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Chinese government looking into Autism...

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Totally me… 

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Totally Asperger...

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When I’m happy or interested in/passionate about something, I get very lively, excited and loud. I talk and talk and move and spin and jump etc… until the person I’m talking to begs me to calm down, be less enthusiastic. I definitely hate that actually. I don’t want to be less than I actually am. I’m myself in my "too much". 

When I need to be in my own world, lost in my thoughts, when I don’t really feel the need to talk because I often enjoy more the presence of someone around than really communicate with words, the person I’m with starts to worry and would like me to "wake up". And when I "wake up"… it’s the #1 case.  I constantly have the feeling that I can’t be myself fully. I obsessively think about what to do and how, persuade myself that whatever I do it’s gonna be wrong and that I will end up in a frustration… unless I’m with "people like me". Then, everything is smooth. 

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the Asperger Syndrome...

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trying to explain asperger to my parents

Dad: so he cant see that Im mad at him?

Me: No you have to tell him ,he cant "interpret" it by his own, its something he has to learn continuously

Dad: give me an example.

Me:...um

Dad: what can and can he not interpret??

Me: when u see a cat, can u interpret if its sad or not?

Dad: N-no

Me: its sorta like that, you have to learn that when it flickers its tail its angry...Aspergers is like being a different type of ...

Dad: so he is like a cat?

MoM: WHY ARE YOU SAYING THAT HE IS A CAT??

Me: Im not! Im just saying...(sigh) you know all cats have asperger, they have to be told not to get on the table, if you dont tell them they will get on the table, you know??

MOM: he is not a cat!

Me: he isnt but ...~endless frustration~

I dont mean to be offensive.

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Letting you know more about Asperger

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I used to be honest.  Where’s that .gif from Steel Magnolias where Clairee says “Looks like two pigs fighting under a blanket!"  Now I have learned to reply “How do you feel? Do YOU like it?"  You really don’t want to know what I think anyway. 

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Asperger has the tendency to be absolutely honest!

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i asked josh what he’s getting me for father’s day and he said “the red present”, no idea where he was going with that but i’m hoping it means he’s going to be good all day #wishfulthinking #singlemom #momlife #autism #autismawareness

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Youtube user TheAnMish talks about the positives of autism.

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vensre replied to your post: My mom promised to make us a pizza by 8 o’clock. And, when I was finished watching 1 episode of Touch, I looked at the clock, and it was 19:45. I went down to my mom, and there was no pizza there, she haven’t even began. So I wen’t up to my room again, and...

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Just reminding you all that Autism is great ! 

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REBLOG if you could love someone with autism, aspergers, or the like.

I always see “reblog if you would love someone with self harm scars, anxiety, depression, suicidal tendencies, ect.” but honestly, I worry more about this. I may be able to love who I am, but I don’t think I or anyone else could ever love someone like me. Prove me wrong please.

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It’s been over a year - close to 14 months, I think - and it’s very very very past time.

I hate doing this so much; it sets off about twenty triggers for me (strangers, people touching me, change, lots of smells, crowded, mechanical things all over the place, my head feels like it weighs too...

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It takes extraordinary courage for autistic people to lead lives which are true to ourselves. Too often, we are taught that we succeed only by doing what others expect of us. I know that people teach us those lessons in an effort to keep us safe. There have to be ways to keep us safe that do not result in us regretting our lives.

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What is love?

Today my grandmother was on the phone with my 15 year old autistic brother and he asked her what she thought love was, my nan didn’t really have much of an answer other than its someone you care about. My brother then replied saying “no that’s not love, love is having friends and family who you would die for & I would die for you and my sister because I love you… That’s what love is.”

I have never been so touched by anything in my life before.

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Sometimes, to get things vitally important to my sanity, I have to be an ASSHOLE.

Submitted by: am-i-autistic

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My best buddy Sarah and I at the senior best buddy dinner :)

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Me and Luke