Hello, dear reader, and welcome to My pleasure palace! This is a pinned (lengthy) post and introduction:
First, some things to know: I'm male, in My 30's, milk-chocolate skinned with a BBC, and the proud Owner of My property (female, white, also in her 30's). As for her/it... she's in training, making progress toward learning the ropes for our life together as a loving couple that happens to enjoy a Total Power Exchange dynamic. she knows and accepts her place as My toy, My puppet, My slave, My property, My uninhibited slut, My urinal and My ash tray, and anything else I require of her. Training involves learning to leave her old self, and her bad habits, behind her so she can fully and uncompromisingly embrace her better self. This is a thing that she chooses, after a profound realisation and honest introspection into her true nature that she's admitted to Me and most importantly to herself once she had the freedom, comfort and security to honestly and fearlessly explore her identity and sexuality.
she is also My best friend, My baby girl, My princess and My lover.
In our relationship it is always understood that the first monikers come before and supercede the second set, for they are her primary place, roles and functions without question, all day every day without them we are incomplete, insincere and incompatible; the titles in the second, softer, set are no less true for her, but we both know that above all, and before all else, she is My slave and I am her Master. she is My property and I am her Owner. I have absolute dominion over every aspect of her existence, without question, exception or reproach, and I am the subject of her worship, obsession and devotion. she gains discipline, structure, order and security; the One who knows her mind, her body and her heart and truly treasures them for the priceless gifts that they are; she gains the One capable of delivering pleasure and pain in the most exquisite manner. For this she has My attention, My love, My protection and My lust. She does not have agency or autonomy in the traditional sense, and her "self" is not hers, but is instead My property; I have full rights to her entire being and the freedom to do with her body, mind and consciousness whatever I desire - when, where and how I desire. she has no rights - not to dignity or pride, privacy or property, free will or free thought... No rights at at all, save for the priceless privilege of My devoted Ownership and the peace, direction and purpose that it brings. she does as I say, thinks as I direct her to, and serves Me selflessly.
Not because she is weak, but because she has the strength to surrender herself to the One who can take control of her identity and wield it better than she can. Because she has the intelligence to understand her limits and limitations, and give command of her very mind to the One who can make her experiences better and her perceptions more sensible. Because she has the capacity to love unconditionally and the desire to serve selflessly, and has chosen to gift Me with both, and relinquish everything that could interfere with that. Because she has the wisdom to know that there is so very much she doesn't know, and so yields to a Mind greater than hers in order that she might be shown wonders she hadn't even dreamt of. And finally because she has a strong enough sense of awareness to know that she needs to belong, but life experience enough to know that people are generally shit and so it is better for her to belong to the One who will serve her, in His way, as selflessly as she serves Him in her way; the sense of awareness sufficient to know that her feminity is not limited to or defined by popular opinion, and that her kinks are as much a part of her as the skin she wears; the sense of awareness sufficient to know that needing and having a Master only makes her better, and being Owned makes her more complete; the sense of awareness to know where her weaknesses are - and how weak she is - and that kneeling at the feet of her better half helps empower her to release the burdens that are too great, and empower Him to shoulder their weight for her, and guide her steps forward along the best possible path.
I realise this has started to sound almost like a love letter, and that is absolutely appropriate.
This blog is chock full of bdsm-related material; it's fun, sure, but when lived responsibly as a Lifestyle it's more rewarding, secure and fulfilling than any vanilla relationship I've ever had, and the same is true for My slave.
Things are defined by their opposites, and in all things there must be balance - she kneels to Me, who stands taller than she possibly can; she is powerless so in My presence, for I am better equipt to wield that power; she serves Me without question or limits so there is peace and pureness in her purpose; she gives up her rights so she can learn to appreciate; she relinquishes her freedoms because they limit her growth; she obeys Me without question to gain peace of mind; she cedes control of her body to Me in order that I can help her reach her potential; she cedes control of her mind to Me in order to to truly learn; she is property to be freely and unquestioningly used because fear and pride and ego are detrimental to her fulfillment and metaphysical integrity.
Understand that the woman who chooses this is far from weak; the woman who chooses this is the opposite of naive; the woman who chooses this is is living her best life and abiding by her divine nature. The woman who chooses this is a gift, in the right hands. Do not confuse Me with those who hate woman - I love women, I acknowledge the Goddess, and I understand the power of the feminine. I use and abuse My slave safely, sanely and consensually, and underneath the objectification, degradation, humiliation, défilement, deviancy, hedonism and torture there is the utmost respect for her place, her sacrifice and her strength. Because I'm there to dry the unwanted tears, I am there to catch her when she falls, I am there to bring her peace, I am there to soothe her aches and pains, to shoulder the burdens too great for her to bear, to witness her at her most vulnerable and give of Myself in order to ease her suffering, to boost her up and give her confidence, to love her and be loved by her, to give her a true sense of security and the freedom to live true to her nature without judgment or shame. To be her Daddy so she can be My little girl.
We chose each other because we have, and have to offer, what the other needs; she wants to live life this way and so do I. she needs to be with someone who needs to live life this way, and so do I.
Anyway, welcome to My blog. You may call Me Marcus, and for those who are still reading, and curious, an extensive list of most of My kinks and interests is listed below.
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Best Wishes for Peace Profound,
-M.
