I think a relationship with James would be sooo tiring, for me i just can't get in a relationship where the man views himself sooo above me or views me like a doll to play with, dih may be that good but... it's very toxic (anyways that's my point of view you can correct if I'm wrong in something)
Oh, there’s no need for correction, it’s your POV, and I respect it. I understand where you’re coming from
The thing with James is, if you’re just a pretty doll to him or the only thing you have to offer is sex, he’s most likely not going to be with you 🥀 because the man has no shortage of that.
As for him viewing himself as higher and mightier than everyone else, let’s be honest he’s earned that shit lol.
And no, I don’t think he would treat his partner as beneath him if you are someone he’s genuinely willing to be in a romantic relationship with. Understand that romance is probably the last thing most Lookism men want, so if they’re actually choosing to be with you—James or anyone else—I don’t see how he would look down to you in some way.
Like, I get that James can absolutely be toxic, yes. But I don’t think it would necessarily stem from a superiority complex toward his partner. I think it would be more likely to manifest as controlling behaviour, tbh 😔
See, I understand that not everyone is out there trying to conquer the world. If you’re someone who wants to live a relatively normal life and maybe isn’t as ambitious as him, I do think the respect James has for you could eventually diminish. And that’s where I think your point about him viewing you as beneath him comes into play.
For James to have a genuinely healthy, long-term relationship with someone, I think it would take more than sex and romance, it would require mutual respect. James barely respects anyone to begin with, so if he respects you, that would mean something 👀
For him, I think that respect would ultimately stem from the kind of person you are, your goals, your ambition, etc.Respect goes a long way with someone like James.