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a welsh comparative literature student/feminist/music and film enthusiast. i live in london. var sc_project=6908871; var sc_invisible=1; var sc_security="3ddba367";

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space inspired looks for valentino pre-fall 2015

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William Strang, Panchita Zorolla, 1916

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  kew gardens, july 2014

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  Hashimoto Okiie 橋本興家 (1899-1993)

Girl and Irises - 1952

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  anila quayyum agha casts a delicate web of shadows with a single light bulb laser-cut wood, single light bulb, 6.5′ square cube / cast shadows – 32′x34′ image courtesy of sarah’s throne

see how the recent artprize 2014 winner exercises the architecture of the gallery with shadow and light here.

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Maurice Sapiro aka Maurice L. Sapiro (b. 1932, NJ, USA) - Moonglow, 2014 | Paintings: Oil

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Astro Coffee - Kinfolk

wall mural dreams

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    Marchesa Spring/Summer 2015(Details)

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Paris Fashion Week, Chanel SS 2013

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Detail of Madonna adoring the sleeping Christ child by Sandro Botticelli

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Lynn Skordal aka paperworker

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Still Life with Zinnias, Vincent van Gogh

1888

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The Basics:

Common Responses to Rape/Sexual Assault(ppt)

Talking About Trauma (ppt)

Traumaversaries

Why You Aren’t Bad for Loving Your Abuser.

Need Help With:

Sleep

Nightmares

Surviving the Holidays (ppt)

Overstimulated Nerves

Self-Injury (ppt)

Flashbacks (ppt)

Dissociating (ppt)

Triggers:

I’m triggered- Now What?

More On Triggers

On Purposely Triggering Yourself

Boundaries:

Boundaries (ppt)

Boundaries 101

Boundaries: How to set them

Self-Care:

What is Self Care Anyway?

BACE Method

Self Care When You Lack a Sense of Self

Interpersonal Self-Care

Emotional Self Care

Physical Self Care

Consent/sex:

Intimacy After Rape

Lets Talk Consent

Lets Talk Sex

Sexuality After Rape

For Friends/Family/Partners of Survivors:

How to Help a Friend Who Has Been Raped.(ppt)

Avoiding Awkward- How to talk about rape when we talk to survivors.(ppt)

Sometimes the easiest thing to say is the worst.

A Friend is Self Harming (ppt)

Comfort In. Complain Out.

What Can I Do?

A Friend is Dissociating.(ppt)

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'Marriage is for Two', 1953. By Robert G. Harris

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La Grande Tapisserie (The Great Tapestry) by Julien des Monstiers, 2013.