Look what you've done now I'm a mess

gabe. he/xe, 22

[todo-morira]

Hi I'm Gabe!

Please ask before following if you're younger than 15 or older than 27. Current mutuals or followers are free to stay.

I'm transmasc so I will be talking about trans issues. I am also latino indigenous so I will talk about that as well occasionally. (May give more info if we're friends but I have paranoia so probably not)

I block if your blog is blank. Sorry. Can't tell if you're a bot or not.

I always follow back unless your blog has something I don't wanna look at, in which case I won't or just block if I really don't want to see it.

Feel free to spam reblog/like as you please. It brings me joy when people do!

Oh and be sure to tell me if you want something tagged.

As a warning, I do use the f slur, t slur and queer as descriptors for MYSELF and tend not to tag them. This includes, on occasion, forgetting to tag it on reblogged posts. Just a warning.

Personal tag is "revolving thoughts" feel free to block it.

I also tag nsfw posts as "nsfw mention" so if you're minor/Don't wanna see that, block it.

Don't expect any consistent content. Interests you may see are:

Idkhbtfm

The brobecks

All legend of zelda

Mp100

Mcr

Danger Days universe

Like if you read!

[trans4trans]

support a disabled trans woman of color for pride month 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍⚧️

this pride month it would be awesome if people could commission my wife so that we can work on moving out from her transphobic family. payment will go through my paypal (she isn't comfortable putting her deadname on the internet) and more details on how to commission + samples of her music can be found on her carrd. please share, thank you!

meddlingmage music Commissions

meddlingmage Music Commissions

if you would like to throw us a couple of bucks without commissioning to add to our moving out fund, i have linked my cashapp here and my venmo here. thanks again :)

[miniaturize]

the concept of a site that doesn't even allow porn requiring age verification for mature content. you gotta give us your legal id or else we'll hide random posts that were incorrectly flagged from you

[captain-price-returns]

[dreadwedge]

As a transsexual woman 👩 who has had multiple experiences ‼️ I have found 🔎 that the biggest block of cheese 🧀 is usually the one ☝️ that has the largest size 📈

[dreadwedge]

mature content

[chingaderita]

I'm going to lose my healthcare!!!

Our last post isn't moving

Hola, i'm Calli, a nonbinary mexican parent. Both my partner and I are chronically ill, we're the main providers for our family of 9, that includes his mom, dad and sister because they lost everything in a fire back in November 2023. TW for the house after the fire

We are poor and unemployed, all adults have some chronic condition and we live constantly exposed to mold, rust and other issues the house has. The landlord does jackshit but sure comes to collect rent every now and then.

To top it off i have been getting harrassed by racist unkind people here, making me suicidal.

My blog's archive proving i have been here since 2013, the first post i ever reblogged.

https://chingaderita.tumblr.com/archive/2013/5

A friend and mutual offered to help through comissions Friend is taking time off to finish commissions and rest

I'm adding my friend's comission sheet above with a picture the vet sent us with Kobeni, the anemic cat we took in our care who needs to get neutered and vet care. Also tracked down some interactions i've had throughout the years and a cropped screenshot of the email asking me to pay my healthcare monthly renewal before May 20th.

I sometimes share recipes too!

*And I tracked down a lot of comments I've made through the years even as far as 2016. Ask for them in dms cause I think that's overkill honestly. DONT EVER CALL ME A BOT, FUCK YOU!!!!*

We are running out of food, our safe foods, medications for chronic ailments like insulin and more, i need to pay my healthcare before may 20th and we need to pay $1,000 of rent for april/may. And my partner caught a flu, he needs a doctor but we have no money.

Of course we need to get a testosterone shot before Thursday so our eldest can continue transitioning, we're also accepting help affording a binder or getting a second hand one.

I have been offering spanish conversation classes online for $12 usd/hr.

$1000/$1,000+

$0/$1,000 rent

PAYPAL KOFI THRONE

*We made a throne to show some needs we have but usually don't get because we focus on food and bills, we're behind on rent and bills and need groceries so money would help us even more.

EDITED may 25th: thank you so much we got enough to cover a lot of basics, I can't thank you enough, we had a long conversation here to decide if we would use it for rent or to get groceries, meds, afford water for all our needs and tend to our cats.

We still need to get the bed frame for the king sized bed and rent before May 31st

[chingaderita]

I know this has a lot of notes but we have nothing to put forward for rent and we haven't been able to work at all all month due to illness and unemployment.

[stargoyle]

Big announcement:

Fucking petting hims

[roseroyalty-moving]

when u touch an unaware cat and they make that small surprised sound reblog if u agree

[roseroyalty-moving]

[xenasaur]

the way ppl talk about latinas is kind of very gross if I'm being honest

[xenasaur]

they're like reverse Asians bro they're all stacked and they're fiery mamacitas who you can break like a horse and make into domestic servants who love family

[xenasaur]

"bro I need a big booty latina" bro I need you to kill yourself

[dailycatsblog]

[quietwingsinthesky]

its so weird to me that cis people will dislike their name so ardently and yet. not change it. you guys know that’s an option, right. no one can make you keep the shit name your mom gave you. no, not even her.

[penrosesun]

One of my friends in undergrad changed his name because he didn’t want to bear the name of his abusive and absent father. It’s been years since he did it, and he still says that it was the single best decision of his life.

One of my friends in high school changed his named as soon as he turned 18, so that the ethnic name his family gave him was finally the name reflected on all of his paperwork. He told me that he understood why his parents had given him an “English” name, but that he felt that if he needed to assimilate in order to succeed, then that was a type of success that he didn’t want.

When I was on my way home from the courthouse after changing my own name, I got into a conversation with my rideshare driver, who was extremely interested once I told him what I was in court for, and wanted to know how I’d done it, how much it cost, was it difficult, etc. It turned out that his girlfriend had chosen the name “Yo-yo” when she came to the United States, unaware of how rare that was as a name, and that she was frequently made fun of because of it. Neither one of them had realized that a name change was so easy, and he told me he was excited to let her know that she had options.

There was an intern at a summer job I had once, who changed her name to be the same name, but a different spelling. She said that she had no idea why her parents had spelled her name so oddly to begin with, and suspected that it was just an honest mistake either by them or by some nurse, but it had been a headache for her entire life, and it was a huge relief to not need to be correcting people’s spelling on important documents anymore.

One of my exes legally changed his name to have an exclamation point, because he liked to sign his name with an exclamation point.

You can always change your name if you don’t like it. You always have that option. It doesn’t matter why – it can be conformist or anti-assimilationist, serious or silly, a minor change or a major change. Your name is yours, and you have every right to change it to be whatever you want.

[depsidase]

[fairycosmos]

accidentally got stuck in a compulsive thought loop instead of living any sort of life

[cryptotheism]

I always wanted to be the guard that tells only lies

[cryptotheism]

I mean I've actually never wanted to be that.

[cryptotheism]

Stupid stupid stupid. C'mon. At this rate I'll never be a lie guard.

[dogpuppy]

[possuminnit]

cant do the mutual first memory rb game because i genuinely cant remember anything. i dont know you were all my mutuals at birth. we were joined by the stars and by blogging

[possuminnit]

m,y first memory is that I Loved You and do still

[meanbuddhist]

well well well if it isn’t the obvious truth which i have been running away from as fast as i possibly can all this time

[traaansfem]

F

[kudouusagi]

dog