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My dad is doing a lot better compared to a few weeks ago. He's able to stand and sit up and walk better. He's even started moving around without the walker now!

He had a doctor appointment today. The doctors were really impressed with his improvements compared to when he was first hospitalized and diagnosed with cancer in November.

Everyone gave him compliments on his hat and snoopy shirt. It put him in such a happy mood, which I haven't seen from him in a long time. He wanted to take a photo in front of the Christmas tree with his Santa hat and funny snoopy shirt. (He LOVES snoopy and Christmas.)

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I'll pass along all comments to him. Maybe I can get him to do a quick thank you video to post later. Thank you to everyone who has reblogged, prayed, or donated. It means so much to him and my family.

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My doctors, aunt, and brothers have shown more concern and desire to help me with my medical issues than my own parents.

My parents are convinced that I'm somehow lying about the pcos and hashimoto's and anxiety and depression and panic disorder and ptsd and adhd. They are even convinced that my eyesight is fine and I'm somehow not lactose intolerant. (Eyesight has been bad since birth. I had glasses as a child but they broke and I couldn't get another. I didn't have glasses for the longest time and my brain just adapted. But when i actually got glasses a few months ago it was amazing how clear everything suddenly was. And I've been lactose intolerant since birth. This is fact. I've had digestive issues my entire life because of it and the pcos. They know this. It's been that way my entire life.) Nothing I say matters. My aunt and brothers have all tried too, and it just falls on deaf ears.

Now they've started calling me a hypochondriac . They say I'm lying and exaggerating for "attention". Even when I was running a fever and could barely move without excruciating pain when that cyst ruptured and my gyn sent me to the ER. Even when both him and the ER doctor confirmed it with multiple ultrasounds and ct scans and the mri scan. They think I'm just being lazy when I say I can't lift 80 pound concrete bags without risking another cyst rupture. Both doctors told me to be careful until I can get that cyst removed, and if another part of it ruptures I could get septic or bleed out internally.

I'm just so angry at them. I could literally break shit. They have the audacity to say that shit and treat me like that, and then demand i buy them groceries and pay their bills. It's fucking insane. After all the shit I've done for them, this is how they treat me.

My mother is the manipulative narcissist and has been manipulating my dad into believing the bullshit lies about me. It's disgusting. I wish I could make him see what she's doing. He's too blinded by his love for her and his own cancer to realize what she's doing. Or he does realize and just doesn't want to fight with her. Either way, it's fucked up and infuriating.

If i had the money and I didn't love my younger brothers, I'd be out of this damn house and cut ties with my mom tomorrow. I'm so sick of this shit.

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