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Breakup Sex: A Post-Mortem for the Good, the Bad, and the Palatable Tr

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The Sassy Guide to Situationships & Getting Down to Relationship (DTR) — thatsassything

You can’t stop thinking about them–your toothbrush is in their bathroom, and all your friends are waiting to hear about your next date. But you’re “going with the flow” and haven’t put a label to what you’re doing together yet. Most of us have been in a situationship. However, we might all feel differently about it. Whether you’re frustrated and waiting for your partner to have the talk, or are wondering if you have to take a next step at all, or you’re just comfortably marinating in some fiery new relationship energy, Aunt Sassy’s Down to Relationship (DTR) guide has got all you need. Like her self-care products, it’s been carefully curated for some TLC, so keep reading, bestie!

Defining a Situationship

In simple words, a situationship is, “when it’s more than friendship, but less than a relationship.” Some call it the period before getting DTR. A situationship is also not the same as being friends with benefits (FWB), a sneaky link, or a textationship, and differentiating between each one can help get a clearer idea of what it is.

FWB vs Situationship: In an FWB, while partners may be friends and have emotions for each other that are based on their friendship, they may decide to keep things less romantic, while also engaging in physical intimacy. In a situationship, partners may have romantic feelings for each other that they’re comfortable exploring while engaging in physical intimacy.

Sneaky Link vs Situationship: A sneaky link is typically a person you’re not “supposed” to be seeing. For example, if you’re getting cozy with a friend’s ex, and your friend and most of your circle doesn’t know. (If you’re a sneaky link, we’re not judging, but we hope you’ve carefully considered the emotions of everyone involved!) A situationship may not be as secretive and partners may be more comfortable talking about who they’re with.

Textationship vs Situationship: A textationship is a dynamic which is primarily text-based, where partners share emotional and/or physical intimacy. There may also be an understanding that the partners are satisfied with keeping things text-based. While a textationship could be considered a situationship, situationships generally include a focus on also spending in-person time together.

Relationship vs Situationship: In a relationship, partners tend to prioritise each other as part of their primary circle, may make important life decisions with each other in mind, and are “official”–most people in their lives may know about their relationship and their close ones may also be in touch with their partners. While monogamous relationships often associate being exclusively intimate with one person as necessary, this may not be so in non-monogamous relationships. In a situationship, partners may be much less committed and involved in each other’s lives. As M, a twenty-four year old, non-binary content writer, who’s monogamous says, “Every relationship may start with a situationship, but not every situationship is a relationship in the making.

It’s important to remember that these labels may be more nuanced based on partners’ experiences and interactions with each other, and connections between people may not always fall into the definitions that we prescribe for them.

Knowing What You Want

Before having a conversation with your lover about considering a relationship, it’s vital that you reflect on what you want. This could include figuring out your emotional, physical, and other needs, whether you want to be monogamous or non-monogamous, and if and how your priorities would change if you’re getting DTR. A lot of the rhetoric on the internet can be dismissive of situationships as a valid form of connection. However, situationships can have both pros and cons.

Pros: A situationship comes with less expectations to give first priority to your partner and more space to focus on yourself, and other aspects of your life. It can also allow you more freedom to date other people you might be curious about.

Cons: You may feel like some of your needs aren’t being met enough, and the uncertainty of whether you’re moving towards a relationship or not, may be anxiety-inducing–especially if that’s something that you desire or expect.

While it’s very okay to not have all the answers, it can be useful to introspect by yourself and communicate your thoughts to your partner. You can also always get your hands on a personal massager like the OG for some of that post-nut clarity (*wink wink*).

R, a cis-het man who’s 24 and single, shares how one can deal with the uncertainty of situationships better: “I have realized that it’s important to state your expectations very clearly as soon as you realize what you want. Letting the other person know helps, since it can encourage them to be honest about their intentions as well. Hopefully, none of us are toying around with each other. “

For more information visit: https://thatsassything.com/blogs/sassy-stuff/the-sassy-guide-to-situationships

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The Sassy Guide to Situationships & Getting Down to Relationship (DTR)

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Time to ‘Come As You Are’ with Emily Nagoski

As detailed and comprehensive as it can be, ‘Come As You Are’ is hands-down one of the deepest dives I’ve taken into the literary world maki

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The Rut of Sexual Routines for Minds Unlike Mine – thatsassything

Before we speak of sex of the neurodivergent, the rooting question is, what really is sex and why is it so tangled with disgust and bodies of beauty and passion and everything else we consider sinful And, why do we try to make it any different when it comes to those on the spectrum of neurodivergence, for more information visit: https://thatsassything.com/blogs/sassy-stuff/the-rut-of-sexual-routines-for-minds-unlike-mine

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Time to ‘Come As You Are’ with Emily Nagoski — thatsassything

“Is that what I think it is?”, my brother quipped looking at the rather suggestive cover of Emily Nagoski’s celebrated read on female sexuality, ‘Come As You Are’. When I asked him what he thinks, his response was straightforward, followed by a slight smirk, “An open zipper pouch that looks like a vagina. Sneaky, haha.” “That could be the vulva, you know”, I replied. And, that was the beginning of a 15-minute-ish conversation on how the vulva and vagina are different, and how the clitoris is far more complex than just a little hood. Trust me, I wouldn’t have been this comfortable talking to my brother about, well, my anatomy. But, thanks to books like ‘Come As You Are’, that communication gap may be bridged in time to come.

As detailed and comprehensive as it can be, ‘Come As You Are’ is hands-down one of the deepest dives I’ve taken into the literary world making sense of desire, arousal, intimacy, and pleasure from a feminist lens. Some see it as a sex handbook, others as a self-help guide and it’s even been referred to as “a master class in the science of sex”. To me, it was a technically nuanced read on the curriculum of a course I desperately want to get enrolled in. For a person who has two degrees in Psychology, and is eager to learn about pleasure and sexuality from a modern feminist perspective day in and out, I really admire the emphasis laid upon the psychology of sexual experiences (not just the physicalities of it) as being lived by women or people with vulvas.

While reading, I came across an activity wherein you had to describe and break down the good, better, not-so-great, and worse sexual experiences — right from personal characteristics to relationship dynamics and settings. As a self-proclaimed nerd, I asked my partner to attempt this one with regard to our experiences together. Of course, it was fun and downright juicy, but we were able to take a look at each other’s responses and understand how different or similar our mutual (and, individual) pleasure looks. It was also interesting to see how there were certain things I did that turned him on, that I was completely unaware of. He even took my page home to ‘work on the feedback’! The point is — even though you might sometimes feel lost in the vernaculars and the theories, the flow of the book is such that it grips your attention with relatable pop references, resulting in a fine balance. You can make this book your own, and that makes it a wholesome part of your bedroom library.

What REALLY works well…

Let’s start with the basics — or as Emily puts it, “the [not-so-basic] basics” section of the book where she takes the reader through a journey of embracing their bits down there — right from the lips to the clit and even the Skene’s Glands (the part responsible for female ejaculation, or squirting), Emily gave each part of the vulva (and genital anatomy that goes beyond that) the limelight that it needs. Fun fact: did you know that Skene’s Glands were named after a man? I didn’t and now that I do, I think I know why ‘Come As You Are’ has played a pivotal role in realigning and adding the much-needed (and, missing) context to female pleasure. I picked up on this lovely quote from a chapter based on intersex anatomy, “You’ve all got the same parts, just organized in your own unique way.” The power this line holds is great in a way that it normalizes genitals, yours and mine, while also holding space for both. The subtle and smart usage of the metaphor ‘garden’ to describe our sexual ‘hardware’ adds a psychosocial context to how we’re taught to perceive our anatomy.

“Turn on the ons, turn off the offs” — by using the terms ‘accelerator’ and ‘brake’ to describe how our brain interprets sexual response, Emily broke down the Dual Control Model of Arousal as introduced by Kinsey Institute. By this theory, women tend to work towards accelerating their sexual desire without completely understanding how to let up on the brakes when needed. Though the technical aspects may feel a bit overwhelming at times, Emily has described this book as ‘the science-based way of thinking about women’s sexual wellbeing.’ So, if you’re someone who’s eager to load up on female sexuality fact-checks, you’ve come to the right place.

For more information visit : https://thatsassything.com/blogs/sassy-stuff/book-review-come-as-you-are-by-emily-nagoski

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A Treasure Trove Called ‘The Arts of Seduction’ by Seema Anand

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Gift Them Pleasure: The Bachelorette Edition – thatsassything

With the shaadi season comes the different traditions: some old, some new, and some downright naughty (our favorite). If you’re a bride who’s going to be tying the knot soon–congratulations, Aunt Sassy wishes you all the pleasure in the world! And if you’re BFFs with the bride, Aunt Sassy knows you’re bachelorette party in-charge and is here with limited edition gift boxes, so you can make these wishes a reality for your bride-to-be. Designed in collaboration with Priyanka Paul (also known by their moniker @artwhoring), and immediately recognizable with their signature yet fresh art style, these tastefully raunchy gift boxes are perfectly suited for your evening of debauchery and pampering, making for a dream gift for bachelorette. And if that hasn’t got you convinced already, read on to know more about why your favourite fiancee deserves our limited edition gift boxes!

Turning up the Heat

Let’s be honest, the bachelorette party is probably one of the most awaited parts of getting hitched. There’s nothing like hosting a pre-wedding party in honour of your bestie and having an uninhibited celebration of all their desires. A dirty striptease, trading of your most intimate secrets, gorging on yummy adult themed dessert, have become some of the playful staples of a bachelorette party. Add one of our gift boxes which feature some of the best loved adult toys in India, and you’ve taken your night of indulgence to a whole new level! This gift for bachelorette could also be the perfect way to start a conversation with your besties about their own playtime adventures (spill the deets!)

The Gift that Keeps on Giving

No matter the exact itinerary for your fun night with the bestie squad, the main theme is usually to honour the main character of the moment, and manifest all your energies towards prioritising their pleasure. And this is exactly what our highly rated, *deeply* satisfying (ifykwim) personal massagers do! Your hen party might not last as long as you’d love for it to, but our adult toys certainly will. They’ve been sensitively designed to tend to the huha and various erogenous spots, and bring on those toe curling O’s. What’s more, being stimulated has also been linked to increased confidence and emotional wellness, making our personal massagers a uniquely thoughtful gift for bachelorette ahead of your bestie’s big day. And while some may regard the bachelorette party as the betrothed one’s “last night of freedom”, we prefer to think of it as just a teaser for a whole journey to cum. (*wink wink*)

Keeping the Spark Alive

Aunt Sassy loves proving myths about pleasure wrong, including the ones that imply that marriage means playtime is going to default to boring. This isn’t true and a big factor that shapes intimacy is communication between partners–whether it be about spicing it up, making things more comfy, or exploring new ground. Adult toys can serve as aids to conversations about lovemaking and help your bestie and their partner level up their games in the bedroom. Of course, our personal body massagers are for more than partnered pleasure–they also amp up solo trips and can light things up, whether you’re going to G-town on your own or with a lover.

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Smooth Talking Your Way to Pleasure – thatsassything

Not sure how to proceed when your lover slips in a quick, talk dirty to me Aunt Sassy’s put together a quick guide to erotic conversations so you can turn up the heat with your lover Take these tips on everything from figuring out your dirty vocabulary to aftercare post smooth talking, for more information visit: https://thatsassything.com/blogs/sassy-stuff/dirty-talking-in-the-bedroom

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Gift Them Pleasure: The Bachelorette Edition – thatsassything

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