The House Always Wins

dissociative system + adult bodied (likes & follows from joddit-y)

[the-house-wins]

this is a blog for our system to safely scream into the void without people we know irl finding us. we're currently relearning how to function, and trying to educate ourselves on as much as possible. please be gentle :) we're trying our best

[life-of-liminality]

[syscultureis]

Plural Culture is "the hosts parents-"

"they're your parents too"

"no the fuck they are not"

[cyber-abyssal-deactivated202509]

Fronting experiences!

1. The helicopter parent

Alter just pops in out of nowhere uninvited and starts giving opinions on what you're doing

2. Curious child

Alter just starts asking you a bunch of questions on what you're doing and shenanigans out of nowhere

3. Thrown in

You're struggling! Quick gatekeeper! Throw a motherfucker here to help!!

4. The corner whisperer

You don't even notice they're in front with you until you hear them whispering from a corner all of your darkest thoughts

5. I'm coming for you bitch

You say 1 thing about an alter and then you can hear them sprinting to front, too late, he found you!

6. Positive hyperfixation trigger

Oh no i mention bees, now the little is fronting and babbling non-stop about them!

7. "ACTSHUALLY ☝️🤓"

You make one single mistake and THAT motherfucker comes out of nowhere to tell you how wrong you are, THANKS JACKASS

8. Party!

A lot of alters just front cuz something fun IS happening!!

9. Party! /Neg

A lot of alters just front cuz something horrible IS happening!!

10. You kinda just wake up together

You get to front and the other guy is just there with you too, alright then

[wearequantum]

1. hyperfixate on system

2. start to categorize system and take notes

3. become dissociated and blurry for __ hours

4. repeat steps 1 thru 3 until desired results

[cyber-abyssal-deactivated202509]

Systems be like "I'm gonna get shit done today!" Then sit in front of the computer and grey-out the whole day

[the-house-wins]

does the headmate who goes to work qualify as a host?? find out never next week on- Questions Nobody Wants To Answer!!

[the-house-wins]

70% of being a system is just having mental battles of attrition with headmates over food, because yesterday i spent five minutes standing at the whole foods bakery counter while having a fucking internal beyblade competition with the person in co-con because SOMEBODY REALLY LIKES CANOLIES, and I DON'T

[strawberry-graveyard]

idk why some people get so up in arms about trans sysmates who don’t “match” with what the body “should” be. cuz it’s not even a sys exclusionist thing, that’s queer exclusionist as well. you can be afab and transfem. you can be amab and transmasc. whether you’re intersex or perisex, monogender or multigender, multiple transitions in or zero transitions in, who fucking cares!! genders are weird do whatever the fuck you want with them!!

[the-house-wins]

sometimes i wonder how it is that i've done this to you. how it is that i promised you entry into my heart, when all i can do is hold you tightly on the threshold. how badly i want to be loved, to be wanted, understood. but how could you possibly want something that you have never been allowed to see.

[reimeichan]

Fusion ask game because @system-of-a-feather mentioned wanting one, but also please ask us stuff as well

What was your most recent fusion?

Have you had any fusions that eventually split back to the (more or less) same parts?

Have you had any fusions that eventually split into new parts?

Have you had multiple alters involved in one fusion?

After a fusion of named parts, how do you decide which name to go by?

Have you ever experienced a fusion and went by a completely new name?

Have you had fusions that surprised you?

What does fusion feel like for you?

Are your fusions usually planned or spontaneous?

Have there been any changes after a fusion that surprised you?

Do you plan to fuse with any other parts of your system?

Have you had parts that attempted to fuse but couldn't?

Is there a media analogy of fusion that resonates most with you? (Doesn’t even have to be called fusion itself)

Have you had a positive fusion experience before?

Have you had a negative fusion experience before?

Have you had a fusion that you weren't consciously aware of until later?

Have you talked about your fusion experiences with the people in your life? (Therapist, friends, partners, etc.) How was their response?

Has fusion affected your relationships with other alters in your system?

Has fusion affected your relationships with people outside of your system?

What is your system's thoughts on final fusion? Is it a potential end goal for your system?

[the-nightshade-crypt-deactivate]

New home made sys meme fresh out the oven

[schrodingerscollective]

[the-house-wins]

[the-house-wins]

are you tired? are you overwhelmed? are you sick of always being the one fronting?

well bOY do i have the solution for you!!

for the low low price of your sanity and little remaining memory, you too could have *explosion sound effect* THREE HOSTS AT ONCE!!!!

[thecataclysmic6]

I pull another host out of a hat like they're a rabbit in a magic act:

"BEHOLD!!"

[the-house-wins]

Any DNIs?

uHhh aside from the usual stuff like no transphobes/homophobes/racists, not really? don't bring syscourse over here please, and if you think fictives aren't real then you won't like it here, but yeah i think that's about it :)

[akabirdieart]

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