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professionally diagnosed DID system - the tower || 26 years old 

[thetowerandthegrave]

Hello, we’re a professionally diagnosed DID system collectively known as The Tower. The body is 26 years old. He/Him for hosts, They/Them for system et al., other alters use own personal pronouns.

This blog is mainly for us to post/reblog aesthetic related stuff and have it all in one concise location, as well as occasionally yelling into the void.

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alter list a note about interaction

[2-point-5]

not to be rude but some of y'all need to look on the bright side sometimes. like, yeah sure the world is fucked and people suck and we all die whatever, sure, but like. go outside.

[2-point-5]

ok i phrased this poorly, hang on.

i'm not saying the cure for depression is touching grass. however, if you surround yourself with sad things and talk about how terrible life is and how much you're suffering and never take a breath and remember it's not all bad, you'll end up making yourself worse.

[bramblemilk]

pride SHOULD have weirdos and freaks actually. it shouldnt be sanitized and full of cookie cutter cis white thin ppl. say queer make out in the streets wear leather bring back flagging. stop trying to turn pride into a fun event for cishet families. queer ppl arent zoo exhibits. i want to see angry queers shouting their pride in the streets not be bombarded with rainbow pens from banks. keep pride a riot.

[diver-up]

i romanticize mundane things ab life too much i was watching a lecture for my animal behavior class and the prof mentioned that songbirds migrate at night guided in direction by the stars and i had to take a moment and pause the vid like oh songbirds look at the stars......

[arborealgargoyle]

I think you are doing life the correct way my friend you only learn songbirds look at stars once after all

[ircgalleria]

[thetowerandthegrave]

Literally all I do in my free time anymore is embroidery because not only is it a great creative outlet, it’s one of the few things that automatically puts us in a calm, meditative mindset.

So anyway, here’s this Moon Knight inspired piece I just finished because I’m deep lost in the sauce for this show, and I’m also a former Egyptology obsessed kid who then got diagnosed with DID so I’m pretty sure that this all was made literally just for me in mind.

[vsemily]

Internet Safety

[trueshredguitar]

i love that post thats like “never trust how you feel about your life after 9pm” that shit changed my life. every time i feel bad i look at the clock and i’m like Aha It’s 10:26 PM You Cannot Fucking Fool Me

[toastbutteregg]

[kelssiel]

tumblr users with the new blaze feature

[onemillionwordsofcrap]

This was already funny, but then catholicblr decided to use blaze to proselytize and now it's hysterical

[sovietshopaholic]

Counter Reformation Time

[brightwanderer]

I think a lot about how we as a culture have turned “forever” into the only acceptable definition of success.

Like… if you open a coffee shop and run it for a while and it makes you happy but then stuff gets too expensive and stressful and you want to do something else so you close it, it’s a “failed” business. If you write a book or two, then decide that you don’t actually want to keep doing that, you’re a “failed” writer. If you marry someone, and that marriage is good for a while, and then stops working and you get divorced, it’s a “failed” marriage.

The only acceptable “win condition” is “you keep doing that thing forever”. A friendship that lasts for a few years but then its time is done and you move on is considered less valuable or not a “real” friendship. A hobby that you do for a while and then are done with is a “phase” - or, alternatively, a “pity” that you don’t do that thing any more. A fandom is “dying” because people have had a lot of fun with it but are now moving on to other things.

I just think that something can be good, and also end, and that thing was still good. And it’s okay to be sad that it ended, too. But the idea that anything that ends is automatically less than this hypothetical eternal state of success… I don’t think that’s doing us any good at all.

[notegender]

when you talk about queer love, remember the queer love that isn’t romantic.

queer love can be two best friends who support each other through their transitions and go to pride together each glowing with admiration for the other

queer love can be siblings confiding in each other about the difficulties of growing up queer in a small town and still texting each other every day when they finally move away from home

queer love can be queerplatonic partners caring deeply for each other and redefining what a relationship can be

queer love can be a group of friends who bond in middle school, realize years later they’re all gay, and laugh and smile when they reminisce together about how far they’ve come

queer love can be a community coming together to give food, shelter, and unconditional support to a teenager who’s been rejected by his family and has nowhere to go

queer love can be two mothers supporting their daughter as she changes her name and buys the clothes that truly express her gender for the first time

whatever form it takes, queer love is life-changing and revolutionary. 

[renthony]

Hot take but rigid divisions between queer identities and heavily-policed labels that are treated like diagnoses are really, really bad.

Trans men have shared histories with lesbians who have shared histories with bisexual women who have shared histories with ace people who have shared histories with aro people have shared histories with gay men who have shared histories with trans women who have shared histories with nonbinary people who have shared histories with etc etc etc etc etc.

Labels are important for people who want them, but we need to stop treating sexuality and gender as rigid boxes and checklists.

[sonarinsys]

Trauma holders, persecutors, anxious protectors at any time:

[hell-propaganda]

Remove God from office and put bleeding tooth fungus on his throne instead

[hell-propaganda]

guys come practice idol worship with me

[pitbolshevik]

gonna be honest i think some of yall see things like certain sexualities and genders as discourse topics instead of like. qualities a real living human being has.

[pitbolshevik]

this includes asexuality btw

[pitbolshevik]

like if someone mentions being asexual and your first instinct is to drill them on tumblr discourse you are an asshole

[pianta]

angelic (commission)

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