Hello, welcome to a non-exhaustive list of how paraplegic folks can have sex — from a para guy.
Look, let’s start this party by saying I’m a T8-T9 incomplete para. Caleb, who we will be talking about, is likely injured somewhere from T4 to T6. Now, that I’ve had a closer look at the curl of his hands, probably T4. He could have an incomplete or complete SCI. This will reflect that.
Guys, the dick probably doesn’t work on command.
It might, but odds are slim.
But he can get reflex erections! These are erections from stimulation, even though he cannot feel it. He could also use urethral suppositories to increases blood flow into his dick, causing an erection (though injections are typically more effective), or a vacuum erection device which draws blood into his dick using a hand-held pump. Then a band is placed over his dick to keep the erection.
Anyway, Caleb likely has nipple sensation regardless and nipple stimulation is always fun.
Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay, friends.
Multiple sex positions are possible (mod missionary, lap sitting, mod doggy style, spooning, sideways 69), but he will need support for his back as he cannot control any of those muscles below his nipples and has a high likelihood of just tipping over, so a sex swing is a great option, or a seat. One can fuck in the wheelchair, or in an adult tomato chair (a molded seat), but this is a lot more work to clean up and custom wheelchairs cannot always support the weight of two adults.
Caleb is likely very talented with his mouth and yes, he does struggle with hand mobility. But the curl works to our advantage here. Time for some hand PT.
He very likely has reduced anal tone as well, so if we’re going that route, just use a ton of lube anyway. But he’ll need less stretching. 🥰However, with more checks to make sure he’s okay. He can’t feel or see it.
Also do you know what’s pretty nifty about being hip height in your wheelchair? Oral sex, whenever, wherever. Caleb could have his partner lay down wherever, or have them be standing up until they go weak-kneed.
Anyway, remember: disabled people fuck. We fuck a lot.
Caleb being in a chair should not keep you from writing him fucking. (If you’re nervous about it or want to get the specifics down and you need help: my DMs are always open. Unless you’re being a creep. Don’t come into my DMs with the para kink shit. To each your own, man, but keep me out of that).
Billy Stebbins has been in love with Lucy Johnson since they were nothing more than kids. That's why it's so hard for him to even consider telling her that he got his letter. So he tries to take the cowards way out and leave before she notices. His sweet Lucy Mae knows him too well though and figures out his plan. It's not what he wanted... but at least it means they can spend one last night together before he leaves for the Walk.
Linked above my fic on ao3 by user thatwriterrose. includes tags of major character death, implied sexual content, loss of virginity, & fluff and angst
I wrote Harkness x Parker. I would like to write Harkness x Parker x Stebbins too. I would also like to write Stebbins x Parker. If anyone has ideas for any of those 3 ships please tell me xoxox
Makin' The Bed by ThatWriterRose (@thatwriterrosefics)
Samira Mohan/Emery Walsh
Summary: Samira Mohan had an awful day at work and it is making her doubt herself as a doctor and a person. Her girlfriend Emery Walsh notices and when she gets home from work she helps pick up the pieces.
Sign-Ups for The Pitt Winter Exchange are now open!
Dates:
Sign-ups: November 2nd - November 8th
Assignments Go Out: November 11th
Finished Works Due: December 23rd
Reveals: December 26th - December 31st
The Basics:
Each participant will write a winter/holiday themed fanfiction involving The Pitt based on prompt(s) from another participant to be gifted to that participant.
Works will be posted to an Archive Of Our Own collection (link to come) and kept hidden until the reveal date.
Works must be a minimum of 2,000 words and a maximum of 10,000 words.
Rules:
Participants must be 18+
Works should be at least vaguely winter/holiday themed.
Don't be a dick. No shaming other pairings or yucking other participants' yums in exchange spaces.
No generative AI. If your work is suspected of being AI-generated, you will be contacted by the mods and it may be removed from the exchange.
This should go without saying: You need to have actually watched the show "The Pitt."
No Y/N or canon character/OC content.
All content warnings must be tagged and hard-nos MUST be adhered to.
Lucy Gray Baird & Collie Parker fell in love as children. They have done everything together, so it shouldn't come as a surprise that they would participate in The Long Walk together. It's a risk to try since they could never return. With families to care for back home, though, they have to at least try
Because my brain gets hung up on stupid details and won't let me write what I want to write until I square everything out, I (an European) have now sat down and done my best to research and approximate what the hours of people in the Pitt ought to be like, monthly, and how many shifts they ought to have each month.
Of course, the next step is figuring out like, four months of rota, starting from september onward, to account for the time that will elapse in my fic.
If anyone is interested, I can publish my findings here on tumblr, but like, please be gentle with me if I do.
This is just specifically related to my fic series on AO3, this is NOT about the canon Pitt, thank you, please be nice.
Some of the reasonings behind this:
The reason why some lines are not labeled is because the lilacs are original characters and I've not gotten around to either creating name or naming them.
Yes, Jack and Robby's schedules are both insane, that pace is not sustainable, the things Robby had to do to get 4 days off are unspeakable and he fucked up having one day off each week for this shit.
Robby also tends to discount his Early shifts / Admin shifts as "this is just me doing paperwork, this is not really like a shift in the ED, I'm basically off, I get to go home early and all".
He is wrong, dead fucking wrong. Admin work is still work and it is absolutely taxing and exhausting, especially when paired up with all the shifts he is doing. This is NOT a sustainable pace. It is not meant to be taken as one.
He really should have hired at least two other attendings but the board is being bad about hiring ratios and Jack is being bad about his shifts and Robby really was not in a healthy place by Pittfest, which is reflected in this rota.
I decided to have the medical students be eased in. Start them on days, sunday and monday off for MS3, sunday off for MS4 but monday is a 7am - 5pm 'study' shift (they are still learning, but it's focused on paperwork and studying for their exams), then move them to the 3pm - 3am and viceversa shifts and then transition fully to nights.
Similar reasoning for interns.
I have divvied up the nurses into teams, so the same people (unless they specifically request to swap shifts for whatever reason) tend to be on the same team in the same days.
Which explains why season to season we might see the same nurses come back on the same shift.
The RNs have those 'one 12h shift not with their own team to make sure they get the right amount of hours' in different days from the APRNSs so that there is less overlap and more shifts are covered.
And the charge nurse with less LD shifts actually has a series of 10h shifts to make up for it, because she's covering Admin Duty, which we do not see Dana do but someone has got to do it.
And this is playing into them being short-staffed, not just upstairs but in the Pitt too.
And there have one less APRN and RN for night shifts, because night shifts have less people, but I left equal amounts of residents and attendings, and I've put in two RN who have those 3pm - 3am shifts to bolster both day and night.
I also just tweaked it to fix it so the mixed shifts RN cover the whole month, between the two of them, if at opposite shifts.
Unlike the nurses, the residents do not have teams and are not always on shift with the same people, but that's on purpose, so they can have a wider range of experience with different people and learn to work with all of them.
Also, again, Jack and Robby are both traumatized workaholics that are running from their problems via work and should not be doing that. So they are on shift often enough that they can mostly supervise most people at one point or another.
Once they start leveling the fuck out and actually get around to decrease their shifts, Robby will have to either pick from the promoted R4s (Ellis is totally getting picked) or hire more attendings to cover for the gaps in the schedule.
It would have been Ellis and Langdon, but Langdon has to do another year as R4 thanks to the mess with the drugs, so it might be Ellis and someone else until Langdon either proves himself or Robby finds someone.
Honestly, I am toying with the idea that it might be Samira that gets picked for when Harley goes, because by then she might be at the end of her R4 year. (edited)
NOTICE: As more and more fanfic writers are using generative AI for their works (you uncreative dweebs), I hereby swear on everything I hold dear that I have not and will NEVER use generative AI in ANY of my written work. Everything I post will be organically and creatively my own.
After a year of whirlwind romance Robby finally has a chance to meet the girl his sister calls the love of her life. The only problem is that their first time meeting is on the day Daisy and Emery are getting married. He's unsure about how fast things are moving and who this girl is. He wants his sister to be happy but he also wants her to be safe.
All Emery wants today is for Daisy to be happy. All Daisy wants today is to make a good first impression.
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