[thefabmscat]

On Sundays we drink Kombucha...💁🏽‍♀️

[thefabmscat]

[thefabmscat]

One of the many reasons why I moved to Austin.

[thefabmscat]

[thefabmscat]

[thefabmscat]

Beat is nice and she’s fun to look at. Get into it.

[expensivechanel]

[thefabmscat]

Fuck the honeymoon...

This is a rant...So how about fuck the honeymoon phase. Like dead ass. Bruh I’d like to pass. How about you start off doing all the fuck shit to test my limits in the BEGINNING ? This whole process of acting like you have good sense, only to switch it up and start acting like nobody raised you. What in the whole entire fuck.

No seriously. I’m all invested and happy you’re not a sociopath, only to find out that you are in fact a sociopath.

Legit makes me wanna cry, but I don’t, because I’m a goon. Like honestly and truly in my heart of hearts, I believe whomever is meant to be with you, will love you flaws and all. I know I’m a hot ass mess. It doesn’t take long to figure that out if you spend any amount of time with me. But like this great behavior in the beginning to only switch it up and THEN...this is where it gets crazy. Dudes act like they don’t know why we don’t like when you don’t keep up the things you did to bag us. How you feel like 2 months into the relationship you can stop opening the car door? It’s never that simple, it’s usually some tragic revelation like “oh yeah, I AM still in a relationship with my baby mama”

Women will put up with a bunch of shit. But lying is not one of them. Fuck that shit. If you really about that life. Put it all out there! This whole bait and switch shit is played the fuck out. What is the most frustrating is that now I know you have the capacity to act like a great guy, but you are making a conscious choice to behave like a douche instead. We keep waiting around for you to return back to normal. But you never do...and that shit sucks.

[thefabmscat]

[thefabmscat]

It’s my favorite’s birthday! 🎂 🎉 #dontasknoquestions #myfavoriteeverything #ruiningniggaslivessince1996 #gotellhimhappybirthday

[thefabmscat]

Yes!

[thefabmscat]

*Oprah shrug*

[thefabmscat]

Working on learning to be ok with saying no.

[thefabmscat]

🧐

[thefabmscat]

Somebody tried me like this recently. Ladies we gotta do better. 😒

[thefabmscat]

Sigh...

[thefabmscat]

“Soon baby”...the plight of a fuckboy unchained.

Seriously ladies...and gents...How long can we be in love with “potential”?  My friends would tell you I’m too smart, hold too many degrees and I’m too creative to JUST “work in a call center”.  They never say this to me directly, but it’s true, I respect it.   There’s such a fine line between what you know you  can do and what you can actually get hired to do. Nonetheless, TRYING is better than the alternative.  Let’s talk about my boo “50″ from when I was still in Atlanta. We dated for 6 years on and off, before I finally got tired.  Six years is a long time. In fact, I could’ve started my own business in that same amount of time.  During that time, I saw him attempt to do club promotions-first with a team, then he tried to branch out solo; he also talked about developing his own skin care line; and in the midst, he would change day jobs about every 6 months, because “the job was tripping”.  Now, my latest rehab project not only has big dreams, but he wants me to help  And by help I mean spend my “free time” working on his project.  I don’t mind helping, but what I do mind is feeling like he’s not trying to help himself.  He is a sales person by trade, but so am I.  Initially, I was REALLY engaged.  Now I feel like I’m being sold to.  He paints these grandiose visions, however, there’s a pretty large disparity between his visions and what’s actually taking place here in real life. Look here...I will support the fuck out of you...like I’m a caregiver by nature, but don’t try to pimp me.  That’s not a good look. How much do you give before you’re over it?