2/2 I used to love this ship in the early stages but I despise drama and toxicity and it's most of what I come across unfortunatley. I rarely interact with other shippers because of it. It makes me feel sick to my stomach. Was what happened a bit insensitive? Maybe, depending on what this ship means to some. But homophobic? No. We all know canon wise Kara and Lena are just friends. And there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.
2. and i do agree that they could have gone about it a different way, perhaps laughing and signing about it came off insensitive. But, I will hold my ground [ as someone who is not straight ] in saying that they were not being homophobic. They were specifically talking about the supercorp shippers. Who, historically, are the ones who bullied Chris Wood to the point of him disappearing from social media for a while ( and it probably had a lot to do with why he canceled that one con appearance), who stalked Katie’s brother to the point of him going on a twitter rant and refusing to ever discuss Kate again because he was basically afraid of internet freaks, and even Jeremy, I heard, was bullied off twitter for a while.
I personally do not think you can do that to people and then expect them to treat you with respect.
But thank you for this <3 just know that even though it seems like the fans are overwhelmingly against us, you are not alone in feeling the way you do! Feel free to come into my inbox any time.










