𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐠𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 (𝐦𝐨𝐨𝐧 & 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐭𝐡 𝐧𝐨𝐝𝐞 𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧) 🌘
WARNING: mention of some sensitive topics
𝔸𝕣𝕚𝕖𝕤 𝕞𝕠𝕠𝕟/𝕤𝕠𝕦𝕥𝕙 𝕟𝕠𝕕𝕖 - not being able to assert and express yourself as you truly are really triggers you. Also people trying to stop your self expression or mould you into someone more "manageable". Basically people saying that you are "too reactive" or "too aggressive". The biggest wound here is feeling like people don't respect your opinions so you feel like you have to fight back or be aggressive in order for you to be heard. I've noticed that women with this can really feel the inequalities between men and women, especially in work related situations (coming from an Aries Moon myself). There is also a wound around people having an issue with you just being yourself. You could've also been bullied just for being yourself. But fuck em boo, just keep doing you. Even though it may hurt at first you're making space for the people that are actually meant to be in your life. Trust me
𝕋𝕒𝕦𝕣𝕦𝕤 𝕞𝕠𝕠𝕟/𝕤𝕠𝕦𝕥𝕙 𝕟𝕠𝕕𝕖 - someone not respecting your personal space or not stopping when you tell them to stop. Taurians are the most grounded people there is but they DO NOT like to be pushed too far so you can get a reaction out of them. There's also a wound here around people trying to take from you, whether that be your time, your resources, your energy. These are very generous and giving people by nature, but when they feel taken advantage of or taken for granted it really hurts them. And it's not that you don't want to trust someone, because you really do, it's that it takes time for you to loosen your grip on control or forgive when someone really hurts you. So your knee jerk reaction is to guard your heart and put high walls up. Some of them might literally eat their feelings away, or there might even be compulsive shopping or periods where you are very frugal and times where you just wanna splurge.
𝔾𝕖𝕞𝕚𝕟𝕚 𝕞𝕠𝕠𝕟/𝕤𝕠𝕦𝕥𝕙 𝕟𝕠𝕕𝕖 - feeling like your thoughts aren't respected or that people don't want to hear what you have to say. Gemini energy likes to relate with people and make friends along the way, so when you feel like people are being fake to you or pushing you aside deeply hurts you (also feeling like the third wheel). You are also very analytical of your feelings and you need to talk them out or express them through words in order to process them, so not having someone to talk to about the chaos that goes in your mind or not having a proper outlet really triggers you. There seems to be a wound around friends or siblings. Either you are hurt when someone attacks your friends or siblings or you can be hurt by them very deeply. There is also an emotional connection to people that you grew up with, so either you are connected deeply to people in your neighbourhood and look out for them strongly or they might've been the ones to bring you pain. Also hurtful words and misinformation being spread really fucks with you.
ℂ𝕒𝕟𝕔𝕖𝕣 𝕞𝕠𝕠𝕟/𝕤𝕠𝕦𝕥𝕙 𝕟𝕠𝕕𝕖 - you are very protective of your inner child or at least your inner world. Also I have noticed that these people don't like to talk about their childhood much, if they've experienced a tough one that is. Regardless nurturing is the main trigger here. Either lack of nurturing or the most important one, being emotionally understood. They get triggered when they noticed that their caretakers didn't take their feelings into consideration so even in adulthood they put a shield around themselves because they were taught that expressing emotions is not okay. You could also be very overprotective of people and things you hold near and dear to your heart, even children, or innocent creatures like animals. I have noticed that these people want to preserve that naivety that little kids have so they become the protector they would've always wanted as an adult. They literally mother others, because truly what's going on is that they are nurturing others in the many ways they wished they were nurtured and emotionally seen.
𝕃𝕖𝕠 𝕞𝕠𝕠𝕟/𝕤𝕠𝕦𝕥𝕙 𝕟𝕠𝕕𝕖 - most of my friends and the people I understand in a very deep level are Leo moons. (could be because of my Aries moon) but I truly think these people are misunderstood. What really triggers them is being attacked in their identity. In the sense of this is who I am. They also feel very attacked when they notice that people are trying to dim their light and not allow them to take space. There is a big visibility wound here. People think they want attention but if you look behind the confidence and bravado. If you look behind the success and this facade they've put on you can see that what they truly want is to be seen and admired for THEM. They want to be appreciated for them and not for what they can do for you or for how impressive they can be. Because truly what's going is that on a deep level these lions and lionesses want to impress you with their personality. They are truly such beautiful souls and they literally shine from the inside out, but when someone looks at them and they have that sparkle in their eyes and they look to them with awe it really melts their heart. What triggers them is not being appreciated enough and also made to feel small or like "you aren't as great". I would advise you to look within first and admire your own qualities and not outsource them, because they have a tendency to seek validation outside of themselves.
𝕍𝕚𝕣𝕘𝕠 𝕞𝕠𝕠𝕟/𝕤𝕠𝕦𝕥𝕙 𝕟𝕠𝕕𝕖 - similar to Gemini energy, you process emotions through analysing them first. Words can really hurt or heal you, but what truly triggers you is something related to service. Either you were taught to always help other people and forget about yourself or your needs as a child were neglected. But this feels more related with the physical world rather than the emotional world. Similar to Taurians you might collect resources and have a big focus on making money, or just achieving stability. Because there seems to be a colder more neglectful energy here so you are a hard worker and a provider. Also these people have an emotional need to be grounded because that's also a way they can process emotions clearly (maybe they experienced a very chaotic environment which lacked down-to-earth people). However they do need a sense of order, so they can be control freaks sometimes because too much unpredictability or chaos drains them too much. These people I have noticed are very perceptive of others, and they can see and even accurately read you. They know exactly what people need and can read you like a book, so they feel called to help make your life practical in a way or "serve" you with their skills. What triggers these people is being taken for granted. Or when someone could give two fucks about what you've done for them, even if you tried with your whole heart to help people and they couldn't care less and even make you feel obligated to help them. Basically the biggest wound is being told that your only purpose is to provide and that your needs aren't as important.
𝕃𝕚𝕓𝕣𝕒 𝕞𝕠𝕠𝕟/𝕤𝕠𝕦𝕥𝕙 𝕟𝕠𝕕𝕖 - my dad has his Libra moon directly opposite to my Aries moon so we do tend to not see eye to eye in so many things. But what I've noticed about these people is that they are very concerned with keeping the peace. They get triggered very badly by chaos (maybe you experienced a chaotic environment growing up), and I hate to call some of y'all out but you guys truly are people pleasers. Don't get me wrong, it's actually really beautiful and thoughtful how you guys try to make sure everyone is okay and everyone is having a good time, but you will be so focused on balancing everyone out to the point where you neglect yourself and put your own needs, and sometimes other people's needs, to the side because you want approval of a certain group of people. Also there is a wound around being alone, or feeling like people will leave you if you assert yourself. But baby you can't allow people to walk all over you because you think that will make them stay. Sometimes you can do everything and be everyone for someone and it still not being enough. Also the biggest wound for them is something related to relationships and partnerships, and some people I know with this placement are serial daters, where they just can't be alone or don't know how to be by themselves.
𝕊𝕔𝕠𝕣𝕡𝕚𝕠 𝕞𝕠𝕠𝕟/𝕤𝕠𝕦𝕥𝕙 𝕟𝕠𝕕𝕖 - kinda similar to their sister sign Taurus they do not like to be pushed too far. They aren't the best with dealing with emotions so either they are too explosive or they bottle up their feelings until they can't anymore. I have noticed that they get super triggered when someone tries to lie or manipulate them. Also they don't take betrayals good at all, no matter what kind of relationship you have with them. Might even plot revenge (if they don't get you right away, they will when you least expect it even 10 years down the line. Seriously they can be veryyyy patient for these things), and even if they forgive you they NEVER forget. They are very solid people and they expect you to be like that as well. They do go through so much and my heart truly breaks for them because they are sooo incredibly strong and resilient, to the point where life and people constantly test them. Sometimes it feels like you have healed from some shit and you're over it, but then something happens, either someone shows up that reminds you of someone you don't fuck with no more, or a pattern presents itself to you. It can even be something someone said or someone trying to hide some shit from you or even lie and then you get hit by the painful memories again. It's like you've learned how to live with that wound but when something triggers it, it's like it has been reopened again. They could also deal with emotions physically or they seek power or a sense of control in a way. Some men I know with this deal with their emotions through sex. Others by having a sense of control in their lives. Regardless if there is one thing I can say about these people is that they are loyal asf. At least in my own experience. There was someone that wanted major friendship drama with me for no reason and a girl I knew with this placement had my back through it all. Even though I haven't heard from her in years she was an amazing soul. I can defend myself and I usually do look out for myself when shit like this occurs so when I asked her why she defended me she said "because I hate injustice". If you are loyal to them they are loyal to you, and if you have their back they are truly ride or die people until the bitter end.
𝕊𝕒𝕘𝕚𝕥𝕥𝕒𝕣𝕚𝕦𝕤 𝕞𝕠𝕠𝕟/𝕤𝕠𝕦𝕥𝕙 𝕟𝕠𝕕𝕖 - someone trying to take away their freedom is a BIG no no! They are naturally very expansive people, (sometimes they might even have exaggerated emotional reactions so people can call them dramatic), but honestly what truly is going on is that they have exaggerated reactions when they feel like someone or something is holding them back, or they aren't allowed to express their big personality. As a form of retaliation they can be incredibly selfish and rude, but when you peel back that layer and try to look inside it's because they want to experience life and not be stuck in loops. They like to move on from things and situations and sometimes they might jump from a person to the next because they don't want to SIT with their feelings too much, and thus they don't heal them properly. Honestly they have a fear of being controlled or feeling stuck in a situation with no way out. They don't want to be contained as they are a free soul and their purpose is to be a free soul and travel, meet new people, experience LIFE. Also these aren't the people to think if there is more to life, as they want to go out there and experience it for themselves. They get triggered when someone says that they should be okay with the cards they've been dealt with and not complain too much but the truth is that these people are meant and they want more from life. Their biggest enemy is their impatience though, as they can sometimes retaliate so much just to prove a point.
ℂ𝕒𝕡𝕣𝕚𝕔𝕠𝕣𝕟 𝕞𝕠𝕠𝕟/𝕤𝕠𝕦𝕥𝕙 𝕟𝕠𝕕𝕖- what I've noticed with these people is that they have a problem with emotions. It makes me laugh sometimes because I just get the feeling like they don't know what to do when someone cries near them lol. (because they feel uncomfortable with emotional expression). Regardless, they might present themselves as detached or cold, or the types to seek external success but deeply what is actually going on is that they have a wound around authority or even being recognised by one. Some of them might have issues with the father or the parental figures in general, maybe even the grandparents. Or with their bosses. They actually want to be rewarded for their hard work, because they put in so much effort into things so not being acknowledged for what they contribute really triggers them. They are some of the most solid people I know, and they won't back down come hell or high water. One of my teaching assistants had a Cap moon and she would be so triggered when she noticed students distracted, aloof or on their phones. In the beginning it felt like she was just exercising her power but when I tried to look deeper into her, I noticed it truly came from a deep need to be respected. So some of them can get triggered when they feel like they're not respected, even if not as an authority figure then as a person in general. People think they don't like laziness and it is true to some extent but what's really going on is that they don't like half-assed efforts. Whether that be effort at work, or even maintaining relationships they don't like it when someone seems to be unserious or just not solid. They also have a wound around "belonging", because Capricorn energy is about leaving a legacy behind, and they actually do truly want to feel like they belong somewhere and lay their roots, be that with a person or job it doesn't matter. So another trigger can be not having a solid foundation or them not feeling like who they have around or what they do is solid.
𝔸𝕢𝕦𝕒𝕣𝕚𝕦𝕤 𝕞𝕠𝕠𝕟/𝕤𝕠𝕦𝕥𝕙 𝕟𝕠𝕕𝕖- this is yet another one that is uncomfortable with emotional expression. These people process their feelings relationally, and similar to other air moons might distract themselves through other people. Aquarius energy is about the collective at large, so they might have a wound around that or feel super triggered if they feel like their energy is pulled in a billion directions, if they are more introverted. Also similar to Sagittarians in a way, they don't like to be shackled or tied down to anything and anyone. Except, unlike wanting to experience, Aquarians are about sharing, so feeling like they have so much to show to the world, or so many things they can contribute, especially their revolutionary ideas and genius abilities, and not having anyone to share it with or accepting and taking those in might trigger them. Another thing that might trigger them is seeing people fight for the wrong reasons or for a wrong cause. They are very revolutionary and hate injustice, because in the end of the day, they care about the collective at large, so it can even trigger them if the feel like they themselves are made to fight for a cause they don't believe in or promote or even do something to hurt other people. They are really humanitarian and altruisitic at their core.
ℙ𝕚𝕤𝕔𝕖𝕤 𝕞𝕠𝕠𝕟/𝕤𝕠𝕦𝕥𝕙 𝕟𝕠𝕕𝕖 - their emotions are like the deepest part of the ocean. They do feel shit very deeply and to their core, as is true with all water moons. But they deal with their feelings in a very spiritual sense. They might pray, or have this deep need to connect with a higher power (God). They may feel disappointed so deeply when they feel like they are reaching out to this higher power they believe in but hear nothing back. If they have bad spiritual experiences they might abandon religion or spirituality completely because of a deep rooted feeling of abandonment and disappointment. Some of them might even drink their feelings away. Honestly what I've noticed is that when they don't have a proper creative outlet. (It could even be something that they loved to do when they were young), they seek other outlets. All Pisces placements have a bit of escapist tendencies but when they don't have healthy channels for their emotions they can spiral so hard they might want to dissociate from the world completely. But their deepest trigger in my opinion is someone trying to destroy, control or invade their inner world. All Pisces placements have an inner world that they disappear to when life feels heavy, so when people tried to take that away from them or judge and shame them for it, it can trigger them very badly. My advice is to still hold on to your creative talents and not give a fuck about what the other's say. Just know that you have an incredible talent for anything art related, music, fashion, it can even be something that feels like art to you. It really doesn't matter and it doesn't have to make sense to people, what truly matters is if it makes sense to you, as long as it's not self destructive.
Sorry for the heavy topic guys. This post was incredibly cathartic, I just felt called to write about this topic for some reason. Please take care of yourselves and I will talk to you very soon! Love y'all
