Em!

i love making sensitive people mad <3 exclusionist • transmedicalist • lesbian • filipino 🇵🇭

[thelesbiancanary]

As an exclusionist who's also a lesbian, these are my LGBT opinions:

- you need gender dysphoria to be trans

- if you don't have gender dysphoria, you aren't trans

- gender dysphoria is a mental disorder/condition

- lesbian means WOMEN loving WOMEN

- gay means MEN loving MEN

- pansexuality isn't real

- pansexuality is biphobic

- trans kids/teens shouldn't be allowed to medically transition until they are 18

- the acronym is LGBT, there's no Q, there's no QIA, and there's no +

- he/him lesbians aren't real and they aren't valid

- they/them lesbians aren't real and they aren't valid

- pronouns = gender

- there's only two genders (women and men/female and male)

- aromantic and asexuality aren't spectrums

- aromantic and asexual people are valid but they aren't apart of the LGBT community

- having a preference when it comes to dating doesn't mean that you need to come up with a whole new “LGBT” label to feel special

- being nonbinary isn't real

- xenogenders and xenopronouns aren't real and they aren't valid

- xenogenders, xenopronouns, etc make the LGBT community look like a joke

- gatekeeping in the LGBT community is necessary

- the LGBT community isn't some club that everybody can join just to feel special

- qu33r is a slur and you shouldn't call people qu33r unless they give you permission to call them that

- being genderfluid isn't real

[genderflu1dwh0r]

Wtf, I guess I'm not real??? I'm genderfluid and proud, damnit. This list is wack.

[thelesbiancanary]

Whatever you say babe 😂 I think my list is pretty cool, thanks :D

[genderflu1dwh0r]

It's my experience, you can't just say that it isn't real, bAbE. Happy Pride Month to everyone except these types of people that make these weird lists.

[thelesbiancanary]

Think whatever you want babe ;) And I don't care about pride month, so I could care less about you “not wishing me a happy pride month” 😂

[genderflu1dwh0r]

So you do care, cause you said "I could care less" instead of I couldn't care less. It's ok, you can be a good person.

[thelesbiancanary]

Baby, I don't care what you think of me 😂 We're just strangers on the internet ;) I don't care if you think I'm a good person or not, it's a free country ♥️

[genderflu1dwh0r]

Why do you insist on calling me baby and babe, cause it makes me uncomfortable. I know you are a stranger, but I can tell you that you are a weirdo. Also it's not a free country, it's pretty much the opposite. America is absolutely shit.

[thelesbiancanary]

America IS a free country. In America, people are allowed to love whichever gender they want without any laws criminalizing it or preventing it. The American government recognizes any crimes against LGBT people that are motivated by homophobia as HATE CRIMES, but other countries couldn't care less about that. In Ghana, LGBT people are criminalized, and the punishment is three years imprisonment. In Algeria, LGBT people are criminalized, and the punishment is three years imprisonment and a fine of 10,000 Dinars. In Cameroon, LGBT people are criminalized, and the punishment is five years imprisonment and a fine of 200,000 West African CFA Francs. In Zimbabwe, LGBT people are criminalized, and the punishment is one year imprisonment and a fine. In Saudi Arabia, LGBT people are VERY heavily criminalized, and the punishment is the death penalty. In Zambia, LGBT people are criminalized, and the punishment is life imprisonment. In Mauritania, LGBT people are criminalized, and the punishment is death by stoning. The list of countries that criminalize LGBT is ENDLESS. In America, you are free to love whoever you want without any punishment. So, I would definitely say that America is a free country ;)

[thelesbiancanary]

As an exclusionist who's also a lesbian, these are my LGBT opinions:

- you need gender dysphoria to be trans

- if you don't have gender dysphoria, you aren't trans

- gender dysphoria is a mental disorder/condition

- lesbian means WOMEN loving WOMEN

- gay means MEN loving MEN

- pansexuality isn't real

- pansexuality is biphobic

- trans kids/teens shouldn't be allowed to medically transition until they are 18

- the acronym is LGBT, there's no Q, there's no QIA, and there's no +

- he/him lesbians aren't real and they aren't valid

- they/them lesbians aren't real and they aren't valid

- pronouns = gender

- there's only two genders (women and men/female and male)

- aromantic and asexuality aren't spectrums

- aromantic and asexual people are valid but they aren't apart of the LGBT community

- having a preference when it comes to dating doesn't mean that you need to come up with a whole new “LGBT” label to feel special

- being nonbinary isn't real

- xenogenders and xenopronouns aren't real and they aren't valid

- xenogenders, xenopronouns, etc make the LGBT community look like a joke

- gatekeeping in the LGBT community is necessary

- the LGBT community isn't some club that everybody can join just to feel special

- qu33r is a slur and you shouldn't call people qu33r unless they give you permission to call them that

- being genderfluid isn't real

[genderflu1dwh0r]

Wtf, I guess I'm not real??? I'm genderfluid and proud, damnit. This list is wack.

[thelesbiancanary]

Whatever you say babe 😂 I think my list is pretty cool, thanks :D

[genderflu1dwh0r]

It's my experience, you can't just say that it isn't real, bAbE. Happy Pride Month to everyone except these types of people that make these weird lists.

[thelesbiancanary]

Think whatever you want babe ;) And I don't care about pride month, so I could care less about you “not wishing me a happy pride month” 😂

[genderflu1dwh0r]

So you do care, cause you said "I could care less" instead of I couldn't care less. It's ok, you can be a good person.

[thelesbiancanary]

Baby, I don't care what you think of me 😂 We're just strangers on the internet ;) I don't care if you think I'm a good person or not, it's a free country ♥️

[genderflu1dwh0r]

Why do you insist on calling me baby and babe, cause it makes me uncomfortable. I know you are a stranger, but I can tell you that you are a weirdo. Also it's not a free country, it's pretty much the opposite. America is absolutely shit.

[thelesbiancanary]

America IS very much a free country. My stepfather grew up in Mexico, he was raised in Mexico, but he immigrated to the US when he grew older. He is now married to my birthmother and they had a baby together, but he cannot go back to visit his family in Mexico because they told him not to come to Mexico because it is unsafe. The cartels have been performing executions in cold blood, and it's scaring the shit out of his family, but they cannot leave, so they have to stay there meanwhile he cannot visit them. In America, it is a free country where people of all colors can walk about freely and live their lives — as they should be able to. In America, we have freedom of speech and freedom of the press, but in communist countries like China, they censor everything and you are not allowed to speak out against the government. In America, we are allowed to have any hairstyle we want, but in North Korea, their citizens can ONLY wear 15 state-approved hairstyles, and their hair must be kept at a certain length at all times. In North Korea, it is MANDATORY to have a picture of the president in your home, and if your house is burning, you must save the picture of the president first before you can save your family or you will be punished. In America, we punish only the individual (or group, duo, etc) guilty for the crime, but in North Korea, if a person commits a crime, up to three generations of an offenders family can be executed. THREE generations of INNOCENT individuals can be executed solely because one person in the family decided to commit a crime.

[thelesbiancanary]

Again, this is controversial but being genderfluid isn't real. The brain just doesn't work like that, it can't just switch back and forth between genders. It's literally scientifically impossible, and many doctors and scientists have proved this.

[genderflu1dwh0r]

Not sorry for my French, you are retarded. I genuinely don't like you and how you talk like this. You aren't genderfluid so you have absolutely NO say in this shit. I am genderfluid and those people saying it's fake/impossible are lying.

You can't tell me that I'm not genderfluid, I am and you literally can't prove that I'm not. You don't know me, you don't know my body or my mind, you aren't a friend or family. Shut up for once. Just because you are a lesbian doesn't mean you are the shit, you are a lesbian who is lesbianphobic. Lesbians can be wrong.

[thelesbiancanary]

If living in reality means that I, a lesbian, am somehow “lesbianphobic”, then I am happily a “lesbianphobic” lesbian ♥️

[thelesbiancanary]

As an exclusionist who's also a lesbian, these are my LGBT opinions:

- you need gender dysphoria to be trans

- if you don't have gender dysphoria, you aren't trans

- gender dysphoria is a mental disorder/condition

- lesbian means WOMEN loving WOMEN

- gay means MEN loving MEN

- pansexuality isn't real

- pansexuality is biphobic

- trans kids/teens shouldn't be allowed to medically transition until they are 18

- the acronym is LGBT, there's no Q, there's no QIA, and there's no +

- he/him lesbians aren't real and they aren't valid

- they/them lesbians aren't real and they aren't valid

- pronouns = gender

- there's only two genders (women and men/female and male)

- aromantic and asexuality aren't spectrums

- aromantic and asexual people are valid but they aren't apart of the LGBT community

- having a preference when it comes to dating doesn't mean that you need to come up with a whole new “LGBT” label to feel special

- being nonbinary isn't real

- xenogenders and xenopronouns aren't real and they aren't valid

- xenogenders, xenopronouns, etc make the LGBT community look like a joke

- gatekeeping in the LGBT community is necessary

- the LGBT community isn't some club that everybody can join just to feel special

- qu33r is a slur and you shouldn't call people qu33r unless they give you permission to call them that

- being genderfluid isn't real

[genderflu1dwh0r]

Wtf, I guess I'm not real??? I'm genderfluid and proud, damnit. This list is wack.

[thelesbiancanary]

Whatever you say babe 😂 I think my list is pretty cool, thanks :D

[genderflu1dwh0r]

It's my experience, you can't just say that it isn't real, bAbE. Happy Pride Month to everyone except these types of people that make these weird lists.

[thelesbiancanary]

Think whatever you want babe ;) And I don't care about pride month, so I could care less about you “not wishing me a happy pride month” 😂

[genderflu1dwh0r]

So you do care, cause you said "I could care less" instead of I couldn't care less. It's ok, you can be a good person.

[thelesbiancanary]

Baby, I don't care what you think of me 😂 We're just strangers on the internet ;) I don't care if you think I'm a good person or not, it's a free country ♥️

[genderflu1dwh0r]

Why do you insist on calling me baby and babe, cause it makes me uncomfortable. I know you are a stranger, but I can tell you that you are a weirdo. Also it's not a free country, it's pretty much the opposite. America is absolutely shit.

[thelesbiancanary]

LOL. Hun, I call people that when I'm being sarcastic with them, oddly you needed to have that explained to you for some reason. America is a free country :) I'm a Filipina-Mexican american, and I can say that it IS a free country. Back in Mexico, crime is at an all time high. My stepfather cannot even go to visit his family in Mexico because the cartels are becoming more and more dangerous. In America, yes we do have crime, just like any country, but it is a free country where we have free speech, freedom of the press, etc. Also, I, a Filipina-Mexican can walk about freely without fear that people will judge me for my race or the language that I speak. It's insulting for you to say that America is shit when my stepfather has family in Mexico that are scared to death because the country is so overrun by drug cartels and crime. He feels blessed to live in America because he knows he is free here, and he doesn't have to worry about cartels taking over the country.

[thelesbiancanary]

As an exclusionist who's also a lesbian, these are my LGBT opinions:

- you need gender dysphoria to be trans

- if you don't have gender dysphoria, you aren't trans

- gender dysphoria is a mental disorder/condition

- lesbian means WOMEN loving WOMEN

- gay means MEN loving MEN

- pansexuality isn't real

- pansexuality is biphobic

- trans kids/teens shouldn't be allowed to medically transition until they are 18

- the acronym is LGBT, there's no Q, there's no QIA, and there's no +

- he/him lesbians aren't real and they aren't valid

- they/them lesbians aren't real and they aren't valid

- pronouns = gender

- there's only two genders (women and men/female and male)

- aromantic and asexuality aren't spectrums

- aromantic and asexual people are valid but they aren't apart of the LGBT community

- having a preference when it comes to dating doesn't mean that you need to come up with a whole new “LGBT” label to feel special

- being nonbinary isn't real

- xenogenders and xenopronouns aren't real and they aren't valid

- xenogenders, xenopronouns, etc make the LGBT community look like a joke

- gatekeeping in the LGBT community is necessary

- the LGBT community isn't some club that everybody can join just to feel special

- qu33r is a slur and you shouldn't call people qu33r unless they give you permission to call them that

- being genderfluid isn't real

[genderflu1dwh0r]

Wtf, I guess I'm not real??? I'm genderfluid and proud, damnit. This list is wack.

[thelesbiancanary]

Whatever you say babe 😂 I think my list is pretty cool, thanks :D

[genderflu1dwh0r]

It's my experience, you can't just say that it isn't real, bAbE. Happy Pride Month to everyone except these types of people that make these weird lists.

[thelesbiancanary]

Think whatever you want babe ;) And I don't care about pride month, so I could care less about you “not wishing me a happy pride month” 😂

[genderflu1dwh0r]

So you do care, cause you said "I could care less" instead of I couldn't care less. It's ok, you can be a good person.

[thelesbiancanary]

Love you anyways though 😚

[thelesbiancanary]

As an exclusionist who's also a lesbian, these are my LGBT opinions:

- you need gender dysphoria to be trans

- if you don't have gender dysphoria, you aren't trans

- gender dysphoria is a mental disorder/condition

- lesbian means WOMEN loving WOMEN

- gay means MEN loving MEN

- pansexuality isn't real

- pansexuality is biphobic

- trans kids/teens shouldn't be allowed to medically transition until they are 18

- the acronym is LGBT, there's no Q, there's no QIA, and there's no +

- he/him lesbians aren't real and they aren't valid

- they/them lesbians aren't real and they aren't valid

- pronouns = gender

- there's only two genders (women and men/female and male)

- aromantic and asexuality aren't spectrums

- aromantic and asexual people are valid but they aren't apart of the LGBT community

- having a preference when it comes to dating doesn't mean that you need to come up with a whole new “LGBT” label to feel special

- being nonbinary isn't real

- xenogenders and xenopronouns aren't real and they aren't valid

- xenogenders, xenopronouns, etc make the LGBT community look like a joke

- gatekeeping in the LGBT community is necessary

- the LGBT community isn't some club that everybody can join just to feel special

- qu33r is a slur and you shouldn't call people qu33r unless they give you permission to call them that

- being genderfluid isn't real

[genderflu1dwh0r]

Wtf, I guess I'm not real??? I'm genderfluid and proud, damnit. This list is wack.

[thelesbiancanary]

Whatever you say babe 😂 I think my list is pretty cool, thanks :D

[genderflu1dwh0r]

It's my experience, you can't just say that it isn't real, bAbE. Happy Pride Month to everyone except these types of people that make these weird lists.

[thelesbiancanary]

Think whatever you want babe ;) And I don't care about pride month, so I could care less about you “not wishing me a happy pride month” 😂

[genderflu1dwh0r]

So you do care, cause you said "I could care less" instead of I couldn't care less. It's ok, you can be a good person.

[thelesbiancanary]

Baby, I don't care what you think of me 😂 We're just strangers on the internet ;) I don't care if you think I'm a good person or not, it's a free country ♥️

[thelesbiancanary]

As an exclusionist who's also a lesbian, these are my LGBT opinions:

- you need gender dysphoria to be trans

- if you don't have gender dysphoria, you aren't trans

- gender dysphoria is a mental disorder/condition

- lesbian means WOMEN loving WOMEN

- gay means MEN loving MEN

- pansexuality isn't real

- pansexuality is biphobic

- trans kids/teens shouldn't be allowed to medically transition until they are 18

- the acronym is LGBT, there's no Q, there's no QIA, and there's no +

- he/him lesbians aren't real and they aren't valid

- they/them lesbians aren't real and they aren't valid

- pronouns = gender

- there's only two genders (women and men/female and male)

- aromantic and asexuality aren't spectrums

- aromantic and asexual people are valid but they aren't apart of the LGBT community

- having a preference when it comes to dating doesn't mean that you need to come up with a whole new “LGBT” label to feel special

- being nonbinary isn't real

- xenogenders and xenopronouns aren't real and they aren't valid

- xenogenders, xenopronouns, etc make the LGBT community look like a joke

- gatekeeping in the LGBT community is necessary

- the LGBT community isn't some club that everybody can join just to feel special

- qu33r is a slur and you shouldn't call people qu33r unless they give you permission to call them that

- being genderfluid isn't real

[genderflu1dwh0r]

Wtf, I guess I'm not real??? I'm genderfluid and proud, damnit. This list is wack.

[thelesbiancanary]

Whatever you say babe 😂 I think my list is pretty cool, thanks :D

[genderflu1dwh0r]

It's my experience, you can't just say that it isn't real, bAbE. Happy Pride Month to everyone except these types of people that make these weird lists.

[thelesbiancanary]

Think whatever you want babe ;) And I don't care about pride month, so I could care less about you “not wishing me a happy pride month” 😂

[thelesbiancanary]

As an exclusionist who's also a lesbian, these are my LGBT opinions:

- you need gender dysphoria to be trans

- if you don't have gender dysphoria, you aren't trans

- gender dysphoria is a mental disorder/condition

- lesbian means WOMEN loving WOMEN

- gay means MEN loving MEN

- pansexuality isn't real

- pansexuality is biphobic

- trans kids/teens shouldn't be allowed to medically transition until they are 18

- the acronym is LGBT, there's no Q, there's no QIA, and there's no +

- he/him lesbians aren't real and they aren't valid

- they/them lesbians aren't real and they aren't valid

- pronouns = gender

- there's only two genders (women and men/female and male)

- aromantic and asexuality aren't spectrums

- aromantic and asexual people are valid but they aren't apart of the LGBT community

- having a preference when it comes to dating doesn't mean that you need to come up with a whole new “LGBT” label to feel special

- being nonbinary isn't real

- xenogenders and xenopronouns aren't real and they aren't valid

- xenogenders, xenopronouns, etc make the LGBT community look like a joke

- gatekeeping in the LGBT community is necessary

- the LGBT community isn't some club that everybody can join just to feel special

- qu33r is a slur and you shouldn't call people qu33r unless they give you permission to call them that

- being genderfluid isn't real

[genderflu1dwh0r]

Wtf, I guess I'm not real??? I'm genderfluid and proud, damnit. This list is wack.

[thelesbiancanary]

Whatever you say babe 😂 I think my list is pretty cool, thanks :D

[cinnamonxiomy]

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5. ˚ ✩ ꒰ ɞ̴̶̷ ·̮ ɞ̴̶̷ ꒱ ｡ ˚ I ᥕᥲs m͙i͙d͙n͙i͙g͙h͙t͙ rᥲιᥒ ⁺ 𓂋 𓈒 🎐 ❀

[thelesbiancanary]

There's so many things wrong with this tweet.

1. Saying that lesbians can't like men isn't being a terf! Lesbians can NOT like men. The whole point of being a lesbian is NOT liking men.

2. Lesbians CAN'T like dick. Lesbians can like fake ones (s*x toys) but lesbians can NOT like real dick, if they do, they're not lesbians.

3. You're right. Nonbinary people are NOT included in lesbianism, because guess what? Lesbians are WOMEN who like other WOMEN.

[snownonthebeach-deactivated2023]

august slipped away into a moment in time, ’cause it was never mine

[thelesbiancanary]

Hot take of the day:

As a lesbian, not wanting to date trans women (both pre-op and post-op) doesn't make me transphobic. I can't control what I'm attracted to. I still support & respect trans women (and trans people in general) but I'm just not attracted to them, and that's fine 💗

[iwilltransyourgender]

Now, this one bothers me. Let me explain.

People have their attractions, of course. I will forever envy anyone who can see past the physical and truly be attracted to a person solely based on their personality and vibes. I am not one of those people. I have physical preferences. And so do most other people.

It is not fatphobic to find fat people physically unattractive. It is not the opposite (or skinnyphobic, I suppose, for the sake of needing a word) to find slimmer people unattractive. One of my dear friends is only attracted to fat women (not curvy or chubby, fat), where my preference lies in broad, athletic bodies with very little curve. He likes ginger women, I prefer brunettes. He likes emotionally strong extroverted women, I prefer softer spoken introverts. He likes academically-driven people, I prefer artists.

The important thing is that we respect each other's attractions UNTIL it reaches a point of straight up disrespect.

This "hot take" is disrespect.

Of course, sex is important to a lot of people. And being attracted to a person's sex organs is inherent to a sexual-romantic relationship. So I can understand a lesbian woman who wouldn't want to have a relationship with a pre-op trans woman if sex is part of her love-language. Or a gay man who doesn't want to date pre-op trans men.

But there is literally no reason, IMO, for a lesbian/bisexual/etc. to find a post-op trans woman unattractive. She is, biologically and emotionally, the same as any AFAB woman. If sex organs are important, well, she's post-op, so she HAS female sex organs, and believe me when I say that the surgery is so precise that you wouldn't be able to tell the difference anyway. The only reason you would KNOW or even have legitimate reason to SUSPECT a post-op woman is trans is if she told you. So where does the problem lie?

It's just straight up transphobia, ladies and gentlemen. It's disrespect. Even if you're an ally for trans rights and have trans friends, whatever, you can still be transphobic. You, the OP, are literally saying that you don't see trans women the same as biological women (post-op or otherwise). That. Is. Transphobic.

Post-op, pre-op, no-op, whatever the fuck they wanna do, trans women ARE women. And trans men ARE men.

[thelesbiancanary]

There isn't anything wrong with not finding a post-op trans woman attractive. You can't change what you're attracted to. LGBT activists in the 1900's fought for equal rights by saying that they can't help who they are romantically & physically attracted to. That's the whole point of fighting for LGBT rights - We can't change who we're attracted to, and that shouldn't declare us as less than anybody else, and we shouldn't be vilified/demonized for our attraction/sexuality. Saying that lesbians not being attracted to post-op trans women is transphobic isn't true. Not being attracted to trans people in general isn't transphobic. Again, NOBODY can change who they're attracted to, regardless of their sexuality or gender. Transphobic means having a hatred of trans people, and that's not me. Even my trans friends have told me that it's not transphobic to not be attracted to trans people. I love and respect trans people, but I'm just not attracted to them and that's okay. Again, my attraction isn't something that I choose. And saying that my attraction is something that I somehow have control over or that it's something that I choose, is homophobic. The whole argument made by LGBT activists to fight for LGBT rights was that we can't change who we're attracted to, both physically and romantically. We shouldn't be reinforcing the idea that LGBT people's sexuality/attraction is something that they have control over/can choose.

[chubbyashe-deactivated20240727]

If you aren’t transphobic, why would you advocate to restrict gender affirming care for minors, or deny the existence of nonbinary people, or invalidate every lesbian who is anything other than a cis woman or she/her? That’s the markings of a terf. To boot, you are also fatphobic because on your “lesbians can’t be men” post, one of your tags says “fatphobia”. So I guess now fat women don’t exist. Explain that to me. You don’t seem to see trans or fat women as truly women. Also, on an unrelated note: pansexuality is “biphobic” lmfao are you serious? Many identify as both bi and pan and they’re literally under the same umbrella. You’re the biphobic one.

[thelesbiancanary]

Baby, you can think whatever you want about me, I don't care. We're just strangers on the internet :)

Minors shouldn't undergo surgery to transition/be given puberty blockers until they go through YEARS of therapy to make sure that their dysphoria isn't a product of another condition. Puberty blockers/surgery have the power to alter someone's body FOREVER, and if they realize that they aren't trans after having gone through medical transition, they won't be able to reverse it.

You can call me transphobic, it doesn't affect me ❤️

Also, I never said that fat women aren't truly women, LOL. You're just putting words in my mouth. But again, you can think whatever you want about me, it doesn't affect me. Love ya 🫶

[thelesbiancanary]

Hot take of the day:

As a lesbian, not wanting to date trans women (both pre-op and post-op) doesn't make me transphobic. I can't control what I'm attracted to. I still support & respect trans women (and trans people in general) but I'm just not attracted to them, and that's fine 💗

[iwilltransyourgender]

Now, this one bothers me. Let me explain.

People have their attractions, of course. I will forever envy anyone who can see past the physical and truly be attracted to a person solely based on their personality and vibes. I am not one of those people. I have physical preferences. And so do most other people.

It is not fatphobic to find fat people physically unattractive. It is not the opposite (or skinnyphobic, I suppose, for the sake of needing a word) to find slimmer people unattractive. One of my dear friends is only attracted to fat women (not curvy or chubby, fat), where my preference lies in broad, athletic bodies with very little curve. He likes ginger women, I prefer brunettes. He likes emotionally strong extroverted women, I prefer softer spoken introverts. He likes academically-driven people, I prefer artists.

The important thing is that we respect each other's attractions UNTIL it reaches a point of straight up disrespect.

This "hot take" is disrespect.

Of course, sex is important to a lot of people. And being attracted to a person's sex organs is inherent to a sexual-romantic relationship. So I can understand a lesbian woman who wouldn't want to have a relationship with a pre-op trans woman if sex is part of her love-language. Or a gay man who doesn't want to date pre-op trans men.

But there is literally no reason, IMO, for a lesbian/bisexual/etc. to find a post-op trans woman unattractive. She is, biologically and emotionally, the same as any AFAB woman. If sex organs are important, well, she's post-op, so she HAS female sex organs, and believe me when I say that the surgery is so precise that you wouldn't be able to tell the difference anyway. The only reason you would KNOW or even have legitimate reason to SUSPECT a post-op woman is trans is if she told you. So where does the problem lie?

It's just straight up transphobia, ladies and gentlemen. It's disrespect. Even if you're an ally for trans rights and have trans friends, whatever, you can still be transphobic. You, the OP, are literally saying that you don't see trans women the same as biological women (post-op or otherwise). That. Is. Transphobic.

Post-op, pre-op, no-op, whatever the fuck they wanna do, trans women ARE women. And trans men ARE men.

[thelesbiancanary]

There isn't anything wrong with not finding a post-op trans woman attractive. You can't change what you're attracted to. LGBT activists in the 1900's fought for equal rights by saying that they can't help who they are romantically & physically attracted to. That's the whole point of fighting for LGBT rights - We can't change who we're attracted to, and that shouldn't declare us as less than anybody else, and we shouldn't be vilified/demonized for our attraction/sexuality. Saying that lesbians not being attracted to post-op trans women is transphobic isn't true. Not being attracted to trans people in general isn't transphobic. Again, NOBODY can change who they're attracted to, regardless of their sexuality or gender. Transphobic means having a hatred of trans people, and that's not me. Even my trans friends have told me that it's not transphobic to not be attracted to trans people. I love and respect trans people, but I'm just not attracted to them and that's okay. Again, my attraction isn't something that I choose. And saying that my attraction is something that I somehow have control over or that it's something that I choose, is homophobic. The whole argument made by LGBT activists to fight for LGBT rights was that we can't change who we're attracted to, both physically and romantically. We shouldn't be reinforcing the idea that LGBT people's sexuality/attraction is something that they have control over/can choose.

[thelesbiancanary]

She is so beautiful 🩷 I hope Taylor knows how loved she is <3

[thelesbiancanary]

lesbians are women. lesbians are women.

lesbians are women. lesbians are women.

lesbians are women. lesbians are women.

lesbians are women. lesbians are women.

lesbians are women. lesbians are women.

lesbians are women. lesbians are women.

[thelesbiancanary]

men can't be lesbians. men can't be lesbians.

men can't be lesbians. men can't be lesbians.

men can't be lesbians. men can't be lesbians.

men can't be lesbians. men can't be lesbians.

men can't be lesbians. men can't be lesbians.

men can't be lesbians. men can't be lesbians.

[byeswiftiebitches-deactivated20]

are we out of the woods yet?