Chaotic Sweetheart @thembohux - Tumblr Blog

Hi, my name’s Lita and I have some things to say: I’m very tired of people disregarding personal things about my blog so here is a before you follow

My main focus for this blog is fandom content, but that doesn’t negate my personal beliefs.

-I do not tolerate: homophobia/transphobia/aphobia, racism, ableism or antisemitism

-TERFs, radfems, “gender critical” and the like will be blocked on sight. You don’t belong here, you’re not welcome here and you’re a bitch

-I am an 18+ blog. I do not want any children following me. If you’re a minor or have no age listed, you will be BLOCKED

-anything I don’t want reblogged is tagged “dntrblg” it is the second tag after my personal tag. I will DM you the first few times it is disregarded. We all make mistakes. But if you repeatedly disregard it, I will block you. This goes DOUBLE for selfies I post. NEVER reblog those unless I say it’s ok. Things that aren’t tagged that way or are tagged “ok2rblg” are fair game

-if I accidentally slip up and rb something that makes you uncomfortable (a trigger, something that just makes you uncomfortable, OP is trash, etc.), PLEASE let me know. I’ll make a tag for you to blacklist or delete the post (depending on the circumstances)

If you are willing to respect these boundaries, my pronouns and my identity, Welcome! If not, please do not proceed past this post ❤️

If you’re interested in my writing (multi-chapter fics, my Empress AU, etc.), my Ao3 can be found here or you can search the “my writing” tag! Please note that all Star Wars content is currently on hiatus!

If you’d like to be tagged in my Empress AU content, please fill in this Google Form

Requests are OPEN and rules are here

My Writing Masterlist can be found here!

#lita talks #dntrblg #byf #my new pinned post :)

sunsetbuddie

when you say something awkward and stupid in a social situation that probably no one will remember except you for the rest of time

wizardarchetypes

when i was a kid there was a big spider that lived in our kitchen. we called it a wolf spider bc we had some in the cellar, but probably it was a giant european house spider. also my mom worked for the county newspaper, where she wrote a featured front-page column every sunday. more on that later. i named the spider something very silly, a completely made up word (can't say the name bc it could doxx me) and one winter morning our furnace was broken and the Furnace Guy came to fix it. me and my siblings were sat in the kitchen eating breakfast before school when he walked in the door (we used the kitchen door as our main entrance instead of the actual front door) and while he was talking to my mom, our spider skittered out from under a counter. he went "WOAH THAT'S HUGE!" and as we all yelled "NO" in an instant but what felt like slow motion, he killed our spider with one stomp.

i immediately began wailing and my siblings were themselves in uproar. the guy was mortified. i guess if you crawl around in cellar furnaces for a living, stomping spiders might become deeply instinctual to you. but i think he might have began to second-guess himself after that.

already he was deeply apologetic. you could tell he felt really bad for what he'd done and that perhaps he was reconsidering his stomp-stance on spiders. so to this day i become almost hysterical with laughter when i imagine what he must have felt picking up the newspaper from his front steps that next weekend, the special, full-color sunday issue with all the extra content, to see the front-page, left-hand column, a Eulogy to our spider.

homunculus-argument

Actually the monkeys have unionised. That's their circus now.

bluerose5

Because I'm struggling with this right now, friendly reminder to my fellow writers to be kind to yourself. The amount and frequency of what you post does not determine if you're a good writer. Inspiration and motivation will come to you in time if you're experiencing any sort of burnout, and anything from brainstorming to note-taking to writing scenes that will never see the light of day are all still part of your progress and growth as a writer. Love y'all and everything you do! 💖

abisalli

hold on i'm trying to spell gorjus

calisverse

House of the Dragon, ( 2022, USA) Season One, Episode Six

Olivia Cooke as Alicent Hightower

feyd-meowtha

jakemorph

youre an olympic level hater. i respect it.

they asked me to represent my country in the sport of hating i said no. i hate my country

*in my best Alan from Smiling Friends voice* I am getting a divorce-uh

#lita talks #dntrblg #is this anything??#not a joke btw I am getting one #my choice also. too much to talk about here and also I am choosing to keep some of it private #even though I am a chronic oversharer

kosmogrl

binturong-of-the-day

The binturong who suspects you’re carrying fruit in your bag, perhaps a banana, or even grapes

this-is-trans-joy

everyone loves to hate terfs until they realise that it actually entails rejecting bioessentialism entirely and then suddenly you’re “taking things too seriously” and you “don’t have a sense of humour” like i’m sorry but saying protect the dolls doesn’t make you immune to terfism it has seeped into every corner of mainstream feminism and unless you’re actively searching it out and checking your own biases you will always be at risk of sharing a space with terfs

this-is-trans-joy

“Only women can—” nope. “But all men—” nah. “The divine femininity of—” gonna stop you right there. “Everyone born ama—” if you finish that sentence I’ll kill you. “Men don’t experience—” you’re wrong. “Gender isn’t real but sex is imm—” *loud incorrect buzzer*

It also goes without saying that bioessentialism inherently can’t be trans inclusive no matter how hard you try. “All men including trans men—” probably not. “This is only a woman’s issue—” is it really? “Afabs only—” why? “All trans men are like—” what? what are they like? finish the sentence i dare you.