Fig Jam

- Noel - Chronically sleep deprived -

[bavarde]

[thirstykoala]

Accept that you deserve more than painful love life is moving the healthiest thing for your heart is to move with it

Rupi Kaur (via thirstykoala)

[breanna-lynn]

Teach me how to gracefully let go of things not meant for me.

[theombreone]

Don’t let the mixed signals fool you. Indecision is a decision.

The artidote (via theombreone)

[istanbul1997-deactivated2016031]

things I’ve learned to say to boys: -you’re not funny -don’t talk to me like I’m dumb -I probably know more about this than you do -don’t fucking talk about her like that -I’m not comfortable with this -I don’t owe you anything -you just repeated exactly what I said -no

[suspend]

Love makes you feel out of control. I think that’s how you know it’s right.

-Danny Diamond on That Wedding by Jillian Dodd (via suspend)

I reblogged this before because I agreed with it. I don’t think I feel the same way about this anymore. 

[thirstykoala]

8/21/18

feel so heartbroken.

[halfmoonhead-deactivated2018081]

the whole concept linking being open-minded, liberal, and free-spirited with being sexually available to men and having no sexual boundaries is an absolute tragedy. almost every woman i know has been traumatized or harmed by this ideology in some way, and it is being pushed on girls at increasingly younger ages 

[halfmoonhead-deactivated2018081]

i would also like to point out that the idea that it’s cooler to not be emotionally attached in sexual encounters, not have expectations, etc. and be casual about sex and love is also harmful to women and puts the onus on them to change themselves, to criticize themselves for being loving and feeling things deeply, rather than for men to stop being sex-obsessed and devoid of human emotion

[anxietyhaver2000-deactivated201]

this is one of the reasons the sex-positivity movement turned out to be a failure imo. instead of challenging the status quo it’s creating a new set of standards women have to meet when it comes to relationships and sex. it’s putting pressure on women to subjugate themselves even more to the sexual desires of the men in their lives. it’s just sexism wrapped in a new rhetoric and the way its being marketed as the new ideal the Liberated Woman™ should aspire to is so cynical and disgusting to me 

[thirstykoala]

I feel heavy in my chest and feel really confused because there’s so much affection but also so much neglect at the same time. 

[quotethat]

Until you change your thinking, you will always recycle your experiences.

Unknown (via quotethat)

[nullalibertas-deactivated201612]

Maybe we’ll meet again, when we are slightly older and our minds less hectic, and I’ll be right for you and you’ll be right for me. But right now, I am chaos to your thoughts and you are poison to my heart.

(via bl-ossomed)

[wild-cabins]

Kyle Finn Dempsey

[thirstykoala]

I have been taking notes and working so hard and yet I end up crying every other night. I don’t deserve this I don’t deserve this I don’t deserve this. I deserve affirmation and love. 

[drxgonfly]

Cascadia III (by Cody Cobb)

[hatin]

Everyone says love hurts, but that is not true. Loneliness hurts,rejection hurts. Losing someone hurts. Envy hurts. Everyone gets these things confused with love, but in reality love is the only thing in this world that covers up all the pain and makes someone feel wonderful again. Love is the only thing in this world that does not hurt.

Liam Neeson - (hatin)

[wnq-writers]

You can miss places. You can miss people. Just know that what you’re really missing is the way things were. And even if you could go there again…. see them again…. you can’t go back. They’re not the same. You’re not the same. The loss of them changed you.

Ranata Suzuki (via wnq-writers)

[uptional]