Hi! Do you know what aspects or placements in synastry that can make it hard to forget each other? I’m thinking 12h stuff but is there more?
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❀ venus-pluto (mostly conjunct): with this aspect, especially if it's conjunct, the venus and pluto person feel intense emotions for the other even when they're not together. the pluto person sometimes wants to control the venus person so that they only look and think about them. this aspect makes the two feel drawn to each other especially when they share 8h synastry.
❀ pluto 12h overlay: the pluto person consumes the house persons mind and can pretty much manipulate them into thinking whatever they want. the pluto persons words constantly echo in the back of the house persons mind which makes it hard for them to forget. the house person can also sense when the pluto person is hiding things from them especially in their dreams. if the pluto person lies, the house person will likely be warned in their dreams. the pluto person probably transforms the house persons mindset for better or for worse.
❀ 12h synastry: this synastry is the most unforgettable simply because the 12h rules the subconscious but we all know that. planets that overlay in the 12h are sure to make you dream or think about the person years after knowing them/leaving them. especially if you have 8h synastry, you won't be able to get this person out of your head and you'll always remember either the pain they caused or the happy times you two shared. with this synastry it could also be hard to let go of the person since you'll feel like you have a special connection with them.
❀ 8h synastry: this synastry on its own is already powerful since it causes obsession so when you have this overlay with someone you might be prone to stalking or lurking on their social media or vice versa. you won't be able to forget this person because of the intense and vulnerable emotions you two shared. this is the synastry where you feel safe yet scared to share your true raw emotions so it's definitely one to remember forever. people you share this synastry with are often made to teach you a lesson- one you'll never forget.
❀ south node synastry: these are people from our past.. and i don't mean child hood, i mean past life. when you have south node conjunct or opposite someone's personal planets (sun, moon, mercury, venus or ascendant) it'll feel like they understand you the best but there's also a feeling that they're holding you back. they make you remember the "old" you that you thought you'd grown from. it's hard to forget these people because you feel so familiar with them like "where have you been all my life??" but the problem is that these people are also made to teach you a lesson. the lesson is most likely to leave things in the past but we never forget our past, we simply move on to better things.
❀ 2nd house synastry: my personal favorite. this is the synastry for people who'll hype you up and make you feel oh so good about yourself. they know exactly what to say to cheer you up and they're usually the people to tell you what you want to hear. this house synastry can also cause possessiveness and you'll want to be around this person all the time since they raise your self esteem and make you feel great. when you're apart, you lose the "high"you feel when you're with them and so this synastry is unforgettable because you start to think that no one can lift you up like they can. you feel secure and safe with this person.
❀ venus-lilith (mostly conjunct): this aspect is for that secretive relationship that feels so taboo and probably is. the attraction lilith feels for venus is so deep yet toxic and lilith is repulsed yet can't keep her eyes off venus. lilith is like "what is it about her??" there's definitely obsession with this aspect and venus could feel trapped really fast. there is sooo much sexual tension and attraction that this aspect is simply unforgettable.
❀ moon-mars (opposite or conjunct): the mars person feels the moon persons emotions so intensely and can amplify them in a way. their emotions are either blown out of proportion or they can easily calm them down. this aspect is unforgettable because of the sheer amount of emotions the mars and moon person evoke in each other.
❀ 4h synastry: these are the people from your childhood, the people who represent your family and your mother so ofc it's hard to forget these people. they were the ones you told everything to, the ones you sat at home and binge watched movies with, the ones you always hung out with and face timed. when they're gone you feel a sense of wistfulness, a sense of longing for them to come back because you found your home in a person.
❀ moon-pluto: this is similar to moon-mars aspects except the pluto person kinda forces the moon person to express their deepest feelings. the moon person feels extremely vulnerable with the pluto person but has no idea why and they can't help but spill their deepest and darkest secrets. it's hard to forget this person because you start to realize you've never told anyone the things you told this person. they make you feel emotions you never thought you could feel and they make your chest burn (sometimes in a good way).
❀ neptune-ascendant (conjunct): with this aspect if you're the neptune person then you've probably idealized the ascendant person to no return. they most likely seem perfect in your eyes. it's as if they can do no wrong. if you're the ascendant person it's like you're waving at the neptune person in their face but it's foggy so they don't see you, they only see you for what they romanticized you to be. it's hard for the neptune person to forget the ascendant person since they most likely believed them to be a perfect person or "the one that got away".
❀ mars in 1st house overlay: this overlay can cause a lot of sexual attraction and sexual tension at first sight causing you to be unable to forget each other. beware tho, because with this overlay one or both of you can be prone to over sexualizing the other and that could result in some unfavorable memories.
❀ sun-pluto aspects: this aspect, especially when it's conjunct causes a magnetic feeling between both people. the pluto person knows how to attract the sun person and they're intrigued by the pluto persons presence. they seem familiar but you can't quite put your finger on it.
❀ ascendant-ascendant aspects (harmonious): this aspect is kind of a "love at first sight" aspect but minus the love. it's like you two just click the moment you speak to each other. you two either have a very similar way of life or way of viewing life and it's just so easy to talk and accept the other for who they are. it's hard to forget the initial sparks that fly when you both are starting to get to know each other.
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