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what i post

my answered asks | my personal text posts

some of my favorite artists to listen to

taylor swift, kacey musgraves, sabrina carpenter, maisie peters, phoebe bridgers, lucy dacus, boygenius, katie pruitt, laufey, maren morris, ethel cain, lorde, olivia rodrigo, kelsea ballerini, megan moroney, ashe, lizzy mcalpine, gracie abrams, olivia o'brien, madison beer, alec benjamin, niall horan, bts, blackpink

i track #userthelasttime so please feel free to tag me in any of your edits!

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I tried it! (messaged him)

YAYYYY

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not you influencing me to re-download hinge (only to come back to a cute guy at work who matched with me three months ago, but now it's definitely too late)

TRY IT

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also this date wasn't bad it was just awkward 😭 i ordered two rolls of sushi and he ordered one roll but i ate all of my sushi and he ate one (1) piece of it .... and he told me that he doesn't have many friends and he doesn't really get out much 😵‍💫

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done with my fourth date of the week 😭 guys i just want to go on a date with the guy from tuesday (math phd) again i'm so tired of this

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on god i need phoebe bridgers tickets

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i loveeeeeeeeee my job i love going to lab i love research i love my jobbbbbb

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I had a good feeling about getting my drivers liscince and did it on one take and now I'm obsessed with things which make me feel like that. Congrats on feeling good!

feeling great!! i love work!!

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I hear the preacher say, "Speak now or forever hold your peace"

vs

Girls, I don't need to catch the bouquet, mm To know a hard rock is on the way

😭 obviously the first one i'm sorry taylor

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as a chinese person ...... truly so refreshing to go on dates with another chinese person

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this is a great scale we're currently creating because i've had:

sunday: bad date

tuesday: great date

wednesday: good date

friday: ?

saturday: ?

sunday: ? (second date with wednesday)

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I went on a date once where the guy was 30 min late. I was in a dress, heels and had my make up done. He showed up with a greasy man bun and wearing AN ADIDAS TRACK SUIT LIKE MF SUE SYLVESTER FROM GLEE. He refused to do karaoke with me, then dropped the n word multiple times. While I had been waiting for him, a nice black guy and his sister started talking to me and I guess he didn’t like that. He said he was kind of put off by coming in and seeing “all these n***** on my girl”. I called him out and he said it’s ok because he’s Asian and there are slurs for Asian people, that makes him allowed to say the n word???? And also said he didn’t use the hard R so it’s not racist. Then begged me to sleep with him and offered to pay me $2,000 if I did. I told him I had already told him before the date that I don’t sleep with someone on the first date and he was like “oh I thought you meant sleepovers lol”.

Then also tried to convince me to get off my SSRI because “it’s all in your heard anyway and that’s probs affecting your libido and why can’t you just do therapy”. And then when I finally got a chance to leave, he asked if he could pick me up for our second date and if he could meet my parents when he picked me up. He also asked if I thought my dad will like him. Yeah sure!! My dad loves disrespectful racists who don’t care about his daughter’s boundaries!! What a steal!! 🙄🙄 he immediately got blocked when I got home and I wish him all the worst in life

BLOCKED!!!!!!!!!! wait omg i can't believe he was asian 😭 i'm sorry on behalf of my fellow asians

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Ooooh we love a planner

it says something that i had no idea it was going to rain this weekend because i haven't checked yet (and i'm extremely type A and a capricorn) and he's already on it

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Can I thank you ever so much for making me feel less alone about my limirance situation. Glad to know at least one person went through something similar! He's useless at everything except having many many songs written about him, you know what they say about a thing can be good and it's great or terrible and forgotten but when something shows much promise but doesn't quite live up to it it's very easy to rant about it and write about it. Glad to know I'm not alone point is.

you're not alone!!! i think those are some of the most difficult feelings to have!!

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the walking, the math phd, the book adding, the MATH phd, girl im squaling here omg

it's fully bare minimum but the fact that he's already planning the second date and said we should do an indoor activity because it's raining the entire weekend (he's already checked the weather) IS attractive to me

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At least someone's having good dates. My dates range from better as friends to pseudo dates. And yet I still believe!

please still believe!!!

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done with my third date of the week 🤠 he is very kind and nice to talk to but i fear no butterflies and no deeper conversation!! he is doing his PhD in economics which is super cool but i just don’t think there was a ton of chemistry tbh