Thoughts From My Inkwell

Just a girl with a blog , trying to figure it all out [instagram @lifeofbriancajay]

[blackkennyg]

[ofngg7]

Real niggas will never leak the nudes

[jayywesst]

NEVER 

[thelovejournals]

people go but how they leave always stays.

Rupi Kaur (via wnq-writers)

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

I have learned that when sadness comes to visit me, all I can do is say “I see you.” I spend some time with it, get up, and say goodbye. I don’t push it away. I own it. And because I own it, I let it go.

Carolina Zacaria (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

Facts.

(via damisharae)

[cassandracalin]

[allureable]

[prettyandmean]

Eat my pussy as a friend😩😢

[inneedofyounow]

Reblog if your Tumblr page is your little secret!

[queen-of-fuxkin-everything]

Reblog in honor of all the innocent girls who are complete freaks behind closed doors 😈😍😩

[prettyphatandsassy-deactivated2]

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[lavenderhealing-deactivated2024]

Men are socialized since birth to think their feelings and thoughts are the objective truth. 

They are taught they are generally right about something, unless contradicted by another male with equal or more authority. Men subconsciously believe they are firmly right about things so much they won’t even consider alternative perspectives unless it comes from a place of higher authority.

Men are socialized to believe women are inherently wrong, and that is why women are “crazy”, because it is so difficult for men to even consider the possibility that they don’t know shit. 

This is why men often offer strong opinions on topics they just heard about, especially if they’re contradicting a woman. 

This is because people will respect a man’s opinion and give his words weight even if he has zero background in the subject because men are considered credible by default. 

Women are considered wrong by default and must argue their way to display their truth, no matter how strong their credentials.

Men probably have to tell themselves they’re logical all the time just to keep up the lie that feeds their ego. 

Thinking is difficult work for a man who is used to instantly being told he is right, while women are constantly being argued against and therefore exploring the topics more deeply and doing more thinking.

 this excellent summary of the problem is from witwitch - please write more!

[ofngg7]

Real niggas will never leak the nudes

[jayywesst]

NEVER 

[thelovejournals]

That’s what careless words do. They make people love you a little less.

Arundhati Roy, The God of Small Things (via thelovejournals)

[fonzworthcutlass]

When will somebody call me spittin game like Alicia Keys called ol boy in “You Don’t Know My Name”?

[imsoshive]

“Hey, it’s the cashier at the Popeyes on 1st. You come in every Tuesday and get three two piece specials just for yourself. We only supposed to give you one biscuit but I give you two cause … I think you kinda sweet.”

[shadowcat]

[thoughtsfrommyinkwell]

Each experience woven into a tapestry that is human existence

[thoughtsfrommyinkwell]

I remember falling in love with everything and everyone , I grew some and shunned that love deciding let that it wasn't love at all, but then I grew some more and found that loves comes in various forms and costumes but it is still love and each is as important as the next