I really really really need your help! Or someone's help! I have a friend that was in a relationship that they have since ended. There was a significant age gap and some sexual stuff happened I’ll just leave it at that. They really regret ending the relationship and calling him out on what he did. I don’t know what to do! Do I convince them not to get back into the relationship? Do I support them in whatever decision they make, even if it will und up hurting him? The thing is I don’t know (1/2)
their ex personally so I don’t know if they are an actually bad person or a nice person that fucked up. I really don’t want them to get back into the relationship because I don’t want them to get into any more potential harm. I just don’t know what I should do! And even if I did know what to do I don’t know HOW to do it! It is really stressing me out and I want to help them! Please help! (2/2)
MOD ZERO;
I really say that you should not support something that you feel will end well. If your gut is telling you that it won’t end well, and you think something is going on, I would definitely stand your ground. Being a friend isn’t supporting them in whatever they do, but not letting them stray into harm’s path. If you really feel they are in danger in this relationship, I think that you should let them know. If not them, someone else you trust. However, i do think that looking into your friend’s ex and how they are as a person plays a significant role in deciding on how to act in this situation and judging whether this is a decision you want to support. I hope this helps you.
















