magic, and... oh, yeah, tons of sex.

It also has some worldbuilding that I'm rather proud of, if you're into that sort of thing.

Check it out.

[transcendent-debauchery]

[thatlookslikeithurts]

This has been happening a lot this week.

[hippiesispunkz]

[fucklikeagod]

vainvictoria

[rockergirl1979-deactivated20181]

Yes!! Yyeess!!!! YYYEEEEEESSSSSSSSS

[spanklove]

Fuck man I should not be looking at Tumblr while I’m at work

[thatlookslikeithurts]

Soon.

[mybloodapprovesand]

[mybloodapprovesand]

This is heaven, what I truly want.

[withmyheartwideopen-deactivated]

Photo Credit: Kevin Loreaux 

[withmyheartwideopen-deactivated]

Safety Disclaimer - I have a signal to use if I really do need to breathe and he isn’t letting go. He always checks in on me and makes sure I’m okay before, during, and after, as necessary. I do not recommend doing breathplay with someone you don’t know very well and trust A LOT.

[thatlookslikeithurts]

My girl wrote a post about what it feels like when we do breathplay. I'm specifically reblogging the safety disclaimer because it's absolutely VITAL that you have a non-verbal, easy-to-understand safeword that can't POSSIBLY be confused with anything else.

You should read the rest of the post, though. It's quite hot.