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@therewillbeforcefem
suddenly looks like I'm going to be homeless in two weeks. please help me out, cashapp is $aeonlight
even more suddenly it's not two weeks, it's today. I have to move back in with my abusive mother. paypal should be @ aeonlight2014 will add more payment spaces in reblogs
suddenly looks like I'm going to be homeless in two weeks. please help me out, cashapp is $aeonlight
Hi, Isabella of "sailatina" fame here. Boy did I really not want to do this, but I legitimately have no other choice.
Today I learned my step mother got an order of deportation. (She is from the Philippines.) My family will fight it in court, but lawyers are expensive and the bills just went up too. So, starting February 25th money will be tight. I'll have to pay for all my groceries and other necessities.
I don't have a job at the moment, so I'll have to look for one. And I have only about 800 bucks rn. In the event my step mother gets deported, my options will be to either move all the way over to the Philippines or find a new home on my own here.
This has put me in quite the predicament, and I truly have no choice but to exhaust all possible avenues to support myself and my family. Do not feel too much pressure to donate, tumblr donations should not be my primary income, but if you do have something to spare, my cashapp is $SnowStorm626.
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i hate to have to make a post ebegging again but in the past you have all been so helpful in keeping us on our feet. for that i am eternally grateful. as it stands i am without food stamps because they sent everybody their renewal mail late and thus, i did not have the time to renew them and have to dispute the cancellation of my benefits. my wife and i just moved into a new apartment and currently we are going to have to put so much money toward bills that we will only have around$50-100 dollars a week for food. if anybody can help with money for the time being i am more than happy to make porn or audios or anything of the sort.
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please help my friend. I've put hundreds of my very own dollars into helping her, she's finally getting to a place where she won't need help, this is truly the final stretch.
I literally had to argue her into believing she could afford salt. fucking salt. she's offering to do sex work for food money. please help.
Ultimately, I think the framework of the Abuser/Victim is one that is at best harmful to what it claims to do.
I am not saying abuse doesn't happen. I am not saying we shouldn't fight against harmful elements. However, the construction of this specific framework used to understand harm, as an ontologically Evil Abuser abusing the Good Innocent Victim, is one that can only be harmful. Let me explain.
There is no such thing as an Abuser. That is to say, people are not abusers. They are people who do abuse. Abuse (and all harm) is not a quality of a person, but rather something someone does. In the same way, there are no Victims, in the sense that victimhood is not a quality of a person, but rather a description of a situation. Therefore, framing it as kinds of people obfuscate the quality of harm that abuse occupies.
Additionally, this framework, because it uses these two neat boxes of classification, necessarily simplifies any situation. This means that, importantly, it often invisibilizes the harm done. Indeed, by focusing on abuser/victim as qualities of people, this framework inherently defavorizes discussion of the harm done. In this, it moves focus away from the action, and the harm, and therefore cannot serve to help the victim.
The existence itself of the framework is harmful in this way, in fact, as all discussions of harm done by someone risk being painted by a third party as an abuser.
This is something I have seen in my own life, where a friend talking about the way another friend hurt her (without claiming she was evil, or even that she hurt her on purpose) got that second friend painted as an abuser, and socially exiled (something that the person she hurt did not want to happen).
This framework fails to create any useful accounting and correcting of harm, as "abuser" is too vague a box, and no two situations require the same solution. Therefore, any harm within this framework has the same solution: Scorched earth, social exile. An Abuser is something to be killed, to be hurt, to remove from the world to protect the Victims.
In this, it reinforces abuse as a kind of person, and not an action. This view is wholly hurtful, once again, as the action is the actual concern in situations of abuse.
Worse even, Abuser as a trait of a person makes it harder, if not impossible to escape that classification. While harm is something that can be stopped, an Abuser is something that you Are, and can never stop being. This means Abusers are not allowed to be anything but Abusers.
In the same way, Victimhood, as it is constructed, removes agency from the victim in favor of punishing the abuser. The victim's opinions, are then ignored, or painted as "trauma bonding", therefore moving focus away from said victim, and from preventing actual harm, in favor of hurting someone who Deserves it.
This makes it terribly easy to weaponize this framework against minorities, crucially (not that any other framework would be free of that problem, but instead, it is that this specific framework is especially primed to allow this). The abuser as a kind of person is something that is easy to cast, that withdraws personhood, and remove focus on the actual actions. In this, it is tailor made to hurt opressed groups.
It is a form of punitive justice in this, not very different from the framework of carceral justice, and christian thought of justice as Punishment. It is our responsibility to understand this, and refrain from using such a framework.
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Oh, no, gentlefem is 2 doors that way, this is forcefem.
The door is locked...? Well you don't end up here without a reason. Here, i think these will suit you. "You'd never wear something so... eyecatching?" Hun, by the time i'm finished, you'll be nothing *but* eyecatching! Have some faith, i have an eye for these things.
(I swap the signs on the office doors later that evening)
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how the settings of men who complain about the consequences of not having their internet experience default to their biases instead of curating it themselves look
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they are also here to help as many girls share the world with us as possible!
to all the trans women who may see this, know this; all the world is lucky to be your home.
there are so many of you that i'm not satisfied to know just once. i wish i could live so many more lives just to know you again and again.
i love you, trans women.
Don't die wondering, and don't live without taking action once you figure it out.
It can be hard. It's going to feel impossible sometimes. You still have to take the steps towards leading the life you imagine, because it can be achieved.
Maybe you can't do it alone, and that's okay. You are never truly alone. You can always reach out for help, and there will be someone to take your hand and walk by your side for as long as you need it. It gets better.
For those of you who know what it feels like to be there, you need to be the person listening to those calls for help and do right by your sisters. Be there for her, no matter what. We need each other, always.
Help a girl become her best self.
She is dying. My little niece’s lips are torn open from the freezing cold in Gaza. Ignoring this could cost her life.
Her lips are cracked and bleeding, not just dry. She is too small to explain her pain, but she feels it every moment.
This may look small, but it is unbearable for her. Please donate urgently to treat her and buy milk before it’s too late.
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It doesn't look small. It looks horrific. As a toddler, just the cold on my hands made me want to cry. How can a little girl be expected to understand and endure this?
Please, stand with Aboud and his niece! No one, especially a child, should be forced to go through this! Donate whatever you can and share their campaign. Stand with my dear friend and his family, I beg of you!
If you're a cis boy in 2026, I genuinely want you to ask yourself why. Why are you cisgender? Is this something you want to be, or something you feel you have to? This isn't a bit. I want you to think about that, about whether you're doing this because you genuinely want to or because you feel like you don't have a choice. And if you find it's the latter, I'm here for you.
Help my friend survive!
My friend mia has had a very hard month and needs help to afford accomodations for her disability, she might lose her job, can't afford meds, and almost ended up homeless, please help her survive by donating and sharing!
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Mia’s ko-fi page is down so here is her paypal (sharing with her permission). Please rb with this addition!!
It's siscon saturday!!! If you don't have a sister yet, make one! Forcefem a friend or sibling, or get plural and kiss your syster today!
You could count cis men on one hand once i'm done
