I’m so scared of speaking my opinion and I hate it! When I see something that I don’t agree with or when I see someone overeating about something that I don’t think they should worry about, I want to talk with that person about it. I just want to have a calm levelheaded conversation to sort out who is right and who is wrong. But I know for a fact that isn’t going to happen! The other person is going to say that I’m a bad person for not agreeing with them, (1/2)
or say that because I said these thing that means I think these things and that means I’m bad. I just don’t want to bad a bad person! I wish I could have a calm conversation with someone about what I believe and my opinions to find out what is wrong and right, what is harmful and what isn’t, what is bad and what is good. It is so so stressful, and I wish I could say it only happens on the internet, but It’s been happening more and more irl. (2/2)
I know it’s hard to stand up for your opinions, especially when you want to avoid conflict or the loss of friendship. It’s like being stuck between a rock and a hard place, and-pardon my french, either way you feel like you’re fucked. Personally, I too struggle with holding my options, as I hate conflict and hate making others upset. However, if what you believe is what your believe then the other party should respect that! (There are few exceptions, but I don’t feel like any of them would apply to you) Misinformed people are the worst to talk to about the topics they don’t know about, because they will claim to you, just hold your head high and remind yourself you are the alpha party. I believe in you!
Mod Infinity