genuinely against ableism

blog posting others ableism experience

[this-is-actual-ableism]

!WELCOME TO THIS IS ACTUAL ABLEISM!

(flag picture made by me its a edited version of the anti ableism flag)

hello everyone! i made this blog because the two other ableism blogs support endogenic which... is ableism SYSTEMS ARE DISABLED TOO AND SHOULD BE TAKEN JUST AS SERIOUSLY AS ANY OTHER DISORDER. so i got sick of it and made this blog!

WHO RUNS THIS BLOG?

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the only mod who runs this is a physically disabled OSDD system, call me mono (she/it +neos ill put them l8r)

send in asks of ANY ableism you been through and ill post every single one, non disabled people can interact too but please dont speak over disabled people, questions are okay but dont do stuff thatll be harmful to disabled people anything mean will be deleted.

PEOPLE WHO CANT INTERACT.

[plaintext: people who cant interact.]

(pro/neu) endogenic/tulpagenic/willogenic

radqueers/transid

proshippers

T.R.A.S.H

MAGA cult

if you dont fall under these you are free to interact

!we accept all kinds of ableism btw against any form of disabilities!

thats all for now-

[this-is-ramcoa]

!!this is ramcoa!!

this is a blog specific to ramcoa survivors to speak out and share their experience and to spread information about ramcoa and oea

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꒰ঌwho are we?໒꒱

we are a osdd system, you can call us either mono or carmen (unless a name is specified in a post) it/its please unless we specify different pronouns in a post

we arent ramcoa we think but we are questioning as we are remembering more of our childhood but we arent comfortable enough to say we are for our own personal reasons, we want to spread as much information we can about this so victims are seen and get the help they need if possible! cults, trafficking and any organized abuse isnt a conspiracy, its not a theory, its not propaganda or lies they are real situations kids and many people are in and knowing the signs or atleast knowing its happening can save lives.

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꒰ঌDNI໒꒱

endo/willo/tulpas (and if you support the hategroup. endos and willos started out as hate groups that discredited ramcoa.)

radqueer

system cringe users same with fake disorder cringe

ramcoa non believers

T.R.A.S.H

maga

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blog ran by anti-willo-nekomura

also asks and anons are always on!!

[this-is-actual-ableism]

Actual ableism is games not having visual accessibility aids and auditory accessibility aids.

This may seem like not a big deal, but it makes a difference to people who have visual or auditory impairments.

Ex: games that can be dark not having a light mode, games not having subtitles/auditory cues

this is actual ableism and its so annoying too cause subtitles can be beneficial for everyone so why not add themm??

[anti-willo-nekomura]

i think its important that ramcoa/oea is talked about more and have more support for the victims.

it is sick that whenever its talked about its always "its a conspiracy though!!" or "we wont go deep in detail as its to scary and triggering!!" like yes i get you dont want to trigger anyone but knowledge is so fucking important and knowing the signs to help people and if you are someone who know you will be triggered by it then dont read it til you know you can also about the "conspiracy" part is fucking wild, what part of cults and trafficking is a conspiracy?? are you saying the ant hill kids never happened? what jefferey epstine did never happened? because that is ramcoa!! those happen and they still are happening and denying it is only hurting the victims and making it so SO hard for them to get out of that situation and get help.

we need more sources to spread awareness and we need more resources on it and so the victims can get help.

i want to make a side blog so people who went throuhg this can speak up and spread awareness too, if i do ill post it here and i also am going to make a masterpost of the information i have on it already with sites, i really hope one day cults, trafficking and any kind of organized abuse ends and the people affected gets the help they need and fully recover.

[this-is-actual-ableism]

My mom refusing to believe someone is an ambulatory mobility aid user unless she sees them using their aids in a hospital setting and shit talking them to me.

This is the reason I haven’t told her about how I’m an ambulatory cane user and that my dr said I’ll have to be, and should already be, an ambulatory wheelchair user.

this is actual ableism.

[this-is-actual-ableism]

Ableism is when I talk about having HSD and the only responses I get:

“So you mean you can do gymnastics?”

“You can’t do the splits but you’re hypermobile enough to have a disorder? You’re faking. Everyone’s a little hypermobile”

“Oh so it’s not as severe as EDS. You don’t need these ring splits and canes then”

Bro do they not even realize… most experts agree that G-HSD and hEDS might be the same thing genetically and even if they weren’t… the symptoms are nearly identical minus a few differences. HSD is a disability mate, it even has “disorder” at the end. Let me be disabled in peace 😭

this is actual ableism and people not using their brains, if its called a DISORDER then maybe its a, idk, DISORDER??

[this-is-actual-ableism]

ableism is when people call July "Pride Month 2.0"

people do that???

[this-is-actual-ableism]

it pisses me off when people make a big deal out of people not being able to do stuff like ride a bike or swim, even without a physical disability. i have dyspraxia, a balance/motor skills disorder (along with trauma relating to water) and will probably never do either. no its not ‘easy’ no i cant just ‘learn how’ and even if i didnt have a disorder it wouldnt be a big issue that i dont know how anyway

THIS IS ACTUAL ABLEISM. i cant ride a bike due to a disability and because something that happened while i was learning to (not going in detail.) and people freak out about it all the time and somehow that makes me a selfish asshole?? people need to learn not everyone will know or want to learn to do something.

[this-is-actual-ableism]

ableism is people who make those stupid house md jokes any time they see someone with a cane or someone with lupus. a disability aid and a serious illness are not references to your fucking medical show

this is actual ableism

[this-is-actual-ableism]

I genuinely don’t know if this counts but I’m always told “Use simpler words” or “Stop using big words to sound smarter” but I genuinely can’t help it. I’m hyperverbal so the words just spill out of me and more advanced words feel more natural in my vocabulary.

this is actual ableism.

[this-is-actual-ableism]

Ever since I got diagnosed with auADHD, my parents are used to treat me like "my autism is too mild" because I'm high-functioning and I have more IQ than average, and I'm not like their stereotype of "non-verbal kid who is going throught hell and cannot function". They treat my disorders like it's curable. Their whole argument revolve around "just be normal and make eye contact". Their thoughts are rooted in ableism. They always joke about my autistic traits and make fun of me until I get overwhelmed and angry and snap. They know I struggle with identifying my emotions or handling them, so they are always doing stuff they know it will make me mad and when I get angry or cry from stress, I am told I'm a horrible kid and say they hate me.

My parents have been doing this since forever, before and after diagnosis. I'm sure this is some kind of ableism.

this I'd actual ableism

I hope you can get out of their soon :(

[this-is-actual-ableism]

small rant

So I'm not diagnosed with anything, but I have some pain (a bit on the milder side, but REALLU uncomfortable) alongside gettihrg very easily lightheaded and yadda yadda. I'm usually reaching out to walls and furniture and I need to sit down like every 5 seconds. I REALLY want to use a cane but I feel weird for wanting that. Like it would be helpful and all, but I can walk and my pain isn't super mega severe. The evil bug in my brain tells me I'm no better than a """transabled""" :P

if you have pain thats disabling then you are disabled, a diagnosis doesnt give you symptoms you arent transabled or near that!!

if the pain gets to the point of needing a cane then you should get one and try getting it checked out i hope its nothing to bad!

[this-is-cdd-ableism]

Hey mod since you've talked about giving the blog away to someone with a cdd since you don't have a cdd would you consider running a more general ableism blog instead? I just wish I had somewhere to talk about non cdd ableism I'm affected by without the looming knowledge that the blog runner is themselves a ablest

dunno if these asks are connected but theyre close enough. ive got a new mod [new but its been like maybe two months now since theyve joinedd idk i aint checkin] helping out now so im not considering giving this blog away right now, and not to mention ive been extremely lazy when it ccomes to running an ask blog so idk if id be well equipped to start another, but that is interesting me, ive also wanted to make a questioning system asks blog since all the others are pro endo. i know ive seen an ableism blog or two around but idk if theyre active anymore?

if someone does want to take up the task or wants to share some other blog they know exists, comment or send an ask. if not maybe id consider it

[this-is-actual-ableism]

this is a general ableism blog that's against endo bs lol but if you do want a mod with a cdd I wouldn't mind modding with you!!

[this-is-actual-ableism]

hello! I am a cult survivor and I would like to POLITELY! request you stop referring to MAGA as a cult, as it waters down the definition of cult and aids in the ability for actual cult survivors to not be taken seriously. I, as a disabled system due to the cult i survived, argue that it is ableist to refer to things that are not cults as cults as it further separates our language.

yes, MAGA is a hate group and it can be very harm to leave once the propaganda is spread, but cults are a specific type of abuse organization that involve types of abuse typically classified as torture and brainwashing. MAGA does not involve this, it is a hate grouo with propaganda and severely dangerous ideology but it is not a cult and again I would just like to point out that using incorrect terminology contributes to our already small and dwindling set of existing vocabulary to explain our experiences being appropriated for situations it does not apply to.

thank you ^_^

I'm sorry I didn't know it was harmful!! I was calling it that since I've seen a lot of people calling it that and a friend of mine who did survive that kind of stuff comparing it to cults also from what I've seen it like with how my family treats it, from now on though I won't call it that and educate myself better on cult related things and if anyone who survived cults want to teach me I'm open to it!

(Actually been wanting to learn mode about people growing up in cults to understand them better and be able to help more and give better resources so if you are or know anything about cult survivors, ramcoa, anything related please dm me!! I want to be a psychologist to help people who went through that)

[this-is-actual-ableism]

things that annoy me as a visually impaired person (w/ nystagmus, low depth perception, and low night vision)

- when everyone gets pissy if i turn on the lights because adjusting to the light is mildly annoying to them so i have to stumble around unable to see

- if i can’t see or read what they’re trying to show me fast enough people are annoyed but if i just pretend to have seen it they are offended

- “you need new glasses” “i just got glasses they only fix my astigmatism” “hmm…weird…”

- since i don’t have depth perception i can’t tell how far away things are and run into things/drop things a lot, i also tend to walk closer to the wall or counters/tables or whatever than i intend to and so my mom thinks im incompetent (i also got accused of “throwing things into the floor” a lot as a child aka i have tourette’s and dyspraxia). she doesn’t think im “actually disabled” despite being diagnosed with multiple disabilities once i turned 18 and started scheduling doctors appointments which she never took me to as a child…

- “disability friendly” discord servers vs their annoying ass verification systems where you have to find their password deliberately hidden in the rules (so that even people who can see will have trouble finding it) and i can’t usually even find it with my screenreader because it’s often intentionally misspelled (so that people can’t search “password” and find it ig) and my screenreader doesn’t read text marked as a spoiler unless i deliberately click on it which i can’t do if i don’t know where it is

- “OMG YOU USE LIGHT MODE??? my eyes 😭😭🤣🤣 WEBSITES SHOULD REMOVE LIGHT MODE WHO USES IT” <—- person who gets their sense of humor from reddit.

- custom color palettes being behind a paywall (able bodied people get to see for free)

- those fuck ass fonts (can’t read them with or without a screenreader 😭. “why don’t screen readers add them?” because they are actual unicode characters)

- people practicing their creative writing skills in the alt text instead of accurately describing the image. write everything a reader would need to understand the context of the rest of your post/article/whatever and potentially the comments

- carrds/google docs/strawpage etc that are impossible to read bonus points if they are seizure/migraine inducing

this is actual ableism, for the fonts thing I think it's fine if people use them since some things are made judt for the person making them or with a certain look in mind and I've also accepted people arent always gonna think of everyone while making something and honestly it's whatever, BUT it's ableist when someone tells them to add alt text and they refuse to and are mean about it.

[this-is-actual-ableism]

Actual ableism is my caretaker continuously threatening to take my shower chair when I upset her no matter how mildly or accidentally. Then one from growing up that it only just hit me a few days ago was a sneaky ableist insult disguised as a joke/compliment "you have the mind of a fish" because I was good at picking out bait and lures for fishing.

this I'd actual ableism and judt weird.

[this-is-actual-ableism]

Ableism is when people make it out that people who are disabled can't be bad people too.. Brother, I met a autistic person online who is also a proshipper and is married to a necrophile--

EXACTLY THIS. Anyone is capable of being a bad person, disabled or not they can harm others and be shitty asses. Trying to deny that because their disabled is ableist and enabling.