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When you need professional help but can’t afford it. 🙃

So...

I think the most heart breaking yet blessing thing is learning how to find your own happiness when you’re with someone...

Because you depend on them to be happy, right?

Wrong.

Only depend on yourself... because that’s all you have.

Even if you’re in-love or just falling. Always remember that all you have is yourself sometimes. Even if it hurts.

Do you know any pros about Leo and Pisces compatibility? 😩everywhere I’ve looked they’ve only given me cons and it’s so frustratinggg

I’m just gonna need a little more detail. I need to know what’s under your guys Venus signs. As well as for your guys sun signs; water and fire are opposites so you two either may work well together or clash.

cwote

dont put too much pressure on yourself. everything will be okay.

HOLY FUCKING SHIT JAKSUWKWBFKFL

#pocket camp #animal crossing

When I ask for a little more sympathy, why is it so hard for you? Why do you become so defensive and dismissive?

Was your life THAT horrible for you to grow up with such a nevative aspect on everything?

It’s disappointing and my soul hurts.

#yourlovelanguagesucks

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This art tho...

Fat.

Fat, is the word. But you didn't say it. You said, "I want to get mountain bikes, so we can get your body back to the way it used to be when we first started dating." Mind you, I have a 13 month old. I gained 50 lbs during my pregnancy. I work 4-5 days out of the week as well as taking care of my child during the day. I feel like... I do enough right now as far as physical activities go. But you see me as being "Lazy." 😔 Inside of my head, I tell myself enough things about my weight that discourage me easily. I'm not very confident in that arena of my life and it has always been hard to "flaunt" what I physically have. Because when you tell me that, you want my body back the way it was and that I am lazy... it makes me seriously wonder, "What else could he possibly think about me that is absolutely atrocious?" This is what I am stuck with.... this is that sinking feeling of feeling as if "you're not good enough anymore" for the one you love so dearly... it pains me to think about it. To constantly replay this horrible conversation in my head. To go through the motions over and over. To turn away at the site of food because that little voice in the back of your head is saying "Don't. You'll only gain weight." I feel so... hurt. I once used to be somebody of great confidence. Now I can't even look at myself in the mirror.

#fat #broken

Just one day

Me speaking to my 11 month old:

"Mommy just wants a break! That would be nice."

My husband muttering in the background. "You don't get a break when you're a parent."

Fire. Rage. The feeling of being completely alone in something that SHOULD be all about team work...

Me: "Well I would get a fucking break if you would just wake up with him for once."

Nothing.

Why? Because it's Fucking True.

I am so sick and tired of feeling as if I am in this by myself when it comes to playing the role of the primary care giver in my childs life. BUT I AM MARRIED. Primary child giver?? No... I shouldn't have to say that, but I am. I'm hurt. I'm burnt out. I'm tired. I haven't slept right for months. Weeks go by while you lay your head on a nice pillow with no whines or no worries that your kid is going to suffocate. No... I shouldn't have to feel like this.

I'm just tired...

#mylifesucksrightnow

Probably the dumbest thing ever but the only, cutest, off-guard pick-up line I was ever told was by my husband before we were married. Me: Why are you so sweet? Him: Because my Momma rolled me in sugar when I was a baby. 😍 Omg what??

#husband #cutestpickuplineever #iloveyou

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Hi, I don't know if your still active on here. But I just read your post about crying and I don't want you to feel torn, I don't want you to suffer. I feel like you are strong and giving and just have lost your effort. That's okay, it's okay, please treat yourself as bad as that sounds but please do something little for you. You don't need to lean on anyone you need to have your innerpeace and well being before anyone else.

Thank you~