Make it Work

I'm Kaichi, a 33-year-old adventurer from Finland. I'm interested in lolita fashion, j-fashion, dark mori-kei & strega fashion. This blog is dedicated mainly to my outfits and personal obsessions.

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I’ve been really self-conscious about myself for years. I started to gain a lot of weight after I got seriously ill. When my life changed to the worse, I didn’t really care about myself and I gained weight. A lot. My self loathing hit me hard. I was scared to even post any pictures of myself and also got isolated from my friends. Now however I’ve been trying to be more gentle towards myself and I’ve been trying to be body positive.

When I first tried on this outfit, the first thing that came to my mind was “Do I look fat in this?”, but after that I thought that what does it matter. I am chubby and plus size. Or even fat, whatever. I we been missing the joy which I used to get when I put on nice clothes. So finally I just did it, and I felt cute. Self loathing is still on the back of my head, but I’m trying not to listen that shit. Maybe finally I can take small steps towards accepting myself.

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Happy women's day for everybody. It doesn't matter what your gender, age, nationality or color of your skin is; everybody needs equal rights!

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❄Ootd for a winter meetup.❄

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Midsummer bonfire

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Finnish countryside

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Midsummer

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Hellocon outfit.

Dress: Baroque

Blouse: Aatp

Shoes: eBay

Headdress: Self made

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Dress: Baroque Blouse: Bodyline Headdress: Alice and the Pirates + made by me Shoes: Pleaser

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Uchuu-kei experiment or something.👽

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Links to your Instagram and Pinterest, please? :)

https://www.instagram.com/thekaichi/ https://fi.pinterest.com/thekaichi/Here you go :)

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♥ Vendor announcement ♥

We are happy to announce the next vendor of Hellocon, Cloudberry Lady!

Cloudberry Lady is a Finnish lolita fashion label specialized in both Millinery and Dress making. The brand also provides made to order leather shoes designed for lolita fashion! Cloudberry Lady is best known for their unique designs and high quality products which are all, including the shoes, handmade in Finland!

The creator of the brand, Tuulia Lautamaja established Cloudberry Lady in the spring of 2009. The brand has gone far since then! You may know this brand from their original The Bat shoes or by their renaissance inspired outfit worn by Midori Fukasawa at Hellocon 2014! Or perhaps you have seen their hats and bonnets on your trip to Tokyo at the ATELIER PIERROT store?

This year Cloudberry Lady has something very special in store for Hellocon visitors’ enjoyment! ;)

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Omg soo cute, thank you @coarsefur!

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Dollhouse meetup JSK: Innocent World Coat: Btssb Bag: Btssb Rest: offbrand

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i wasn't the one who posted you in the thread, but i did draw the last one! glad you liked it

It was really beautiful, I liked especially how much effort you put to the details and to the print!

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Mystery anon posted my outfit from last Halloween to the /cgl/ drawing thread and I got these beautiful drawings. This was truly a gift for me and I’m really touched by this. thank you so much everyone! If you are the artist of one of these artworks tag yourself so I can see more of your beautiful art!

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(pssst, you got another drawing on /cgl/)

Oh dear! I had no idea, if you are the one posted my picture to the thread, that was so cute. Thank you so much this really made my day. <3