written by michelle1, August 2012
If you want a content and submissive husband, he must be milked. I am not a lifestyle dominant, but grew interested as Richard repeatedly asked to be dominated. So we started to play a game where he would serve me, pick up some of the household chores and focus more attention on my sexual needs. The game worked fine for a few days and then abruptly came to an end. Richard lost interest and we reverted to our usual lives. At my husbands request we have played this game several times, all with promises of life-style change, but none lasting more than a few weeks. The problem for me is that my husband was completely unreliable, as I never knew when he would stop doing his assigned chores. Also any progress I made in taking a leading and dominant role, was reversed at his whim.
At the time I didn’t appreciate the mood change that men have after they orgasm, but this is exactly what was happening to Richard. It didn’t matter if we had sex or if he masturbated, he completely lost interest in submission after ejaculating. Sometimes he’d reluctantly get back into being my slave, but only if I pushed him and threatened him. Most often we drifted back to normal. Then I discovered milking, and started to coax him to release semen without reaching an orgasm. When milked his mood and submission remain the same or even stronger, and as his need to release semen is satisfied, any sexual tension he felt is relaxed. We first tried this about four months ago, and for most of this time he has remained submissive, and works hard in our house and in our bed to please me. He does still miss his orgasm, and has asked for one. But I have explained the danger that he may relapse to his old behavior and neither of us want that. A few months ago he masturbated and orgasmed, he tried to conceal this but it was obvious. It took about two weeks to get back into our routine. I told him to buy a chastity belt and I’ll make him wear it if he ejaculates again.
Milking is easy once you get the hang of it, relax, take your time (about 20 minutes), don’t penetrate too far, just enough to rub against the prostate. Milking is not sex, and should not be confused with it. Do not allow him to get aroused as he may ejaculate if he is erect, talk about vacation or weather or sports but nothing sexual. I strongly suggest you designate a specific milking day and time each week so that your husband doesn’t get anxious about when or if he’s going to feel a release. I also think that having set routines helps to train him into being a better submissive. Get your husband to prepare and wait for you:- take out the lubricant, gloves (if any), anal probe, dish to catch the semen, and have him crouch naked on a towel on the bed. I usually do the milking but sometimes I tell him to do it and sit next to him reading or talking. If I’m busy with other things, I’ll start him off and come back later when he’s done. Don’t stop the process too early, his ejaculate will start to drip after five minutes or so, but you should expect two or more thick flows to dry him out. If you don’t go far enough, he may still be on edge and then there is the danger of masturbation. Once complete I suggest you have him eat his semen. I know that sounds awful, but men expect women to swallow their cum all the time. I find this a strong reinforcement of my power and I think helps my husband to focus on submitting to me.
Sex is a lot easier for us both now as he has no expectation of cuming and I don’t need to worry about satisfying him. We are still extremely intimate and loving, and I feel the bond between us has grown. I usually allow him to enter me, vaginally and anally, as I love the feeling of his hardness inside of me, but he is not permitted to cum. The interesting thing is that he is hard a lot each day, when I tease him and give him rewards, and always if I command him to do something. The only time he’s not allowed to be hard is when he is milked and allowed to releases semen!
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